my wife/before we where married used to make little comments about steroids but they where very subtle approaches, she would say something like(my brothers roomate uses steroids and he beat up his girlfreind cause of it).i wouldnt say much,id just say something like (some guys in my gym use them and they never ever hit their girlfreinds or wives) id say if a person is unstable to begin with,steroids OR ALCOHOL can bring out the worst in a person. luckily when i met her i was clean for 3 years and wasnt on nothing but creatine,so in a sense i wasnt lying to her when the steroid subject came up and i didnt say much or even made a comment about (how i dont use steroids)she never asked me if i used them in the past so i never had to lie to her. her jerk off brother who was a doughboy,always would bring up steroids everytime i seen him at a holiday thing like thanksgiving or whatever,hed start getting drunk and say(u look twice as big since i seen u 2 months ago, hed say man,that was very fast to put on muscle,implying i was on some testosterone,his voice said it in a way where he was implying i was using roids.and id say yea and u r twice as drunk since i seen u 2 months ago and u look twice as big also,in your stomach

. everyone got a good laugh at of it then changed the subject, he never liked me at all,when i met my wife he would say shit to her like i was just out to have sex with her and thats all,he was a hating dick type of guy. his wife left him for a potatoe chips delivery man one afternoon and hes been bitter ever since, he asked me one time why i was with his sister,(i smiled and said what do u think?)his face got red and he ran outside the house and started screaming on the top of his lungs in spanish,saying curse words in spanish but i didnt really understand to much. he came back in the house and started crying on my shoulder about his ex wife who left him and i was beside myself,i really didnt know what to say. i told him sorry and shit but thats pretty much it,then he asked me if i had sex with his sister,i said in a nice way its none of his business and he started screaming again and this time kicked the door and ran outside screaming in spanish again,he grabbed a shovel from the back yard and was running down the street,next thing u know a cop car comes up on him and puts him in the back seat,i went out there and smoothed it out.the cop told me he said i was trying to have sex with HIM UPSTAIRS AND WAS GRABBING HIS COCK,i told the cop thats bullshit and the cop said just straighten all this crazy love affair shit out or else hes taking someine to jail tonight.i jumped in my car and took my wife and we went back to my house and talked about the whole experiance and how it affected us,we had some sex and layed down and watched afew movies