I'm gonna share a little story with you guys, take from it what you will. About a year ago there was this chick I met on fb, legit 9. I thought she was a bit out of my league at the time but I decided to go meet up with her anyways. I drove an hour to see this bitch , and she blew me off last minute. I figured I was her "last resort" for that friday night, probably found me decent enough to go out with, but not hot enough to blow her plans off for me. My confidence wasn't that great at the time and Im sure you can imagine her blowing me off didn't help.
Fast forward to almost a year later, two weeks ago I find my old cell phone and Im going through my contacts. I recognize this chick and I decide to text her and say what sup. What have I got to lose right? Told her hey its so and so we talked a while ago and she didn't remember me. Sent her some pics of me and she's now kind of interested in me, met up with her saturday and we hooked up. Funny thing is she still doesn't know Im that bloated ass dude with the goatee a year ago.
Point is I've had a lot of ups and downs with my self esteem, and overall confidence and like many of you questioned whether it was worth it. But I truly believe every dog has his day, I had to wait almost a year to get mine. Train hard and take care of yourself with the little things (tanning, grooming, etc) it is definitely worth it.
Sure there were other conquests but Im telling you...... I could fuck ten victoria secret models right now and that wouldn't top the overall satisfaction that saturday night gave me because I still remember that rejection and LONNNNG car ride home like it was yesterday.