When Ugly Girls Get A Ton of Attention

[Jizzacked]

the only impressive thing here is 11+ million views in two days, that is some serious youtube cashroll for minimal effort.

[Fortress]

No, I don't.  That's what bars/clubs/etc. are for.

The behavior in this video is rude and obnoxious imho.  If you think it's normal I don't know what to tell you.

You're mental, you know that?

So we now can only make an innocent approach to a member of the opposite sex if we're in a "designated" (oh, brother) area, like a bar or club? Otherwise it's harassment?! Saying hello or how are you? is inappropriate?!!

Do you have ANY clue how many relationships and marriages come to be because of simple and innocent crossed-paths? A MAJORITY, man.

The "rules" of society are becoming ever-more restrictive and insane.

I mean, heaven forbid you see an attractive woman at the mall and attempt to INTRODUCE YOURSELF with some small talk! Now, if the woman in question makes it known she's not interested, than to continue can be construed as harassment, sure. But a simple gesture of attempted verbal contact is now off-limits?!

It is people like YOU, Hulkotron, who are ruining this world for everyone. What with your oversensitive and paranoid attempts to quash what is normal human interaction.

[Hulkotron]

You're mental, you know that?

So we now can only make an innocent approach to a member of the opposite sex if we're in a "designated" (oh, brother) area, like a bar or club? Otherwise it's harassment?! Saying hello or how are you? is inappropriate?!!

Do you have ANY clue how many relationships and marriages come to be because of simple and innocent crossed-paths? A MAJORITY, man.

The "rules" of society are becoming ever-more restrictive and insane.

I mean, heaven forbid you see an attractive woman at the mall and attempt to INTRODUCE YOURSELF with some small talk! Now, if the woman in question makes it known she's not interested, than to continue can be construed as harassment, sure. But a simple gesture of attempted verbal contact is now off-limits?!

It is people like YOU, Hulkotron, who are ruining this world for everyone. What with your oversensitive and paranoid attempts to quash what is normal human interaction.

Haha okay "Fortress" (), I'm sure you get laid all the time by 10/10s after making "cat calls".

You people are outside your minds if you think this is normal/respectful behavior.

[Fortress]

Haha okay "Fortress" (), I'm sure you get laid all the time by 10/10s after making "cat calls".

You people are outside your minds if you think this is normal/respectful behavior.

You like putting quotations around my nickname. I've noticed this. Anyway ...

In what way did my response indicate I was attempting to relay any sort of personal success in dating or picking up women? How would this be relevant? Why do you want to make this about me and my dating/meeting habits? Or the subjective quality of the females for whom I would express interest?

Very strange.

As well, where in my response do I suggest "cat calls" are appropriate? Certainly the video highlights some inappropriate approaches and comments, but also some that are not in the least harassing. As I say, saying hello or how you doing today? isn't cat-calling, nor is it harassment ... unless it continues after someone makes it known they want to be left alone.

(P.S. It's not "you people are outside your minds", but rather, out of ... . HTH.)

Your response to my response paints you as quite the inferior intelligence in this discussion.

It's best you opt out of further commentary.

    

[Hulkotron]

Haha, look at "Fortress" spending 20 minutes brewing up what he thinks is a real masterstroke of a post

Seems I've touched a nerve.

[G_Thang]

I work my ass off in the gym and feel like i look decent and i garnish zero female attention. It would be nice if it happened but its always from gay men. Still nice to hear sometimes

disgusting

[f450]

the only impressive thing here is 11+ million views in two days, that is some serious youtube cashroll for minimal effort.

Yep. and I am one of those suckers. dammit!! fucking attention whore

[Fortress]

Haha, look at "Fortress" spending 20 minutes brewing up what he thinks is a real masterstroke of a post

Seems I've touched a nerve.

Actually, my response took me, at most, three minutes.

But you obviously note its superior composition, so thanks.

Writing: just another thing at which I am better than you.  

Perhaps continue to follow my postings for ways in which you can improve your written presentations.

Oh, and, yes, I do notice you again putting quotations around my nickname. Uh, thanks! Quite the flair you have for ... stuff.

(Because you're interested in such things, this response has taken about two minutes.)  

[Hulkotron]

Actually, my response took me, at most, three minutes.

But you obviously note its superior composition, so thanks.

Writing: just another thing at which I am better than you.  

Perhaps continue to follow my postings for ways in which you can improve your written presentations.

Oh, and, yes, I do notice you again putting quotations around my nickname. Uh, thanks! Quite the flair you have for ... stuff.

(Because you're interested in such things, this response has taken about two minutes.)  

The only thing you're superior at "Fortress" is having a tender sensitive vagina.  This thread was having some nice discussion until you had to try to make it personal with me, as if I know or give a fuck who you are.  I assume my words have caused you butthurt in the past.

[Primemuscle]

Seems I've touched a nerve.

Not really. No one cares if you only come on to someone you find interesting or attractive when your in a club or bar. Spend your life in clubs looking for the perfect 10 and settling for a 5 or 6 after several drinks and the bartender says "last call". You're among a large group of people stuck in this trap.

[visualizeperfection]

around blacks never relax.

[Kwon_2]

around blacks never relax.

[TEH boob]

This woman walks down the street, and gets compliments, men saying hello, and smile...men asking for her number...and she calls it street harassment? Now, is it because she is getting the attention from mostly black men, or men that she considers "undesirable"? And she is in NYC of all places, which is known for some real aggressive "street harassment"...and so is Italy as well.

Odd how a lot of women complain about not getting any attention...

The place where you get attention really changes the whole situation.

Getting hit on at work? Bad
On the street? Bad
By an employee at a store? Bad

At a bar? Ok
At a club? Ok
At a party? Ok

Going to a social event implies that you'd like to socialize. When you're buying lemons or walking to the coffeeshop, THAT is not an invitation for a "Beautiful!" or "Dayum!"

[Army of One]

She should do a video on how she is racist and ignores black people when they try to talk to her

[chaos]

The place where you get attention really changes the whole situation.

Getting hit on at work? Bad
On the street? Bad
By an employee at a store? Bad

At a bar? Ok
At a club? Ok
At a party? Ok

Going to a social event implies that you'd like to socialize. When you're buying lemons or walking to the coffeeshop, THAT is not an invitation for a "Beautiful!" or "Dayum!"

Some guy at the grocery store says hi, how are you? And that's now inappropriate?

[TEH boob]

Damn what it must be like to be a semi attractive woman...
Life must be oh so hard :/

I work my ass off in the gym and feel like i look decent and i garnish zero female attention. It would be nice if it happened but its always from gay men. Still nice to hear sometimes


On the other hand, i never understood this cat calling shit from a guys angle. Do they think this will pay off for them? Or is it a reflex that was instilled growing up in thT environment? I almost purposely try to NOT notice hot women as i dont want to inflate their ego any more or be considered a creep by them. But then again, i am overly conscienscious to a fault. It would be funny if she turned to one of the guys and said "um excuse me, should i let you fuck me now? Did you expect me to respond or where you just bored and felt like spouting nonsense to me?"

No. I don't think people actually believe that it will pay off for them. Mostly, I think men know that they don't have a chance with the woman, so the best they can do is talk AT them, since they can't even talk with them.

[Primemuscle]

The place where you get attention really changes the whole situation.

Getting hit on at work? Bad
On the street? Bad
By an employee at a store? Bad

At a bar? Ok
At a club? Ok
At a party? Ok

Going to a social event implies that you'd like to socialize. When you're buying lemons or walking to the coffeeshop, THAT is not an invitation for a "Beautiful!" or "Dayum!"

I met my wife at work. We were both employees. We flirted with each other. 50 + years later, we are still married.

[Kwon_2]

Going to a social event implies that you'd like to socialize. When you're buying lemons or walking to the coffeeshop, THAT is not an invitation for a "Beautiful!" or "Dayum!"

Nowhere should there be an invitation for "Dayum".

[TEH boob]

@ Chaos-- My friends and I have had people who are employees of convenience stores and grocery stores ask us out on dates. That is TOOOOTALLY inappropriate. You don't ask customers out when you're working.

@ Prime -- I think dating a coworker is relatively unprofessional; but, if they're the best thing since sliced bread, who's gonna debate that? You guys are on equal terms (employee and employee, not employee and customer, etc)

[TEH boob]

Nowhere should there be an invitation for "Dayum".

Next time I hear a dayum, I'll reply with, "Suck my dick, bitch" 

[chaos]

@ Chaos-- My friends and I have had people who are employees of convenience stores and grocery stores ask us out on dates. That is TOOOOTALLY inappropriate. You don't ask customers out when you're working.

@ Prime -- I think dating a coworker is relatively unprofessional; but, if they're the best thing since sliced bread, who's gonna debate that? You guys are on equal terms (employee and employee, not employee and customer, etc)

But what about the guy buying bananas while you're squeezing oranges?  I mean if a strange guy walking down the street says "hi, how are you?"...is that considered out of line these days?

[Fortress]

Every girlfriend I've had was the result of interactions had in places decidedly NOT bars and clubs. At school ... in the gym ... while working security in a bank (she was a customer) ... a friend of a friend ... etc.

It's called striking up a conversation with someone towards whom you are attracted and want to perhaps pursue further interactions. There's nothing harassing about it, provided it's done with shown respect and a willingness to let it go if that individual doesn't express equal motivation.

I've even had successful introductions to eventual dates while walking the streets! Can you imagine?!  

It goes like this. If you're a creep, you are a creep. If you are not, you're not.

People like Hulkotron are likely creeps who have become accustomed to a very narrow window through which to make plays for the opposite sex. Anywhere NOT serving alcohol and with a certain expectation of wanton flirtation proves too dangerous for them, as without dimmed and/or flashing lights and masses of inebriated duds, they get tagged as such in a heartbeat. The Creep Factor is too strong.

Their learning curve at a young age had them come to accept that females in the bright sun of sober reality see them as greasy cheeseballs to be avoided.    
 

[TEH boob]

But what about the guy buying bananas while you're squeezing oranges?  I mean if a strange guy walking down the street says "hi, how are you?"...is that considered out of line these days?

I live in a big city, to give context. The atmosphere might be different if I were in the suburbs or a rural area. Here's what I think when a man says "hi, how are you?"

-He's hitting on me. I'm automatically not interested (99.9% of the time I'm not, and now I'm definitely not because I'm in a relationship)
-Am I going to be robbed? Is he being a distraction while someone else steals my wallet?
-Is he trying to get me to donate to a charity?

Those are the top things I think about when a man does this. Imagine the 'ideal' scenario for the man saying "Hi, how are you?" He happens to be very handsome. I happen to be single, and in a good mood. BEST case scenario I give him my number...but I would be VERY wary of a man who approaches women on the street. Pretty much, you'd have to be disarmingly handsome, the woman would have to be in a good mood and not in a rush, and you would have to overcome the obstacle of being labelled a 'creep.'

[el numero uno]

You're mental, you know that?

So we now can only make an innocent approach to a member of the opposite sex if we're in a "designated" (oh, brother) area, like a bar or club? Otherwise it's harassment?! Saying hello or how are you? is inappropriate?!!

Do you have ANY clue how many relationships and marriages come to be because of simple and innocent crossed-paths? A MAJORITY, man.

The "rules" of society are becoming ever-more restrictive and insane.

I mean, heaven forbid you see an attractive woman at the mall and attempt to INTRODUCE YOURSELF with some small talk! Now, if the woman in question makes it known she's not interested, than to continue can be construed as harassment, sure. But a simple gesture of attempted verbal contact is now off-limits?!

It is people like YOU, Hulkotron, who are ruining this world for everyone. What with your oversensitive and paranoid attempts to quash what is normal human interaction.

X2


The best relationship I ever had started when taking a bus and kept looking a girl next to me until we made eye contact and said hi. WTF is wrong with people saying that that's harrasment?

[TEH boob]

Every girlfriend I've had was the result of interactions had in places decidedly NOT bars and clubs. At school ... in the gym ... while working security in a bank (she was a customer) ... a friend of a friend ... etc.

It's called striking up a conversation with someone towards whom you are attracted and want to perhaps pursue further interactions. There's nothing harassing about it, provided it's done with shown respect and a willingness to let it go if that individual doesn't express equal motivation.

I've even had successful introductions to eventual dates while walking the streets! Can you imagine?!  

It goes like this. If you're a creep, you are a creep. If you are not, you're not.

People like Hulkotron are likely creeps who have become accustomed to a very narrow window through which to make plays for the opposite sex. Anywhere NOT serving alcohol and with a certain expectation of wanton flirtation proves too dangerous for them, as without dimmed and/or flashing lights and masses of inebriated duds, they get tagged as such in a heartbeat. The Creep Factor is too strong.

Their learning curve at a young age had them come to accept that females in the bright sun of sober reality see them as greasy cheeseballs to be avoided.    
 

That. That's where the line's drawn.