Serious career question

[Knooger]

Could just commit suicide.

[pedro01]

When you are asking getbig for serious career advice...you have already failed. You aren't locked out of your dream career. You are locked out of rational, coherent, logical thinking and it's clear why no one will hire you.

Good luck though.

Typical "trying to be a getbigger post".

Lots of reasons you can get locked out. Some careers require 20/20 eyesight for example.

For all we know, he may have gotten a try out as a porn star but fell short on girth requirements.

[The Italian Lifter]

asking advice on gb 

[El Diablo Blanco]

What was this dream job?  Drive thru operator at Jack in the box?

[Julio Ceasar]

Most people who reach great success hit the wall in deadly speed later on! 

No matter what u do in life, in the end, I guess every one of us took the same amount of shit/happiness!

Stay away from drugs and alcohol. It will ruin your life forever and there is no return back! Fight the battle clean no matter how u feel!

Just give it time, some years, things will change and you will learn to deal with bad feelings better...

Don't be stupid and do drugs and alcohol! U will get right to the botton on this shit, and society will reject you as a worthless human!

Don't try to compensate bad feelings with food, don't smoke, it just make it worse...just live normal life and give it time! TIME! Most people cant handle time! Time is a natural healingprocess!

Feeling bad, feeling shit, suecide thoughts are natural, panic attact, strong axienty feelings is all natural destinations in the jerney of life

Talk to people, Your not fighting this life alone : )

[SF1900]

Typical "trying to be a getbigger post".

Lots of reasons you can get locked out. Some careers require 20/20 eyesight for example.

For all we know, he may have gotten a try out as a porn star but fell short on girth requirements.

X2. "Thick" Nick is a pinhead. Not the sharpest tool in the shed. He is trying way too hard to act like a getbigger.

Below is a perfect example of some medical conditions that may disqualify you from the job. I have 2 of the conditions listed below, from no fault of my own. I would 99.9% automatically be disqualified from becoming a US marshall, thus being locked out of my dream career (if it was my dream career). Its probably best not to jump to conclusions and knock him. Let him state the facts, then form your opinion after. But as stated, "Thick" Nick is not the sharpest tool in the shed.

Disqualifying Conditions

Deputy U.S. Marshals must be physically able to safely and efficiently perform the full range of duties. Any medical or physical condition which affects this ability is disqualifying.  Some conditions which may be disqualifying are:

    diabetes mellitus

    convulsive disorders

    hernias

    orthopedic conditions that affect mobility, stability, flexibility and strength

    hypertension

    heart disease

    color vision deficits and eye surgery.

[Brixtonbulldog]

Lol.. some of this shit had me rolling.

Okay, so now that I've built up a shit-ton of typical getbig responses I'll go on. 

In 2007 I was booted out of the military for an 'altercation' resulting in an assault charge.  I beat the charge a year later when it was overturned by the same judge on the basis of self-defense.  Then I went back before a military board who upgraded my discharge.  Then I had to apply to have my re-enlistment code changed by another board.  (discharge and RE code are two separate things)

Long story short is that this whole process has taken a long time during which I've built up supervisory experience, college, physical fitness scores, language skills, pilot skills, etc. in prep for going back into the military as an officer.

I just got word that the second board has refused to upgrade my re-enlistment code.  That's it.  Completely shut out.  It was all I've wanted to be for a long time. 

[The Italian Lifter]

you're so young and have learned so many skills you'll find soon something suitable for you.
trust me, I'm old 

[OneMoreRep]

Lol.. some of this shit had me rolling.

Okay, so now that I've built up a shit-ton of typical getbig responses I'll go on. 

In 2007 I was booted out of the military for an 'altercation' resulting in an assault charge.  I beat the charge a year later when it was overturned by the same judge on the basis of self-defense.  Then I went back before a military board who upgraded my discharge.  Then I had to apply to have my re-enlistment code changed by another board.  (discharge and RE code are two separate things)

Long story short is that this whole process has taken a long time during which I've built up supervisory experience, college, physical fitness scores, language skills, pilot skills, etc. in prep for going back into the military as an officer.

I just got word that the second board has refused to upgrade my re-enlistment code.  That's it.  Completely shut out.  It was all I've wanted to be for a long time. 

I am sorry to hear that your future plans got spoiled.

Truthfully though, I think they did you a favor.

"1"

[El Diablo Blanco]

Lol.. some of this shit had me rolling.

Okay, so now that I've built up a shit-ton of typical getbig responses I'll go on. 

In 2007 I was booted out of the military for an 'altercation' resulting in an assault charge.  I beat the charge a year later when it was overturned by the same judge on the basis of self-defense.  Then I went back before a military board who upgraded my discharge.  Then I had to apply to have my re-enlistment code changed by another board.  (discharge and RE code are two separate things)

Long story short is that this whole process has taken a long time during which I've built up supervisory experience, college, physical fitness scores, language skills, pilot skills, etc. in prep for going back into the military as an officer.

I just got word that the second board has refused to upgrade my re-enlistment code.  That's it.  Completely shut out.  It was all I've wanted to be for a long time. 

Was the assult against a woman or gay?  Just wondering if the military is trying to protect its image.  Seems whatever you did was more severe than you thought.  Our in the real world, do companies know about your dismissal?  Can't you get a similar job as a contractor for one of the military suppliers?

[SF1900]

Lol.. some of this shit had me rolling.

Okay, so now that I've built up a shit-ton of typical getbig responses I'll go on. 

In 2007 I was booted out of the military for an 'altercation' resulting in an assault charge.  I beat the charge a year later when it was overturned by the same judge on the basis of self-defense.  Then I went back before a military board who upgraded my discharge.  Then I had to apply to have my re-enlistment code changed by another board.  (discharge and RE code are two separate things)

Long story short is that this whole process has taken a long time during which I've built up supervisory experience, college, physical fitness scores, language skills, pilot skills, etc. in prep for going back into the military as an officer.

I just got word that the second board has refused to upgrade my re-enlistment code.  That's it.  Completely shut out.  It was all I've wanted to be for a long time. 

I know absolutely nothing about the military........but why were you refused if you were re-enlisted and they upgraded your discharge?

[Brixtonbulldog]

I am sorry to hear that your future plans got spoiled.

Truthfully though, I think they did you a favor.

"1"

I've heard this before and you might be right.  I would have preferred finding out for myself tho.

[Tedim]

Lol.. some of this shit had me rolling.

Okay, so now that I've built up a shit-ton of typical getbig responses I'll go on. 

In 2007 I was booted out of the military for an 'altercation' resulting in an assault charge.  I beat the charge a year later when it was overturned by the same judge on the basis of self-defense.  Then I went back before a military board who upgraded my discharge.  Then I had to apply to have my re-enlistment code changed by another board.  (discharge and RE code are two separate things)

Long story short is that this whole process has taken a long time during which I've built up supervisory experience, college, physical fitness scores, language skills, pilot skills, etc. in prep for going back into the military as an officer.

I just got word that the second board has refused to upgrade my re-enlistment code.  That's it.  Completely shut out.  It was all I've wanted to be for a long time. 

You had a bar to re enlist....so go to another branch,

[Brixtonbulldog]

Was the assult against a woman or gay?  Just wondering if the military is trying to protect its image.  Seems whatever you did was more severe than you thought.  Our in the real world, do companies know about your dismissal?  Can't you get a similar job as a contractor for one of the military suppliers?

Smart man.  I was attacked in a bar by a female service-member (that I was NOT having relations with).  I, uh, 'defended' myself.  The cops didn't care when she (and every one else at the bar) said she started it and it wasn't my fault.  They took me anyway.  

Civilian companies don't really care.  I didn't want to be a 'contractor.'  I actually did want to serve in that capacity before moving on.  

[Brixtonbulldog]

I know absolutely nothing about the military........but why were you refused if you were re-enlisted and they upgraded your discharge?

i didn't re-enlist.  i needed the code to be able to re-enlist or join in any capacity.

[Brixtonbulldog]

You had a bar to re enlist....so go to another branch,

tried that.   they all use similar codes and abide by similar guidelines.  i'm shut out of all branches.

[SF1900]

i didn't re-enlist.  i needed the code to be able to re-enlist or join in any capacity.

So if you beat the charge on self-defense, why were you not able to re-enlist?

[El Diablo Blanco]

Smart man.  I was attacked in a bar by a female service-member (that I was NOT having relations with).  I, uh, 'defended' myself.  The cops didn't care when she (and every one else at the bar) said she started it and it wasn't my fault.  They took me anyway. 

Civilian companies don't really care.  I didn't want to be a 'contractor.'  I actually did want to serve in that capacity before moving on. 

Yep, you're stuck in a case of them protecting the shield.  Although women want "equal" rights in the workforce the truth is they want and have more rights than men do.

[Brixtonbulldog]

So if you beat the charge on self-defense, why were you not able to re-enlist?

because i had to first get the conviction overturned (done).  then apply to upgrade the discharge itself (done).  then i had to apply to change the RE code as well before i could re-enlist.  the RE code is denied.  cannot enlist without a good discharge AND a good RE code.  

basically the discharge board thought everything that happened to me was unfair.  but the RE code board didn't give a shit and is likely composed of do-nothing federal employees who don't really do a lot of work to begin with.  

[Brixtonbulldog]

Yep, you're stuck in a case of them protecting the shield.  Although women want "equal" rights in the workforce the truth is they want and have more rights than men do.

agreed mostly..  i will say the woman involved was pretty fair about the whole thing and knew she was wrong.

[Overload]

Go to college and get a degree in something useful.

[Brixtonbulldog]

Go to college and get a degree in something useful.

Mostly done.  Actually in another two years I might have a second degree as well.  Dreams are dreams, man.  I'd rather jump off a cliff than be stuck as network or computer clown no matter how much money they make.  Boring as fuck.

[Weedlejuice]

Not going into specifics but I found out recently that I've been permanently shut out of my dream career.  Realize this is bitch-mode but I'm downright destroyed over this.  Drinking slightly more than usual.  No motivation for anything.  Really in a dark place now.

Have any of you been dealt such shitty, life-altering news?  How did you deal? 

I'm limited in that I've learned if I don't have a passion for something I usually quit or fail.  And so few things interest me enough to dedicate my life to them.  I do have at least a little time on my side since I'm 31.   

you just deal, or you dont

show us what you're made of

[SF1900]

Mostly done.  Actually in another two years I might have a second degree as well.  Dreams are dreams, man.  I'd rather jump off a cliff than be stuck as network or computer clown no matter how much money they make.  Boring as fuck.

Become a cop. 

[Knooger]

Become a cop. 

He's quick to violence, so he seems qualified.