Author Topic: Haven't even been with her for a week and she's already playing games (Read 17579 times)

flinstones1 · « **on:** June 06, 2015, 10:08:15 AM »

So I've just started seeing this new chick, I haven't asked us to be exclusive yet, but a week ago she wrote me off because she was complaining about how the only time I hit her up is when I get bored of my side bitches and how I only call her every two weeks when I get bored. Normally i dont EVER commit to one chick unless she proves herself, but I figured ok this one might be different....she is just a chick that doesn't want to be played or cheated on. so I said ok Ill give this relationship thing a go.

Tuesday I told her I had a suprise for her this weekend, I told her yesterday I was gonna take her to a winery with me...she hates bars and clubs so I figured this was the only way I was gonna get her to drink.

She jokingly texts me why do you wanna get me drunk? With a winkey face...

Im like even if I was who cares, when Im trying to build something long term with you anyways I already said Im not gonna use you like that. She responds

"well....we haven't built anything yet. So even if your planning to... you still haven't haha"

I respond "well yeah but you wouldnt be talking to me if I wasnt trying to build something with you long term anyways"

She responds "not necessarily"

Im pissed off, because just a week ago she was saying shes not gonna settle for a hookup..and wants a relationship. There is no way Id take some potential side chick to a fucking winery with me...unless I wanted to build a relationship with her.

Its the first comment that pissed me off the most though, the " we still haven't built anything" one.....I feel like there are some things you just don't say to a guy..especially a guy like me. yes I get it we havent "built anything" were still getting to know eachother..... you haven't proven yourself either.... but you dont go telling the other person that.

Im not gonna lie, I want this relationship to work.....I like her...but alot of time into talking to her.... but Im pissed the fuck off. Im thinking about blowing her off this weekend and bringing this little 20 year old latina with me instead. Least she'll probably fucking appreciate it.

_aj_ · « **Reply #1 on:** June 06, 2015, 10:11:52 AM »

Try asking here: http://www.girlsaskguys.com/

el numero uno · « **Reply #2 on:** June 06, 2015, 10:15:26 AM »

I need an ass pic before elaborating on this.

flinstones1 · « **Reply #3 on:** June 06, 2015, 10:24:22 AM »

Quote from: el numero uno on June 06, 2015, 10:15:26 AM

I need an ass pic before elaborating on this.

LOL Im not putting her photo up here.

The 20 year old is on the right though
http://i.imgur.com/7yD32G2.png

el numero uno · « **Reply #4 on:** June 06, 2015, 10:27:46 AM »

Quote from: flinstones1 on June 06, 2015, 10:24:22 AM

LOL Im not putting her photo up here.

The 20 year old is on the right though
http://i.imgur.com/7yD32G2.png

Who says I was talking about hers?

Waller · « **Reply #5 on:** June 06, 2015, 10:28:12 AM »

She flirts and jokes and you get wound up...

Chill out, have a laugh.

mazrim · « **Reply #6 on:** June 06, 2015, 10:43:07 AM »

Maybe she's having second thoughts after letting you know she's not a drinker and you decide to take her out to drink as a wonderful surprise....

Hulk-smash! · « **Reply #7 on:** June 06, 2015, 10:44:20 AM »

First sentence says it all "....my side bitches....".

thegamechanger · « **Reply #8 on:** June 06, 2015, 10:45:34 AM »

SF1900 · « **Reply #9 on:** June 06, 2015, 10:46:24 AM »

Maybe she found out you asked getbig to help buy you a truck and was turned off.

Mr Anabolic · « **Reply #10 on:** June 06, 2015, 10:49:27 AM »

You're young. Why the fuck do you want to get serious for?

Hump her and dump her, then move on to the next one.

OlympiaGym · « **Reply #11 on:** June 06, 2015, 10:51:11 AM »

Quote from: flinstones1 on June 06, 2015, 10:24:22 AM

LOL Im not putting her photo up here.

The 20 year old is on the right though
http://i.imgur.com/7yD32G2.png

The one on the left is one of the ugliest women I have ever seen

_aj_ · « **Reply #12 on:** June 06, 2015, 10:55:49 AM »

Quote from: Mr Anabolic on June 06, 2015, 10:49:27 AM

You're young. Why the fuck do you want to get serious for?

Hump her and dump her, then move on to the next one.

You probably want to put quotes around "young" here.

bigmc · « **Reply #13 on:** June 06, 2015, 10:57:30 AM »

Quote from: _aj_ on June 06, 2015, 10:11:52 AM

Try asking here: http://www.girlsaskguys.com/

tell me you don't post there

The Abdominal Snoman · « **Reply #14 on:** June 06, 2015, 10:58:13 AM »

Maybe she's seen a bunch of assorted pills in your desk while you were in the bathroom and she figures you are gonna try to pull a Bill Cosby on her by slipping something in her drink...

_aj_ · « **Reply #15 on:** June 06, 2015, 10:59:28 AM »

Quote from: bigmc on June 06, 2015, 10:57:30 AM

tell me you don't post there

flinstones1 · « **Reply #16 on:** June 06, 2015, 11:08:37 AM »

Quote from: mazrim on June 06, 2015, 10:43:07 AM

Maybe she's having second thoughts after letting you know she's not a drinker and you decide to take her out to drink as a wonderful surprise....

She's into wine bro we had talked about going to a winery before.

Al Doggity · « **Reply #17 on:** June 06, 2015, 11:22:12 AM »

LOL are you really getting pissed because she thinks a guy could be lying to her and she has a wait-and-see attitude about future plans? You've never suspected one of your "side bitches" was showing you a false face?
If you want to build something with her, then just do it. There's nothing crazy about her keeping her guard up.

flinstones1 · « **Reply #18 on:** June 06, 2015, 11:31:27 AM »

Quote from: Mr Anabolic on June 06, 2015, 10:49:27 AM

You're young. Why the fuck do you want to get serious for?

Hump her and dump her, then move on to the next one.

I want a serious relationship. I landed a decent job recently and am making good money now, for a guy my age anyways... my best friends dad is the fucking CEO of some architect company the guy is rich as fuck.... and said if I learn the business he has no problem handing it down to me. Its alot of shit on computers though and thats not really my strength

I wake up at 5 AM every day...between studying for that, the gym.... I dont have the time to go to the club and stuff... nor the desire or energy to game women like I used to.....

flinstones1 · « **Reply #19 on:** June 06, 2015, 11:33:13 AM »

Quote from: Al Doggity on June 06, 2015, 11:22:12 AM

LOL are you really getting pissed because she thinks a guy could be lying to her and she has a wait-and-see attitude about future plans? You've never suspected one of your "side bitches" was showing you a false face?
If you want to build something with her, then just do it. There's nothing crazy about her keeping her guard up.

Bro I will post the entire conversation between us when I get home in two hours.

da_vinci · « **Reply #20 on:** June 06, 2015, 11:51:21 AM »

Tell her you aren't ready for anything serious at 21 anyway.

TuHolmes · « **Reply #21 on:** June 06, 2015, 11:59:35 AM »

Remember, never pay attention to what a woman says. Always pay attention to what they do.

Actions are better than words.

DATA > Opinion

Dr Dutch · « **Reply #22 on:** June 06, 2015, 12:20:21 PM »

A few weeks ?
Drop her like a bad habit

Says D'r Dutch.

Al Doggity · « **Reply #23 on:** June 06, 2015, 12:28:55 PM »

Quote from: flinstones1 on June 06, 2015, 11:33:13 AM

Bro I will post the entire conversation between us when I get home in two hours.

OK... I'm just saying be easy. Without seeing the transcripts of the convo, she's not completely out of school. When you meet someone- this goes for both men and women- all you can do is let them show you who they are over time. Someone telling you everything that's going to go down in the future doesn't mean shit. From my perspective, what you've posted already doesn't really sound like a game. If it was me, it wouldn't be an issue I'd press. Whatever happens between us just happens. If it was a girl I'd only been pursuing one week, that wouldn't even be a conversation I'd want to have. If my intention was to get serious with her, she'd see it in my actions. There would be no arguments.

geeizback · « **Reply #24 on:** June 06, 2015, 12:33:43 PM »

flinstones this is an epic part of your post

my best friends dad is the fucking CEO of some architect company the guy is rich as fuck.... and said if I learn the business he has no problem handing it down to me.

move over steve jobs- this kid is ahead of the curve. you've got the corporate speak to a tee. great elevator pitch.

anyway the bottom line is this- she is using you for cheap nights out when she is too sore from getting banged by the football team. clear as day. sorry to tell you- but she's laughing at you mate. are you still only 20? were you born feb 29th?