There is no shame in relapsing, but he needs to work the 12 steps.
What is characteristic of dead end users is they feel cured after long periods of sobriety and think nothing of using AAS as part of a new beginning . . . They're gonna get in shape! One thing leads to another, a little pot, a little wine and back on the pills and a needle. This responsibility for ( relapsing ) is in part the sponsors, but when they are slowly relapsing ( nightly wine ) and focused on off setting dysmorphic self imagery with large monthly incomes and high profile "status" vehicles, they are not there to help. And others, well how can they offer sponsored support when they can't keep a roof over their head?
RIP Chaos 1974 -2016