change is a legitimate reason for breaking up with a partner

[thegamechanger]

when you get together with someone you buy whats currently on display, there cannot be any major changes after that.

a woman cant decide to get a nosering, put on weight, or muscle, or lose weight, get a neck tattoo or deciding to cut her hair really short.
if that happens the man should break it up.

same with women as this works both ways, a man cant decide to become a permabulker after theyve been together a while and expecting her to still be there.
you cant be lee priest and get a face tattoo and then be surprised if your woman leaves you.

i will accept hardly no changes to my woman.

[_aj_]

when you get together with someone you buy whats currently on display, there cannot be any major changes after that.

a woman cant decide to get a nosering, put on weight, or muscle, or lose weight, get a neck tattoo or deciding to cut her hair really short.
if that happens the man should break it up.

same with women as this works both ways, a man cant decide to become a permabulker after theyve been together a while and expecting her to still be there.
you cant be lee priest and get a face tattoo and then be surprised if your woman leaves you.

i will accept hardly no changes to my woman.

What if you have a "change approval" system? I am pretty sure that if she applied for approval to get DD funbags, you'd sign-off on that toot-sweet.

When my wife announced that she was going to get "fucking ripped", what was I gonna do, show her the door?

[thegamechanger]

What if you have a "change approval" system? I am pretty sure that if she applied for approval to get DD funbags, you'd sign-off on that toot-sweet.

When my wife announced that she was going to get "fucking ripped", what was I gonna do, show her the door?

but how much change can one accept ? i didnt sign up for a girlfriend that decided to put on a lot of muscle or fat or for that matter lost so much weight her ass went flat or to all of a sudden think its a great idea to stop shaving her armpits and legs!

[_aj_]

but how much change can one accept ? i didnt sign up for a girlfriend that decided to put on a lot of muscle or fat or for that matter lost so much weight her ass went flat or to all of a sudden think its a great idea to stop shaving her armpits and legs!

We are all evolving, my friend. Did my wife get a veto when my biceps reached 18"? No. And there will be no referendum on the 19s either.

[Dave D]

LOL, good luck with this. The girl you fall in love with at 20 isn't the same person at 25 let alone 30.

I think you can live this ideal while dating but it won't hold true over the course of a long term relationship. Stagnant people are some of the most miserable I know.

All that said I understand where you're coming from but its not really a practical concept in relationships.

[thegamechanger]

btw im single

[Natural Man]

btw im single

and a virgin teen. Cause only a virgin teen would make such a stupid thread.

[spiro]

Fiance has lost like 25 pounds since we started dating. She is getting too thin! Once our wedding is over she will probably gain some of it back. I Don't care what she does though I'm crazy about her. As long as she doesn't go and put on 50 pounds.

[io856]

and a virgin teen. Cause only a virgin teen would make such a stupid thread.

definitely

[flinstones1]

The reason why most  relatiships fail is because the dudes puts on a front when he first starts dating the chick and lets face it if you look good chances are no matter how fucked up and insecure you are  the chick will buy the fake over confident alpha bullshit because you look the part. The girl usually falls for this guy hard and quick, 2-3 months in the guy is still in control of the relationship and she's still doing everything to please him, as the relationship gets more serious  the girl  starts demanding more affection over time.   The guy is still alpha at this point but this is where her little shit  tests begin,  she starts becoming less affectionate or acting distant  and the dude goes into panic mode.  The mask starts to fall off  and the alpha male she fell for is becoming more and more of a beta in her eyes. Pretty soon every man becomes a threat to him, and the attraction from the girls point of view to  the guy is pretty much gone. She may still stay in the relationship at this point but in reality your toast.

This is why I say Fuck relationships. I don't have time to play games with these little girls,  i spin plates, I always have options, I never get attached to one girl anymore. The reason alphas don't get cheated on isn't because they're alpha per say, its because they get in and they get out and don't invest in the chick emotionally.

[thegamechanger]

and a virgin teen. Cause only a virgin teen would make such a stupid thread.

you got the virgin part right

[spiro]

The reason why most  relatiships fail is because the dudes puts on a front when he first starts dating the chick and lets face it if you look good chances are no matter how fucked up and insecure you are  the chick will buy the fake over confident alpha bullshit because you look the part. The girl usually falls for this guy hard and quick, 2-3 months in the guy is still in control of the relationship and she's still doing everything to please him, as the relationship gets more serious  the girl  starts demanding more affection over time.   The guy is still alpha at this point but this is where her little shit  tests begin,  she starts becoming less affectionate or acting distant  and the dude goes into panic mode.  The mask starts to fall off  and the alpha male she fell for is becoming more and more of a beta in her eyes. Pretty soon every man becomes a threat to him, and the attraction from the girls point of view to  the guy is pretty much gone. She may still stay in the relationship at this point but in reality your toast.


This is why I say Fuck relationships. I don't have time to play games with these little girls,  i spin plates, I always have options, I never get attached to one girl anymore. The reason alphas don't get cheated on isn't because they're alpha per say, its because they get in and they get out and don't invest in the chick emotionally.

The trick is learning how to balance the two "alpha" "beta" .

Holding down a full time job being good with kids being patient caring giving loving nurturing are beta traits. They are important traits a woman needs to know you can do these things if they are going to make a long term investment in you.

Being alpha is important being a good a leader, having a good build, being athletic, being sexual are important traits. Your gf wife fiance whatever needs to see you still have a little bit of and edge once in awhile.

Getting attention from other woman will keep her in her place too. Doesn't mean you have to cheat but some attention is good.

A girl I saw out one night on my bachelor party wrote me a pm on Facebook. It said you are sexy as fuck. I deleted her but not the comment. My fiance saw it! She was pissed for a a day. But the few days after I was fucking her like an animal. She let me do anything I wanted to her. She got jealous and realized other women still find me attractive.

I make sure to have sex at least 2-3 times a week. Good sweaty sex that lasts awhile. This keeps them happy and relaxed. If you aren't getting at least that you have to make sure it changes. It's what keeps the happiness.

Learn to balance both and have a good faithfull woman with some brains and integrity. Believe it or not they are out there.

[_aj_]

The trick is learning how to balance the two "alpha" "beta" .

Holding down a full time job being good with kids being patient caring giving loving nurturing are beta traits. They are important traits a woman needs to know you can do these things if they are going to make a long term investment in you.

Being alpha is important being a good a leader, having a good build, being athletic, being sexual are important traits. Your gf wife fiance whatever needs to see you still have a little bit of and edge once in awhile.

Getting attention from other woman will keep her in her place too. Doesn't mean you have to cheat but some attention is good.

A girl I saw out one night on my bachelor party wrote me a pm on Facebook. It said you are sexy as fuck. I deleted her but not the comment. My fiance saw it! She was pissed for a a day. But the few days I was fucking her like an animal. She let me do anything I wanted to her. She got jealous and realized other women still find me attractive.

QFT. Quality post. Flintstones, pls read.

My wife told me that there is nothing sexier than watching me work with our son on his homework...

Of course, I then flexed and said "what about this?" She laughed and said, "that's nice..." and walked away.

 

Women.

[spiro]

QFT. Quality post. Flintstones, pls read.

I added a little more.

That's good man you sound like you got it made.

[_aj_]

I added a little more.

I need 4x/week. More if I can swing it.

[spiro]

I need 4x/week. More if I can swing it.

I can go everyday but it's harder for some women to keep up. My women has that mesh birth control device. She will be taking it out once we are married. I think it should significantly increase her drive.

[_aj_]

I can go everyday but it's harder for some women to keep up. My women has that mesh birth control device. She will be taking it out once we are married. I think it should significantly increase her drive.

Is it a hormonal block? Because those can suppress libido. Once that clears, look out!

[Walter Sobchak]

OP loves the dark meat cock

[spiro]

Is it a hormonal block? Because those can suppress libido. Once that clears, look out!

I'm pretty sure that's what it is. I have a good supply of test and vit c on hand 

sex toys like lingerie all that fun stuff really keeps the fire going.

Basically try to be a good guy but not a total poosy. Make sure she knows people respect you admire you. Things should stay on track for the most part. Always rocky periods thats why you pick a quality woman and not a loser quiter cheater.

[D.O.A.]

When your women turns just fucking crazy after a couple years is usually a pretty good reason to break up

and of course if she turns in to big fat slob.

If both happens you could even get away with murder. (in some country's)

[flinstones1]

QFT. Quality post. Flintstones, pls read.

My wife told me that there is nothing sexier than watching me work with our son on his homework...

Of course, I then flexed and said "what about this?" She laughed and said, "that's nice..." and walked away.

 

Women.

a good post but last time I checked you don't see me giving advice on long term relationships.  I can tell you how to get laid, and get a girl to like you for a little while, and how to keep yourself from getting attached. There is absolutely no reason to keep a chick  around for more than 2-3 months fucking the same chick gets old and you fuckers all know it,   unless your truly in love with her, or she is the absolute  best your going to do you don't commit plain and simple.   Guarantee you no matter how hot your girl is there is always a hotter chick who will find you more attractive.

[spiro]

a good post but last time I checked you don't see me giving advice on long term relationships.  I can tell you how to get laid, and get a girl to like you for a little while, and how to keep yourself from getting attached. There is absolutely no reason to keep a chick  around for more than 2-3 months fucking the same chick gets old and you fuckers all know it,   unless your truly in love with her, or she is the absolute  best your going to do you don't commit plain and simple.   Guarantee you no matter how hot your girl is there is always a hotter chick who will find you more attractive.

You are too young for marriage anyway. Men should wait to 30s.

[Coach is Back!]

If you're married the only reasons should be adultery and violence.

[spiro]

If you're married the only reasons should be adultery and violence.

Yes your right.

[greeneyes]

First, why you need a reason for breaking up? Let's not even talk about legitimate.
I always broke up because their mouth grow bigger after a while. They talk shit after they get used to you. At first the girls think 7 times before saying a word to you then after a few dates they don't think anymore and their true personality shows up. One time I broke up because the girl started to give me a moral lesson ( I made a joke about an handicapped guy ). I told her then that if she want to take his side she can do it literally.

 A few other times the girl will try to tell me what to do, like wear this or that, or this doesn't suit you. I just hate that shit. I just hate a girl that would like to control the way I dress, look, behave. It's like if they take the role of your parent, I hate that.
Once I broke up with a girl because I always told her to tell me she is leaving when we talk on facebook. So the third time she went without saying a word, I told her she can fuck herself. I like to control the bitches, I always feel that their existences in relationship with me is to get on their knee and obey me.