So you're 'using' your 2nd spouse to fill a void also? Between your sentence prepositions and horrible grammar, (spell check..use it!) I can't tell what you mean.
I'm in the middle of a work out. I used other and including my ex wife to fill a void after we split I hit rock bottom and almost killed myself. I took 3 years of self help and therapy to include couples counseling to learn from my mistakes so I wouldn't repeat them. Then I meet my current wife...
Make sense now
Let me guess your going to try to be little me for having a problem. Realizing it, seeking help for my issues and learning how To deal with them in a constructive manner
Because your a troll and you can ever have a meaningful comment that doesn't make fun of some one.
The reason I'm sharing this is because this directly ties in the the topic of this tread and self responsibility
I could have just gotten remarried a year later then divorce again over and over think it was everyone else's fault but the truth was it was my own