Please, there is a huge difference between a pedophile and that.
The law is extremely obscure when it comes to things of this nature.
I am extremely hostile towards pedophilia and those that practice it, but I can honestly tell you that if I were 17 and having sexual relations with that woman, she would most definitely NOT be taking advantage of me.
It would DEFINITELY be consensual. At the same time, of course, it goes without saying, I would still be so stupidly and mind-numbingly immature at 17 that I'd be unable to keep my mouth shut and sexualize that female until my dick fell off. And that's where The Law comes in.