Assuming you loved your granny
"I really didn't know what to title this thread. I'm not looking for a yes or no answer or anything, I just wanted people to talk to about this and advice.
So years ago my grandmother had cancer in one of her kidneys, but thankfully they caught it early enough to cut it out. Living all this time with one kidney she was fine but earlier this year they told her the other kidney wasn't doing too good. Then this past week she went to the doctor for back pain and it's looking like she may have cancer in the only kidney she has left. My mom, aunt, and uncle are all going to get tested tomorrow to see if they qualify to give her a kidney but apparently you have to be healthy [my mom and uncle have diabetes(friedfoodsofpeace)] and you can't have, or ever had an STD(most adults have had an STD at one time or another). Well, being the FA that I am, and healthy/fit I seem to be the only one who will have a chance to save her. So I'm going tomorrow too, to see if I qualify.
But I'm scared. That's understandable, right? I'm 19 with my whole life ahead of me. But that's me being selfish, too. I feel like most people would give up a kidney to save a family member without a second guess. Does that make me a bad person?
I lost my granddad back in May, and I'd hate to lose my grandmother but I'm at odds.
Any advice or words of wisdom welcome miss"