Author Topic: Serious career question (Read 6547 times)

Brixtonbulldog · « **on:** April 13, 2015, 07:58:14 PM »

Not going into specifics but I found out recently that I've been permanently shut out of my dream career. Realize this is bitch-mode but I'm downright destroyed over this. Drinking slightly more than usual. No motivation for anything. Really in a dark place now.

Have any of you been dealt such shitty, life-altering news? How did you deal?

I'm limited in that I've learned if I don't have a passion for something I usually quit or fail. And so few things interest me enough to dedicate my life to them. I do have at least a little time on my side since I'm 31.

Coach is Back! · « **Reply #1 on:** April 13, 2015, 08:03:29 PM »

How old are you?

Never1AShow · « **Reply #2 on:** April 13, 2015, 08:05:19 PM »

Well the world needs ditch diggers too.

Grow pair and get into something.

SquidVicious · « **Reply #3 on:** April 13, 2015, 08:09:36 PM »

Just because McDonalds isn't hiring doesn't mean you can't work at Burger King.

SF1900 · « **Reply #4 on:** April 13, 2015, 08:13:39 PM »

Why were you shut out from your dream career? What happened?

dantelis · « **Reply #5 on:** April 13, 2015, 08:15:27 PM »

Quote from: Never1AShow on April 13, 2015, 08:05:19 PM

Well the world needs ditch diggers too.

Grow pair and get into something.

Good one!

Thick Nick · « **Reply #6 on:** April 13, 2015, 10:02:51 PM »

When you are asking getbig for serious career advice...you have already failed. You aren't locked out of your dream career. You are locked out of rational, coherent, logical thinking and it's clear why no one will hire you.

Good luck though.

The Grim Lifter · « **Reply #7 on:** April 13, 2015, 10:08:07 PM »

There's always room 7 by the Ice Machine

SF1900 · « **Reply #8 on:** April 13, 2015, 10:10:38 PM »

Quote from: Thick Nick on April 13, 2015, 10:02:51 PM

When you are asking getbig for serious career advice...you have already failed. You aren't locked out of your dream career. You are locked out of rational, coherent, logical thinking and it's clear why no one will hire you.

Good luck though.

How do you know he isn't locked out of his dream career, "Thick" Nick? Do you know his circumstances?

I thought you were leaving getbig after your 5 year old rant about getbig being anti-american and anti-police?

Novena · « **Reply #9 on:** April 13, 2015, 10:13:05 PM »

Quote from: Brixtonbulldog on April 13, 2015, 07:58:14 PM

Not going into specifics but I found out recently that I've been permanently shut out of my dream career. Realize this is bitch-mode but I'm downright destroyed over this. Drinking slightly more than usual. No motivation for anything. Really in a dark place now.
Have any of you been dealt such shitty, life-altering news? How did you deal?

I'm limited in that I've learned if I don't have a passion for something I usually quit or fail. And so few things interest me enough to dedicate my life to them. I do have at least a little time on my side since I'm 31.

What was your career choice and what happened to check-mate you? In order to compose an intelligent reply, it would help to know what happened.

muscularny · « **Reply #10 on:** April 13, 2015, 10:48:24 PM »

Quote from: Brixtonbulldog on April 13, 2015, 07:58:14 PM

Not going into specifics but I found out recently that I've been permanently shut out of my dream career. Realize this is bitch-mode but I'm downright destroyed over this. Drinking slightly more than usual. No motivation for anything. Really in a dark place now.

Have any of you been dealt such shitty, life-altering news? How did you deal?

I'm limited in that I've learned if I don't have a passion for something I usually quit or fail. And so few things interest me enough to dedicate my life to them. I do have at least a little time on my side since I'm 31.

Anyone who has no passion for something quits or fails not just you.

You have a few things that interest you enough to dedicate your life to them? Really? Most people cant think of one thing let alone more than one thing.

And yes, the only people not being dealt blows are people that are not fighting to move up in life.

Get rid of the drinking and all that other BS, realize time fly's, you are 31 now and before you know it you are 41. Delete all social media, take a break of this site and get rid of all distractions on your phone and all negative friends. Make a clear WRITTEN not MENTAL note of goals and go for it relentlessly.

Realize that the majority of this planet have nothing, only a tiny few percent are worth anything, the chances are stacked against you in every way possible, so you can either follow what works or try your own little way, something you did till now.

Become a cold hard person, become a selfish human, do not care about anything and anyone until your goal is achieved. Remember, as bad as this sounds now, if you do not do this you wont have what to give anyone anyway. At least if you are temporarily a selfish prick, maybe you will amount to something and be able to share things with society in the future.

Right now it should be only about you, only about what someone can do for you, that is it, if no benefit to you and fast do not communicate or waste time. Weak soft people live a life of sorrow and pain, yeah they get people retweeting their garbage quotes but they can barely pay for their internet.

SF1900 · « **Reply #11 on:** April 13, 2015, 10:55:57 PM »

“If you're going to try, go all the way. Otherwise, don't even start. This could mean losing girlfriends, wives, relatives and maybe even your mind. It could mean not eating for three or four days. It could mean freezing on a park bench. It could mean jail. It could mean derision. It could mean mockery--isolation. Isolation is the gift. All the others are a test of your endurance, of how much you really want to do it. And, you'll do it, despite rejection and the worst odds. And it will be better than anything else you can imagine. If you're going to try, go all the way. There is no other feeling like that. You will be alone with the gods, and the nights will flame with fire. You will ride life straight to perfect laughter. It's the only good fight there is.”

― Charles Bukowski, Factotum

Teutonic Knight · « **Reply #12 on:** April 14, 2015, 02:45:08 AM »

Relocate ASAP to nicer climate Hawaii,American Samoa,Guam ,................

You just need T-shirt,board short & thongs .............

nzmusclemonster · « **Reply #13 on:** April 14, 2015, 02:49:03 AM »

I also failed in my quest to become a ugandan sailor

Teutonic Knight · « **Reply #14 on:** April 14, 2015, 02:50:50 AM »

Quote from: nzmusclemonster on April 14, 2015, 02:49:03 AM

I also failed in my quest to become a ugandan sailor

A U planning another clubbing tour of Croatia

nzmusclemonster · « **Reply #15 on:** April 14, 2015, 02:53:58 AM »

Quote from: Teutonic Knight on April 14, 2015, 02:50:50 AM

A U planning another clubbing tour of Croatia

No point, I've already destroyed all the vaginas there

Teutonic Knight · « **Reply #16 on:** April 14, 2015, 02:58:11 AM »

Quote from: nzmusclemonster on April 14, 2015, 02:53:58 AM

No point, I've already destroyed all the vaginas there

yeah right, or some nice sized maori mama is after U

Bevo · « **Reply #17 on:** April 14, 2015, 02:59:17 AM »

Buy lotto tickets and hope for the best

Teutonic Knight · « **Reply #18 on:** April 14, 2015, 03:07:52 AM »

Quote from: Bevo on April 14, 2015, 02:59:17 AM

Buy lotto tickets and hope for the best

like Spanish el gordo 2000 euros per ticket ...........

nzmusclemonster · « **Reply #19 on:** April 14, 2015, 03:12:27 AM »

Quote from: Teutonic Knight on April 14, 2015, 02:58:11 AM

yeah right, or some nice sized maori mama is after U

Your mom doesn't bother me anymore

Tedim · « **Reply #20 on:** April 14, 2015, 03:39:41 AM »

Quote from: Brixtonbulldog on April 13, 2015, 07:58:14 PM

Not going into specifics but I found out recently that I've been permanently shut out of my dream career. Realize this is bitch-mode but I'm downright destroyed over this. Drinking slightly more than usual. No motivation for anything. Really in a dark place now.

Have any of you been dealt such shitty, life-altering news? How did you deal?

I'm limited in that I've learned if I don't have a passion for something I usually quit or fail. And so few things interest me enough to dedicate my life to them. I do have at least a little time on my side since I'm 31.

Gay porn is phasing out the fluffers?

Hulkotron · « **Reply #21 on:** April 14, 2015, 03:59:29 AM »

Quote from: Brixtonbulldog on April 13, 2015, 07:58:14 PM

Not going into specifics but I found out recently that I've been permanently shut out of my dream career. Realize this is bitch-mode but I'm downright destroyed over this. Drinking slightly more than usual. No motivation for anything. Really in a dark place now.

Have any of you been dealt such shitty, life-altering news? How did you deal?

I'm limited in that I've learned if I don't have a passion for something I usually quit or fail. And so few things interest me enough to dedicate my life to them. I do have at least a little time on my side since I'm 31.

Girls and sons who have not been loved by their fathers seek attention once teens and adults to compensate for what they didnt have originally. Fathers either left them alone, or were distant most of the time and not encouraging them. Some even despised them which would shape their personality and the way they d interact with others for the rest of their life.
They are extremistic in everything they do, always looking exageratly for attention, and have troubles adapting to society's rules, because they also have troubles defining their own identity and respecting authority and hierarchy.

Also boys who got picked on by others during childhood and adolescence -often sons without a father figure- try to compensate by lifting weights, to develop muscles and survive in ther male world. They re insecure because they re girly, childish, feminine having been raised by a single mom. They lift obsessively hoping it will transform them into men, to compensate for their lack of influence from a father figure that was not there. Unfortunaltey they can get as big as they can it doesnt cure their insecurity and who they truly are, how they grew up being raised by a single mom. They re no as manly as other men whatever they do, and they often have a big lack of masculine presence they dont know how to balance, hence often being borderline homosexuals while trying to get their manhood back thru various manly activities (mma, cars, weight lifting etc). They are often the ones that, in order to get respect from other males will go the steroids route to get even "bigger" attemptint to cure their insecurity , but being natural not being "enough", they still feel "too small", insecure, amongst other males. The lack of a father figure also often means they didnt have guidance to continue studies and are often working shitty manual jobs.

Teutonic Knight · « **Reply #22 on:** April 14, 2015, 04:00:29 AM »

Quote from: nzmusclemonster on April 14, 2015, 03:12:27 AM

Your mom doesn't bother me anymore

gone back on sheep like other 'once were warriors'

obw, how was cricket world cup

_bruce_ · « **Reply #23 on:** April 14, 2015, 04:21:04 AM »

Quote from: nzmusclemonster on April 14, 2015, 02:49:03 AM

I also failed in my quest to become a ugandan sailor

One day you may - boats full of "escorts" are probably heading your direction 24/7.

Hulkotron · « **Reply #24 on:** April 14, 2015, 04:55:27 AM »

You could get into tranny-porn.