Step 1- stop caring so much about women. you probably have serious mommy issues if you care about women so much and work so hard for their approval while your life falls apart at the seams.;
step 2- get a job. a real fucking job. not a stupid minimum wage gas money phone bill paying job, a real one. if you cant do that, then find out where such jobs exist and MOVE THERE. you dont need a college education to get a decent job- just some luck and persistence and hard work. if not, then move back in with your parents for a year to find your feet- fuck your need of freedom you gotta do what you gotta do and if that means humbling yourself then so be it.
step 3- save your money- save as much as you can, dont eat out or take girls out ever. cancel the gym membership and tanning club. stop buying stuff. we live in a society that wants nothing more than to make you pull out your wallet and dip into that wad of 20s to satisfy some stupid craving.
step 4- get a loan out on a car. dont get a fucking truck you dimwit. gas bill will eat you alive if you have a big truck. get a newer (2008+) sedan, preferably honda toyota kia hyundai nissan etc. some of them dont look half bad either and they wont cost an arm and a leg to insure or fuel. girls never complained about my 05 toyota.
step 5- get your own place.
step 6- then maybe worry about getting a girlfriend.
note;- plenty of trolling in this thread, but you can see a lot of good advice in here too. maybe take some of it so we dont have to suffer trainwreck on getbig. youre a smart guy it seems, just be honest with yourself and where youre at and make the right changes and decisions.
