still no update pics from Vince's "transformation kit"
You can lead a horse to waterYou can lead a horse to water (but you can't make him/it drink).
Something that you say which means you can give someone the opportunity to do something, but you cannot force them to do it if they do not want to.
eg. I made all the arrangements, bought the ticket, and even took him to the airport, but he just wouldn't get on the plane.