I should probably add that before any training, work or anything I am a single father who has experienced the full shittiness of Irish law as it stands against single fathers. Mother hounds you down as the father then doesn't put your name as father on birth cert? OK. Break up with mother after four years (unmarried) and have access withdrawn on a whim? OK. Get court order on access, guardianship and legal custody? Fuck it, she can break it at will without repercussions but don't forget to pay that maintenance!
Yeah, equality all right.