are you a "nice guy" to women?I got some bad news

[Army of One]

[Tapeworm]

I'm just a nice guy in general unless someone has pissed me off or I'm having a bad day or if my blood sugar is a little low or if I'm getting frustrated or inconvenienced in some way or if someone looks a little bit like someone I dislike.  Otherwise, I'm an extraordinarily wonderful person.

[el numero uno]

I don't take kindly to disrespect. not on the internet, not in person, not in a grocery store parking lot, not in like at walmart, not in a restaurant, not at the beach, not at the dry cleaners... anywhere.

ppl talk about the 'pussyfication' of America, yet they run their mouths thinking they won't get slapped and get their arm broken in front of their friends.

spent many yrs in a place where if you talk slick and say something out of line to somebody, you know that when you say it, you better be ready for what happens. most ppl here in the 'real world', aren't ready for what could happen.. and run their mouths like the world is a make believe cartoon. despite wearing nice slacks, polished shoes and a nice shirt, the guy you steal that parking spot from at the grocery store and proceed to flip off, may have just gotten out of prison and will have no problem identifying they bitch in you and proceed to teach you a lesson by taking you down to the ground and kicking out your teeth before you even know what happened.

the guy who's willing to go the furthest, wins. if you're not willing to go all the way, it's best you keep your mouth shut and move on, and make it to the next day.

[Slapper]

the guy who's willing to go the furthest, wins. if you're not willing to go all the way, it's best you keep your mouth shut and move on, and make it to the next day.

Relax dude!

There's enough pussy to go around.

Girl thinks of you as a friend? Move on to the next one.

It's as simple as that.

Getting pussified is the worst thing you can do.

[TheShape.]

There's nothing wrong with being a chill dude.

[flinstones1]

A " nice guy "  who she is attracted to will just be looked at as  a cool laid back dude. She will not lose attraction.

[SF1900]

I don't take kindly to disrespect. not on the internet, not in person, not in a grocery store parking lot, not in like at walmart, not in a restaurant, not at the beach, not at the dry cleaners... anywhere.

ppl talk about the 'pussyfication' of America, yet they run their mouths thinking they won't get slapped and get their arm broken in front of their friends.

spent many yrs in a place where if you talk slick and say something out of line to somebody, you know that when you say it, you better be ready for what happens. most ppl here in the 'real world', aren't ready for what could happen.. and run their mouths like the world is a make believe cartoon. despite wearing nice slacks, polished shoes and a nice shirt, the guy you steal that parking spot from at the grocery store and proceed to flip off, may have just gotten out of prison and will have no problem identifying they bitch in you and proceed to teach you a lesson by taking you down to the ground and kicking out your teeth before you even know what happened.

the guy who's willing to go the furthest, wins. if you're not willing to go all the way, it's best you keep your mouth shut and move on, and make it to the next day.

Girls and sons who have not been loved by their fathers seek attention once teens and adults to compensate for what they didnt have originally. Fathers either left them alone, or were distant most of the time and not encouraging them. Some even despised them which would shape their personality and the way they d interact with others for the rest of their life.

They are extremistic in everything they do, always looking exageratly for attention, and have troubles adapting to society's rules, because they also have troubles defining their own identity and respecting authority and hierarchy.

Also boys who got picked on by others during childhood and adolescence -often sons without a father figure- try to compensate by lifting weights, to develop muscles and survive in ther male world. They re insecure because they re girly, childish, feminine having been raised by a single mom. They lift obsessively hoping it will transform them into men, to compensate for their lack of influence from a father figure that was not there. Unfortunaltey they can get as big as they can it doesnt cure their insecurity and who they truly are, how they grew up being raised by a single mom. They re no as manly as other men whatever they do, and they often have a big lack of masculine presence they dont know how to balance, hence often being borderline homosexuals while trying to get their manhood back thru various manly activities (mma, cars, weight lifting etc). They are often the ones that, in order to get respect from other males will go the steroids route to get even "bigger" attemptint to cure their insecurity , but being natural not being "enough", they still feel "too small", insecure, amongst other males. The lack of a father figure also often means they didnt have guidance to continue studies and are often working shitty manual jobs.

[el numero uno]

 

[smoothasf]

Relax dude!

There's enough pussy to go around.

Girl thinks of you as a friend? Move on to the next one.

It's as simple as that.

Getting pussified is the worst thing you can do.

nice guys don't think like this, they don't move on, they hang around thinking they will be there for her and her alone all the time until one day she falls for him..... But it never happens.

[Tennisballz]

If she likes you, your niceness becomes a turn on.  If she isn't attracted to you your niceness just puts you in the friend zone.  Being a "nice guy" or a "bad boy" is all bullshit.  She either likes you or not.  The key is to go for women you like and the second you realize its not working move on.  

[G_Thang]

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If she likes you, your niceness becomes a turn on.  If she isn't attracted to you your niceness just puts you in the friend zone.  Being a "nice guy" or a "bad boy" is all bullshit.  She either likes you or not.  The key is to go for women you like and the second you realize its not working move on.  

end of thread.

[galain]

A beautiful woman once told me she wanted any sons she may have to be just like me when they grew up.

I think I was friendzoned - although she may have been asking for my seed - I'm still not sure.

[local hero]

A beautiful woman once told me she wanted any sons she may have to be just like me when they grew up.

I think I was friendzoned - although she may have been asking for my seed - I'm still not sure.

And you never slipped her one....outed!

[Antonio fella]

Wait and see, in 5-6 years she will be fat, alone and slowly getting ugly, loosing attention and constantly getting fatter...

When a nice guy will turn into a cool guy, who will be sucessfull with beautiful wife/gf (and perhaps kids, or not, w.e.)

Then... Then she will drink herself even more into +50-80lbs; she will be about 35 yo by that time, she will get a dogg to compensate on her lonliness feelings and hurt....

It all comes around 

She will send messages (desperatly) to the "nice" guy who will just feel compassion and sadness

[booty]

A beautiful woman once told me she wanted any sons she may have to be just like me when they grew up.

I think I was friendzoned - although she may have been asking for my seed - I'm still not sure.

Sounds like she was looking at you as marriage material.

[thegamechanger]

i do not care about women any more than i care about say ants.

[_aj_]

I did time as the "nice guy" in college. Biggest mistake my then-beta ass could have made. Never again.

I am nice, polite, gallant and friendly, but I will never again be the "nice guy".

The picture is harsh, but it should stand as a warning to young men.

[MAXX]

"nice guy" is just another word for unattractive

[devilsmile]

can't agree more. When you obviously want to get in her pants you still gotta be nice, but not as a christian friend. You have to let her know that you are hot for her and then watch does her body language respond to it the way you want to and then carry on asking her out for a date or something.

Every time I've gotten a date or just plain laid I've talked to a woman openly with a semi. I've also gotten declined, but I have never gotten anywhere by just being nice.

[SuperTed]

Different types of nice guys. For instance you have the beta, sissified nice guy but also have the laid back, relaxed nice guy.

Nothing wrong with the latter, the former though will most likely forever remain a virgin.

[Radical Plato]

It is possible to be a nice guy and an alpha, but not many can pull it off.

[SuperTed]

It is possible to be a nice guy and an alpha, but not many can pull it off.

That's true. Plenty of alphas are nice guys. That's what I meant when I said there are various types of "nice guys".

[da_vinci]

I'm always nice and respectful, works great for me. Being tall and jacked probably helps too.

[MAXX]

I'm always nice and respectful, works great for me. Being tall and jacked probably helps too.

yes but "nice guy" coming from a womans mouth is usually a bad sign 

means friendzoned and beta. "oh he's a nice guy,,,,,but..."

[devilsmile]

Different types of nice guys. For instance you have the beta, sissified nice guy but also have the laid back, relaxed nice guy.

Nothing wrong with the latter, the former though will most likely forever remain a virgin.

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