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Another reason not to get married
« on: October 28, 2014, 09:52:06 AM »
Oh lawd



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Re: Another reason not to get married
« Reply #1 on: October 28, 2014, 10:01:04 AM »
i can give u 1000 reasons not to get married, broads r all evil and want to control us by pussy power.once u are able to break the spell of pussy power u r indeed a free man and the truth shall set u free
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Re: Another reason not to get married
« Reply #2 on: October 28, 2014, 10:01:42 AM »
What a fucking slut...

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Re: Another reason not to get married
« Reply #3 on: October 28, 2014, 10:07:48 AM »
i can give u 1000 reasons not to get married, broads r all evil and want to control us by pussy power.once u are able to break the spell of pussy power u r indeed a free man and the truth shall set u free


x1000. Am 30 and plan on NEVER getting married. I've seen too many dudes lives fucked by divorce. No thanks.

Love women, but don't love them enough to marry them. FUCK THAT !

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Re: Another reason not to get married
« Reply #4 on: October 28, 2014, 10:10:23 AM »
I'll give you 2m reasons why not to marry..

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Re: Another reason not to get married
« Reply #5 on: October 28, 2014, 10:10:48 AM »
I have seen it so many times.  A man gets divorced and loses his house and the good car to his wife. He has to dish out monthly money to his wife and kids. Now he's broke he goes from living in a nice house to living like a rat in poorly furnished apartment.

 Now he's an older guys with little disposable income and no house. The women barely look at him. He finds most of his friends fall to the way side because their wives side with his ex.

The wife on the other hand starts dating like mad going on dating sites and getting fixed up from her girlfriends. She has a nice house and money coming in from the husband. Whenever she wants to have wild weekends she drops off the kids to her husband if the kids are young. Her face book blows up with pictures of her partying at clubs, restaurants, casinos, male strip clubs, and weekend getaways. She is smiling like a lunatic in all her pictures as she loves the attention from all the younger men that want to bang her.

When the husband goes to pick up the kids he waits while they get ready. Her boyfriend pulls up in his car that he had to give up in the divorce with a 12 pack of beer. He sits in his favorite spot and opens beer watching the game on the big screen tv that ex husband worked over time to afford.

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Re: Another reason not to get married
« Reply #6 on: October 28, 2014, 10:13:57 AM »

x1000. Am 30 and plan on NEVER getting married. I've seen too many dudes lives fucked by divorce. No thanks.

Love women, but don't love them enough to marry them. FUCK THAT !

no matter how cool a girlfreind is they all change bro when u get married, its like they think a ring on their finger means u r a prisoner in jail and they r the warden. if i could do it all over i would never get married man,i envy u bro caus u r still free, i got 8 yr old son that loves me,hes not old enough to realize his old man is a loser so he looks up to me,im ready to split cause when he realizes im a fucking failure he will turn on me also. wish i could get the balls up to slice my wrist and end this shit
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Re: Another reason not to get married
« Reply #7 on: October 28, 2014, 10:14:24 AM »
Social media and the internet are the #1 cause of the skyrocketing divorce rate.

Makes it super easy for sluts to slut, and there 10 million guys willing to fawn over ever woman for a chance of pussy, regardless of how ugly or fat she is. Suddenly every woman thinks theyre a 10 and are entitled to everything theyve ever wanted because theres 60 dudes on their facebook telling them how hot they are..

That said, if a slut is going to slut, better off she does it and the guy finds out sooner rather than it happening after 20 years if marriage.

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Re: Another reason not to get married
« Reply #8 on: October 28, 2014, 10:18:38 AM »
I have seen it so many times.  A man gets divorced and loses his house and the good car to his wife. He has to dish out monthly money to his wife and kids. Now he's broke he goes from living in a nice house to living like a rat in poorly furnished apartment.

 Now he's an older guys with little disposable income and no house. The women barely look at him. He finds most of his friends fall to the way side because their wives side with his ex.

The wife on the other hand starts dating like mad going on dating sites and getting fixed up from her girlfriends. She has a nice house and money coming in from the husband. Whenever she wants to have wild weekends she drops off the kids to her husband if the kids are young. Her face book blows up with pictures of her partying at clubs, restaurants, casinos, male strip clubs, and weekend getaways. She is smiling like a lunatic in all her pictures as she loves the attention from all the younger men that want to bang her.

When the husband goes to pick up the kids he waits while they get ready. Her boyfriend pulls up in his car that he had to give up in the divorce with a 12 pack of beer. He sits in his favorite spot and opens beer watching the game on the big screen tv that ex husband worked over time to afford.

Jesus christ, man !! What a downer post ! But so fuckin true !!! :D

Work with a couple of guys who were successful business owners, and lost EVERYTHING after the divorce. Had to start from the ground up. Feel really sorry for them both because they're both great guys. :/

One of them told me, "Only marry if you are CERTAIN you want to have kids with her. " But I'm not even certain that's the best course of action these days ...

Single now, but have been in quite a few relationships throughout my life. And I'm NOT perfect, but I SWEAR to god every single one of my exes is fuckin loopy ! And every single one of them changes for the worst after the " romance " period. Less sex, more demands, more attitude.

Go figure !!

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Re: Another reason not to get married
« Reply #9 on: October 28, 2014, 10:18:54 AM »
no matter how cool a girlfreind is they all change bro when u get married, its like they think a ring on their finger means u r a prisoner in jail and they r the warden. if i could do it all over i would never get married man,i envy u bro caus u r still free, i got 8 yr old son that loves me,hes not old enough to realize his old man is a loser so he looks up to me,im ready to split cause when he realizes im a fucking failure he will turn on me also. wish i could get the balls up to slice my wrist and end this shit

Worried about you after that post.

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Re: Another reason not to get married
« Reply #10 on: October 28, 2014, 10:19:09 AM »
Her husband is (off course) not nailing her...she's in her 50's lets be honest if he's 55 and they've been together for 20/25 years, there's only so many years you can enjoy the pussy. Women get bored, but chances are her husband has been nailing some young girls on the side for a loooong time.

Moral of the story is don't keep all your eggs in one basket. Always give any relationship you're in 90%, that's ample and more than enough, that 10% save it, have a boys holiday once a year, go out here and there and be proper lad once in a while to replenish your instincts and when a 10/10 fit girl comes up hit it like there's tomorrow, make sure if she breaks up with you tomorrow, you're financially unscathed.

It's a simple formula.
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Re: Another reason not to get married
« Reply #11 on: October 28, 2014, 10:22:04 AM »
no matter how cool a girlfreind is they all change bro when u get married, its like they think a ring on their finger means u r a prisoner in jail and they r the warden. if i could do it all over i would never get married man,i envy u bro caus u r still free, i got 8 yr old son that loves me,hes not old enough to realize his old man is a loser so he looks up to me,im ready to split cause when he realizes im a fucking failure he will turn on me also. wish i could get the balls up to slice my wrist and end this shit

Don't say that !! Jesus, man !! What the fuck ?!?!

I don't know you personally, but you seem like a really cool cat. I highly doubt you're a loser. Highly doubt it !!

Hell, I feel like a loser some days because everyone on the planet seems to have a kid but me. So you ARE lucky in that regard. And that kid needs ya. Assuming he will turn on you is negative thinking, brother. Your his Dad. His blood. Can't change that.

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Re: Another reason not to get married
« Reply #12 on: October 28, 2014, 10:27:23 AM »
I was always not very pro-marriage, but recent events in the circles of people I know just makes me cringe. Let's say - you are a very happy person if you've managed to have and keep the good marriage, if not - some cases are very extreme, it's tough to witness of how people suffer just because they decided to tie themselves to another person for the rest of life (foolishly so).

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Re: Another reason not to get married
« Reply #13 on: October 28, 2014, 10:29:05 AM »
Don't say that !! Jesus, man !! What the fuck ?!?!

I don't know you personally, but you seem like a really cool cat. I highly doubt you're a loser. Highly doubt it !!

Hell, I feel like a loser some days because everyone on the planet seems to have a kid but me. So you ARE lucky in that regard. And that kid needs ya. Assuming he will turn on you is negative thinking, brother. Your his Dad. His blood. Can't change that.

Don't be so confident, he posts on Getbig  ::)
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Re: Another reason not to get married
« Reply #14 on: October 28, 2014, 10:32:46 AM »
I went to my 25 hear High School reunion a while back.  The number of divorced people greatly outnumbered the married ones.   Most were bitter and financially messed up for many years to come. 

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Re: Another reason not to get married
« Reply #15 on: October 28, 2014, 10:34:00 AM »
Don't say that !! Jesus, man !! What the fuck ?!?!

I don't know you personally, but you seem like a really cool cat. I highly doubt you're a loser. Highly doubt it !!

Hell, I feel like a loser some days because everyone on the planet seems to have a kid but me. So you ARE lucky in that regard. And that kid needs ya. Assuming he will turn on you is negative thinking, brother. Your his Dad. His blood. Can't change that.

You are just 30, no reason to feel like a loser because of no kids lol.. Just have one at 40 if you'll feel like it, till then - try to become as rich as possible and enjoy life (it will get better for these who are rich, due to many reasons, mainly technological ones. Just most doesn't yet realize this.).

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Re: Another reason not to get married
« Reply #16 on: October 28, 2014, 10:36:08 AM »
Shit like that doesn't just happen out of nowhere.  Odds are high she was running around on him before ever signing up for Tinder.
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Re: Another reason not to get married
« Reply #17 on: October 28, 2014, 10:38:23 AM »
That article is pretty off IMO. Almost seems hoaxy. I mean i know guys on tinder and its still a process to get a girl. 2 weeks of texting, photos to prove who you say you are, playing th game, etc. unless im missing something, i never read a profile on tinder saying "hi im married and DTf any hot dude". They all start with .", im not here for sex ..."

I am marrried and enjoyig being married but we argue about kids often. I literally have ZERO interest in kids. My wife wants them in a couple years and i dont. Its a pressure that i wish was gone. It makes me dread the future, but I love my wife and As I get older I seem to grow fonder of her. There are lots of unstable women out there and im glad im not dating in that world.

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Re: Another reason not to get married
« Reply #18 on: October 28, 2014, 10:40:29 AM »
That article is pretty off IMO. Almost seems hoaxy. I mean i know guys on tinder and its still a process to get a girl. 2 weeks of texting, photos to prove who you say you are, playing th game, etc. unless im missing something, i never read a profile on tinder saying "hi im married and DTf any hot dude". They all start with .", im not here for sex ..."

I am marrried and enjoyig being married but we argue about kids often. I literally have ZERO interest in kids. My wife wants them in a couple years and i dont. Its a pressure that i wish was gone. It makes me dread the future, but I love my wife and As I get older I seem to grow fonder of her. There are lots of unstable women out there and im glad im not dating in that world.


You're a lucky man. I have yet to find stable.




You are just 30, no reason to feel like a loser because of no kids lol.. Just have one at 40 if you'll feel like it, till then - try to become as rich as possible and enjoy life (it will get better for these who are rich, due to many reasons, mainly technological ones. Just most doesn't yet realize this.).


Appreciate it, man. Definitely my primary focus at this point. Money, money ! :) Just got to take of bills, bills ! :D

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Re: Another reason not to get married
« Reply #19 on: October 28, 2014, 10:54:40 AM »
On Kelly Ripa's show, they were talking about a study that showed the correlation between people who have expensive or large weddings, and those who have cheap weddings and the longevity of their marriages. The study found out that those who were cheap, were focused on the marriage, not the wedding.
Kelly Ripa said that her wedding was $175 (It was around that number), and she can show people how to hav a cheap wedding.

Many of today's women tend to want to get married in huge extravagant weddings, with that whole "Princess" atmosphere. But, many don't care about who they are marrying or are focused on the future---the marriage.
And the men, they just go along with it. So, you have many women pretending the whole damn time, and the man is either glad to get it over with, or having the wool pulled over his eyes.
As an older dude told me, and someone on here said that they were told by an older person, "marry a cheap woman".

It's all about me, me...
And that woman said it. Maybe she feels unappreciated, who knows. But, she comes off as selfish. But, reality will hit hard...
The thing is, she is 51, what type of men or quality of men is she pulling? By the time she is 55, 60...those young guys are going to dry up, because they will be after younger women. And these older women have to compete with younger women.

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Re: Another reason not to get married
« Reply #20 on: October 28, 2014, 10:55:53 AM »
a buddy of mine got a great chimney business,  his wife of 15 yrs just sits home and drives brand new car every year and has tons of cash to spend. she goes to gym 2 times a day and has everything a women can want,guess what tho? he caught her sucking a guys cock at the gym in the parking lot ???he gave her everything and thats what she does in return,messed up stuff right there
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Re: Another reason not to get married
« Reply #21 on: October 28, 2014, 11:15:33 AM »
I love being married and my wedding was cheap. Also I legitimately thought she was going to be mad at me for how much I spent on her wedding/engagement rings as we are both very similar in that regard and the idea that it is so dumb to spend as much money as people do on that sort of stuff. The rings were less then $1000 combined as opposed to the inordinate amount that people spend nowadays on that.

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Re: Another reason not to get married
« Reply #22 on: October 28, 2014, 11:17:42 AM »
You guys can complain, but you had no issue taking all those financial advantages over the years.

Dual income rules Canada right now.

You can pretty much triple your disposal income by living together.

Everything becomes cheaper.


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Re: Another reason not to get married
« Reply #23 on: October 28, 2014, 11:20:43 AM »
I have seen it so many times.  A man gets divorced and loses his house and the good car to his wife. He has to dish out monthly money to his wife and kids. Now he's broke he goes from living in a nice house to living like a rat in poorly furnished apartment.

 Now he's an older guys with little disposable income and no house. The women barely look at him. He finds most of his friends fall to the way side because their wives side with his ex.

The wife on the other hand starts dating like mad going on dating sites and getting fixed up from her girlfriends. She has a nice house and money coming in from the husband. Whenever she wants to have wild weekends she drops off the kids to her husband if the kids are young. Her face book blows up with pictures of her partying at clubs, restaurants, casinos, male strip clubs, and weekend getaways. She is smiling like a lunatic in all her pictures as she loves the attention from all the younger men that want to bang her.

When the husband goes to pick up the kids he waits while they get ready. Her boyfriend pulls up in his car that he had to give up in the divorce with a 12 pack of beer. He sits in his favorite spot and opens beer watching the game on the big screen tv that ex husband worked over time to afford.

 :(

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Re: Another reason not to get married
« Reply #24 on: October 28, 2014, 11:21:21 AM »
I have seen it so many times.  A man gets divorced and loses his house and the good car to his wife. He has to dish out monthly money to his wife and kids. Now he's broke he goes from living in a nice house to living like a rat in poorly furnished apartment.

 Now he's an older guys with little disposable income and no house. The women barely look at him. He finds most of his friends fall to the way side because their wives side with his ex.

The wife on the other hand starts dating like mad going on dating sites and getting fixed up from her girlfriends. She has a nice house and money coming in from the husband. Whenever she wants to have wild weekends she drops off the kids to her husband if the kids are young. Her face book blows up with pictures of her partying at clubs, restaurants, casinos, male strip clubs, and weekend getaways. She is smiling like a lunatic in all her pictures as she loves the attention from all the younger men that want to bang her.

When the husband goes to pick up the kids he waits while they get ready. Her boyfriend pulls up in his car that he had to give up in the divorce with a 12 pack of beer. He sits in his favorite spot and opens beer watching the game on the big screen tv that ex husband worked over time to afford.

I am going to go gargle my .38 now...