Sometimes there aren't any real "problems"....it's just that some people have good genes and can have as many partners as they like (some even to an old age). Usualy these who are "in power", tend to use and abuse it, pretty natural. And it's like eating tasty foods, if you want to taste different flavors it doesn't mean the old ones were bad, just different. Some people eat the same food for many years and doesn't have any probs with it, and some are gurmans.
And as you can see from primes posts, life-long relathionships are as much of a puzzle as being "alone". They just stay together because there's nothing better to do, and some people stay alone because for some reason it's better for them that way. Life is pretty absurd, no need to search for a lot of meaning and reason lol.. Just earn a lot of money, it will be MUCH easier, together or alone.
Well good genes, having as many partners as you like, if you mean sex wise then getting new partners isn't rocket science to me neither. Everyone says when you meet a woman who's a mirror picture of yourself you want to hold on to it and everyone else encourages to hold on to it. But when it gets boring you forget why you are together in the first Place. But the same problems happen everytime to me afterI've spent enough times with a woman, but if it happens in 4 months I don't think it's too early because everyone's an individual.
I get that eating the same food always gets boring. You need to make it differend way. But metaphors are lame sometimes, I like to think that relationship is like building a house and not eating the same food all the time
. New decoration, painting a wall, new set of lamps, remaking the kitchen or whatever can make you fall inlove with your house again and you start to keep it neat and clean every day again. Being with someone because you have nothing better to do sounds kind of wrong. But my gf and I have talked about these very things I told you guys about and we have a mutual understanding so we are trying. Just thought I'd hear getbigs opinions.
You're vocabulary is great. You've communicated very well here. I understand exactly what you are saying and I agree with you on all counts.
My wife and I went out to breakfast today. We spoke very little. When you are with someone 24/7, you pretty much end up saying everything there is to say. It was better when we both worked and were apart 10 or so hours a day. Work gave us something new to talk about. Sometimes I miss "the good old days." If I get to the gym today, we can converse about my workout for a few minutes tonight....not that it is a subject she's that interested in, but she'll fake it.
Sounds like you've been together for 30 years like you said
. Still I doubt that if you could live another 100 years that you could find someone completely differend and have completely differend and better life with someone else if you get a divorce.
you think really deep dont you. are you on gear.
when im on many grams of gear i always think about leaving my GF costs to much money when i could be spending it on food and GH lol
no I'm not on gear or nothing. When I'm buzzed with my friends or alone I always feel happy that I'm in a relationship because I get horny as hell, and I like the idea I can deep dick someone and not get a decease.
If I break up again I really question my ability to be serious again with someone for a long time because even a woman who owns goldman sachs don't guarantee sexual interest every year and every day.
Then again I've never been filthy rich and single, so I don't know how it's like to be able to switch from ten to another ten in an hour. But I watched wolf of wallstreet and even the best salesman in wallstreet tried to hold on to his wife when she wanted a divorce and it wasn't because of the money he fealt miserable.
