Who would surprise you the most fathering a child ?
Jay will be 42,is terrified of having to put a picture other than his in his house.
Kai 40, ( not gay) but is aware that it requires to have sex with a woman in order to have a kid. In his world it might not be a pleassant process.
Jay is divorced and Kai is single.
If they wanted kids I suspect they would already have had some.
Some of us don't want kids and never will.
Others love having kids and can't produce enough offspring ( The Duggers).
If you don't want kids it ends up being a lot of work, $$ and stress.