Went to Disneyland - Observations

[El Diablo Blanco]

My family was in town and wanted to go there so we went.  had lots of fun, but my main observation is why there are so many Kunt mothers.  So many women pushing strollers looking like all they want to do is stick a gun in their mouths and pull the trigger.  Just grumpy looking, completely bitches, no manners.  You give them a smile and they look at you with a Fuck off and die look.  Why do these whores even have kids?  Were they grumpy rude kunts before or is having a kid/s the reason?

[SF1900]

Probably has to do with the realization that raising children is pretty damn tough, physically, emotionally, and financially.

I think people have this vision in their head: Strapping, good looking man to be married to, 2-3 well-behaved children, home, white picket fence, dog, and cat. Instead, they get a man who is out of shape and doesn't care, children with behavior problems, a home that they may no longer care to keep up, their dog has 3 legs, and their cat has no tail. The realization of life hits.

This is why I never want to get married or have kids.

[Howard]

My family was in town and wanted to go there so we went.  had lots of fun, but my main observation is why there are so many Kunt mothers.  So many women pushing strollers looking like all they want to do is stick a gun in their mouths and pull the trigger.  Just grumpy looking, completely bitches, no manners.  You give them a smile and they look at you with a Fuck off and die look.  Why do these whores even have kids?  Were they grumpy rude kunts before or is having a kid/s the reason?

I have no idea what the actual % is, but I see/observe plenty of UNHAPPY, miserable parents.
Woman libbers from 40 yrs ago just assumed men would do a lot more domestic crap when they went to work.
We didn't. In fact, a lot of men refused to marry them or got divorced from their crabby ass.

Now, they are working single moms and life sucks.

[Julio Ceasar]

Probably has to do with the realization that raising children is pretty damn tough, physically, emotionally, and financially.

I think people have this vision in their head: Strapping, good looking man to be married to, 2-3 well-behaved children, home, white picket fence, dog, and cat. Instead, they get a man who is out of shape and doesn't care, children with behavior problems, a home that they may no longer care to keep up, their dog has 3 legs, and their cat has no tail. The realization of life hits.

This is why I never want to get married or have kids.

Clever man!

Yepp, to much fairytails and hollywood movies, and girlfriends with family pretend everything is great haha...

Bitches are very stupid!

[Army of One]

Probably has to do with the realization that raising children is pretty damn tough, physically, emotionally, and financially.

I think people have this vision in their head: Strapping, good looking man to be married to, 2-3 well-behaved children, home, white picket fence, dog, and cat. Instead, they get a man who is out of shape and doesn't care, children with behavior problems, a home that they may no longer care to keep up, their dog has 3 legs, and their cat has no tail. The realization of life hits.

This is why I never want to get married or have kids.

Great post

[calfzilla]

Probably has to do with the realization that raising children is pretty damn tough, physically, emotionally, and financially.

I think people have this vision in their head: Strapping, good looking man to be married to, 2-3 well-behaved children, home, white picket fence, dog, and cat. Instead, they get a man who is out of shape and doesn't care, children with behavior problems, a home that they may no longer care to keep up, their dog has 3 legs, and their cat has no tail. The realization of life hits.

This is why I never want to get married or have kids.

Excellent post. I don't mind them and don't really want them I'm 50/50 leaning more towards not wanting them. The reason; I observe people a lot and in my observations people with kids don't seem happy. They seem tired, put out and seem to hate life. Also too much loss of freedom.

[Howard]

Probably has to do with the realization that raising children is pretty damn tough, physically, emotionally, and financially.

I think people have this vision in their head: Strapping, good looking man to be married to, 2-3 well-behaved children, home, white picket fence, dog, and cat. Instead, they get a man who is out of shape and doesn't care, children with behavior problems, a home that they may no longer care to keep up, their dog has 3 legs, and their cat has no tail. The realization of life hits.

This is why I never want to get married or have kids.

Good post. Current trends show that younger, successful males are NOT getting married or having kids now.
I'm odd because I enjoy being married ( 4x LOL) BUT never wanted kids. Most are all or none on that.

Oh, my first 2 wives changed and wanted kids , a couple YEARS after we got married and agreed NOT to.
It's been my experience that a woman changes a LOT before she hits age 40.
Either accept it and go with her changes or divorce her ass( I chose the later)

FYI, the 3 legged dog is cool...just sayin'

[Howard]

Excellent post. I don't mind them and don't really want them I'm 50/50 leaning more towards not wanting them. The reason; I observe people a lot and in my observations people with kids don't seem happy. They seem tired, put out and seem to hate life. Also too much loss of freedom.

Bingo! Just imagine working your job all day, then coming home and having a 2nd full time job on nights and weekends. Good luck with THAT!

[calfzilla]

Bingo! Just imagine working your job all day, then coming home and having a 2nd full time job on nights and weekends. Good luck with THAT!

I tell peole that if I ever have kids I want to be a stay at home dad while the wife works.

[ritch]

ah fuck, just the thought of the litttle fuckers downstairs from me screaming like maniacs (i was sure they were on meds, nope, just bad parenting) makes me sooooo happy not to have any, oh shit the people with kids seem to carry so much REGRET...

[SF1900]

Clever man!

Yepp, to much fairytails and hollywood movies, and girlfriends with family pretend everything is great haha...

Bitches are very stupid!

To be honest, I think people put on a facade, a fake smile when they are in relationships. I think when people get married, they have thoughts such as, "Could I have done better?," "What if I married John, instead of Mike?," or "Is there someone better out there for me?" I think this applies to a lot of people. When thinking about relationships, it reminds me of the quote by Ernest Becker.

“By the time we grow up we become masters at dissimulation, at cultivating a self that the world cannot probe. But we pay a price. After years of turning people away, of protecting our inner self, of cultivating it by living in a different world, of furnishing this world with our fantasies and dreams—lo and behold we find that we are hopelessly separated from everyone else. We have become victims of our own art. We touch people on the outsides of their bodies, and they us, but we cannot get at their insides and cannot reveal our insides to them. This is one of the great tragedies of our interiority—it is utterly personal and unrevealable. Often we want to say something unusually intimate to a spouse, a parent, a friend, communicate something of how we are really feeling about a sunset, who we really feel we are—only to fall strangely and miserably flat. Once in a great while we succeed, sometimes more with one person, less or never with others. But the occasional break-through only proves the rule. You reach out with a disclosure, fail, and fall back bitterly into yourself. We emit huge globs of love to our parents and spouses, and the glob slithers away in exchange of words that are somehow beside the point of what we are trying to say. People seem to keep bumping up against each other with their exteriors and falling away from each other. Take even the sexual act—the most intimate merger given to organisms. For most people, even for their entire lives, it is simply a joining of exteriors. The insides melt only in the moment of orgasm, but even this is brief, and a melting is not a communication. It is a physical overcoming of separateness, not a symbolic revelation and justification of one’s interior. Many people pursue sex precisely because it is a mystique of the overcoming of the separateness of the inner world, and they go from one partner to another because they can never quite achieve “it." So the endless interrogations: “What are you thinking about right now—me? Do you feel what I feel? Do you love me?” Ernest Becker

[SF1900]

Great post

I don't want to have to deal with any of that crap. Call it selfish, I guess. Or perhaps its avoidance. Who knows. I just find it much easier to go solo.

People will always say to me, "Do you want to grow old and lonely?" Um, people have this weird picture of the 80 year old man, smoking cigarettes, living in a basement, all mad and pissed at the world. With todays technology (dating sites, social media), its almost impossible to not have a social life. I know a guy who is 53, and divorced 12 years ago. Never wants to get married again. Hes in good shape, and has a pretty good job. He goes on dating sites, meets women, goes out on dates, and has met other people via social media sites. Basically, the idea that single equals being lonely and grouchy is sort of changing due to the availability of meeting people via social media, etc. Its almost impossible in today's world not to be connected to someone and have things to do, despite being single.

[SF1900]

Excellent post. I don't mind them and don't really want them I'm 50/50 leaning more towards not wanting them. The reason; I observe people a lot and in my observations people with kids don't seem happy. They seem tired, put out and seem to hate life. Also too much loss of freedom.

x2. Yes, Ive always liked to do "my own thing," although I don't lead an overly exciting life. Nonetheless, I want to come and go as I please. For me, its just less complicated and more easy to navigate my world.

[Grape Ape]

You all know there ARE successful relationships in couples with kids......just sayin'

[SF1900]

Good post. Current trends show that younger, successful males are NOT getting married or having kids now.
I'm odd because I enjoy being married ( 4x LOL) BUT never wanted kids. Most are all or none on that.

Oh, my first 2 wives changed and wanted kids , a couple YEARS after we got married and agreed NOT to.
It's been my experience that a woman changes a LOT before she hits age 40.
Either accept it and go with her changes or divorce her ass( I chose the later)

FYI, the 3 legged dog is cool...just sayin'

There was an article written about this. The reason why many many are not getting married is not because they are successful, but because the legal system treats them unfairly during divorce. When divorce happens, the man can lose half his pension, has to pay child support and alimony, often has to leave the home and move, never gets custody of his children-child always lives with the mom (unless the mom is unfit), and then gets pushed out of the picture little by little. In fact, research shows that nonresidential fathers often lose contact contact with their children over time, and it has nothing to do with being a "deadbeat dad." Unfortunately, many women make it difficult for good dads to regularly see their children or come up with reasons why they cant pick up their child for weekend visits.


Usually the conversations go something like this:

Dad: "I am going to pick up little Johnny today. Its my weekend to see him."
Mom: "Oh sorry, I know you were supposed to see little Johnny this weekend, but we have a lot to do this weekend, can you come by next weekend?"
Dad: "But its my weekend to see him. I was looking forward to it."
Mom: "Why are you being difficult?"
Dad: "I am not, I want to see my child this weekend and I can't do it next weekend."
Mom: "Oh, youre such a deadbeat dad, can't see your child."
Dad: "I can, I want to see little Johnny THIS weekend, the week I am suppose to see him. I am out of town next weekend."
Mom: "Youre a deadbeat dad. I am posting this on Facebook."

Over time, the father becomes frustrated, and despite his attempts to see Johnny, can only try to so much. Then he gets labeled a "deadbeat dad."

[Army of One]

I don't want to have to deal with any of that crap. Call it selfish, I guess. Or perhaps its avoidance. Who knows. I just find it much easier to go solo.

People will always say to me, "Do you want to grow old and lonely?" Um, people have this weird picture of the 80 year old man, smoking cigarettes, living in a basement, all mad and pissed at the world. With todays technology (dating sites, social media), its almost impossible to not have a social life. I know a guy who is 53, and divorced 12 years ago. Never wants to get married again. Hes in good shape, and has a pretty good job. He goes on dating sites, meets women, goes out on dates, and has met other people via social media sites. Basically, the idea that single equals being lonely and grouchy is sort of changing due to the availability of meeting people via social media, etc. Its almost impossible in today's world not to be connected to someone and have things to do, despite being single.

Social Media has changed everything, you don't have to be alone at any age, you can find women at any age.I'm in the same boat as you, I observed how my siblings treat my parents, this myth of being looked after in old age by your kids never happens, the second you affect their daily lives then in the home you go.Everyone is selfish.This video sums it up perfectly.

[El Diablo Blanco]

They just had this bitchiness like their stroller is some sort of Royal carriage that you need to step out of the way of or they just ram right into you.  No apologies, no sorry, nothing.  You hold the door open for them and they walk right through without a thank you.  Fucking rude women.

[SF1900]

You all know there ARE successful relationships in couples with kids......just sayin'

Yes, of course there are. I agree with you on that.

But the trends are changing. Divorce rate is extremely high these days-40 to 50%. In fact, it becomes increasingly higher with each subsequent marriage--I think 60-70% for a second marriage and 80% for a third marriage for divorce. Men are getting married less (see above post), and when divorce does happen, its often a "bloody battle."

This does not mean that there are not happy couples, but a lot of people dont want to take that risk. Because what happens when shit does hit the fan and divorce happens, then you see the claws come out from both men and women. Especially on social media lol. People don't want to take that chance any more. I can't blame anyone for wanting to stay single these days.

[SF1900]

Social Media has changed everything, you don't have to be alone at any age, you can find women at any age.I'm in the same boat as you, I observed how my siblings treat my parents, this myth of being looked after in old age by your kids never happens, the second you affect their daily lives then in the home you go.Everyone is selfish.This video sums it up perfectly.

ha, yes, great video!! My grandpa was single for many years after my grandma died. Everyone thought he'd be lonely. Shit, he had a better and more exciting life than me (before he passed away a few months ago) lol. He was meeting men and women his age, going out, playing bingo, going to casinos with them, etc. He loved it. As you stated, its almost impossible to be lonely in today's world. As long as you can form meaningful relationships, its all good. Some people need this to be with an intimate partner, others dont need that.

[el numero uno]

Probably has to do with the realization that raising children is pretty damn tough, physically, emotionally, and financially.

I think people have this vision in their head: Strapping, good looking man to be married to, 2-3 well-behaved children, home, white picket fence, dog, and cat. Instead, they get a man who is out of shape and doesn't care, children with behavior problems, a home that they may no longer care to keep up, their dog has 3 legs, and their cat has no tail. The realization of life hits.

This is why I never want to get married or have kids.

Hahah  

[Grape Ape]

Yes, of course there are. I agree with you on that.

But the trends are changing. Divorce rate is extremely high these days-40 to 50%. In fact, it becomes increasingly higher with each subsequent marriage--I think 60-70% for a second marriage and 80% for a third marriage for divorce. Men are getting married less (see above post), and when divorce does happen, its often a "bloody battle."

This does not mean that there are not happy couples, but a lot of people dont want to take that risk. Because what happens when shit does hit the fan and divorce happens, then you see the claws come out from both men and women. Especially on social media lol. People don't want to take that chance any more. I can't blame anyone for wanting to stay single these days.

I don't begrudge anyone ANY lifestyle choices, as long as it doesn't fuck with me.

But I can see why people might lean anti marriage....but, things are a lot less taboo these days.......divorce?  pffft....no stigma attached to it.   Social Media's a whole 'nuther animal.  Probably awesome if you're single and older, could be painful as a teen...

[thegamechanger]

i stopped reading at when you smile at mothers

[SF1900]

I don't begrudge anyone ANY lifestyle choices, as long as it doesn't fuck with me.

But I can see why people might lean anti marriage....but, things are a lot less taboo these days.......divorce?  pffft....no stigma attached to it.   Social Media's a whole 'nuther animal.  Probably awesome if you're single and older, could be painful as a teen...

I am not begrudging anyones lifestyle either, just merely trying to explain the possible dissatisfaction with marriage these days. Obviously, it does not account for every marriage.

Social media is probably contributing to divorce rates, as people have more of an opportunity to cheat, meet someone else, etc. The advent of technology has definitely changed relationships, for people who are single, married or divorced.

Why would being single be tough as a teen? It may even be easier than being single as an adult.

[Grape Ape]

Why would being single be tough as a teen? It may even be easier than being single as an adult.

Not being single - was referring to social media.  Saying it's awesome for a single adult, but not awesome for teens, in general....I should have been more clear.

[SF1900]

Not being single - was referring to social media.  Saying it's awesome for a single adult, but not awesome for teens, in general....I should have been more clear.

Yes, depends how you use social media.