Is it possible to fall in love with someone you have never met.....

[Uncle Joon]

but have talked to for a very long time on the internet, shared pictures and video's with, spoke to for h ours on phone and even spoke to members of their family and gotten to know that person really well.

can u you ever develop actual real feelings for someone on the internet that you have never met

or is it always a fantasy and considered an e-romance until you actually meet and exchange bodily fluids

[Wiggs]

Good question. My opinion is meeting and living with someone day to day is much different than internet relationship. Much, much different. You see the good, bad and ugly in real life. Internet not so much.

[_aj_]

no.

Next question.

[Azure]

I think you fall in love with their persona...who they want you to believe they are.  The thing is about every day communication is that the more time you spend with people, the more you learn about them.  You either decide to accept it or move on.

I tend to think many of these internet relationships are people who have trouble connecting with people in real life so the internet makes it easier for them to be who they wish they could be.

[Simple Simon]

but have talked to for a very long time on the internet, shared pictures and video's with, spoke to for h ours on phone and even spoke to members of their family and gotten to know that person really well.

can u you ever develop actual real feelings for someone on the internet that you have never met

or is it always a fantasy and considered an e-romance until you actually meet and exchange bodily fluids

Glad you got that off her chest,.....sorry, your chest.

[ritch]

until you smell and taste someone, it has very little meaning.

Met up with a woman (and I told her why) was not gonna see her again. Her snatch was pure stink.

[Eulogy]

Glad you got that off her chest,.....sorry, your chest.

In all seriousness, you can never truly know someone until you've met them, talked and touched them. Get a sense of things when you're out with your mates or just alone at home... It is easier to be accommodating online than in person, so just be prepared for differences from online to in person... but if you're open to new experiences and actually think you two might have a lot in common, arrange a real life meeting.

[Uncle Joon]

until you smell and taste someone, it has very little meaning.

Met up with a woman (and I told her why) was not gonna see her again. Her snatch was pure stink.

yeah nothing worst than a smelly c u nt, it can put you off having sex for years

[Nails]

you still thinking about bikinislut i take it

[Uncle Joon]

Good question. My opinion is meeting and living with someone day to day is much different than internet relationship. Much, much different. You see the good, bad and ugly in real life. Internet not so much.

yeah you are right not to mention photoshop!

[Wiggs]

yeah you are right not to mention photoshop!

lol...I would assume alot of Skyping would be going on to see the real person.

[ritch]

FYI, "she" was a tranny and you fingered "her" shithole. Hope that helps/

LOL!!!
that really made me laugh out loud for real.

Yes it helps, guess I won't do that again, phew...

[D-Cord]

There have been a couple romances on GetBig where the people never even met.  People like that, you feel bad for their children.

[robcguns]

no.

Next question.

This

[Rudee]

I know of a person who was falling for someone they were chatting with on POF for over 3 months, but never met in person because they lived 3 hours away from each other.   They finally met this summer, and apparently neither one of them thought the other person looked like they did in the photos.  After the first meeting, they never chatted again.   Prior to that, they were messaging each other dozens of times a day over 3 months.  Hilarious.

[ritch]

I know of a person who was falling for someone they were chatting with on POF for over 3 months, but never met in person because they lived 3 hours away from each other.   They finally met this summer, and apparently neither one of them thought the other person looked like they did in the photos.  After the first meeting, they never chatted again.   Prior to that, they were messaging each other dozens of times a day over 3 months.  Hilarious.

Surprise, surprise....
They both got what they deserved.

If you can't meet up within a week off such a site, just move on unless there's some exception.

[OlympiaGym]

"Love"

Lol!!!

[forillagorilla]

until you smell and taste someone, it has very little meaning.

Met up with a woman (and I told her why) was not gonna see her again. Her snatch was pure stink.

I can only imagine what a skank that YOU meet up must look like - LOL.  You seem like a bottom feeder

[Davidtheman100]

Yes,, you can obviously fall in love without meeting them...There is some type of syndrome people can have where they can fall in love with people they have actually never even interacted with....So yes, ever seen the show catfish? Happens all the time..

[ritch]

I can only imagine what a skank that YOU meet up must look like - LOL.  You seem like a bottom feeder

Not what your mom said last night...

BTW, she was pretty you moron, how am I supposed to know what her snatch smells like before meeting up since you appear to fuckiN' know everything???

Go ahead, school me oh masterful one....

[HTexan]

Good question. My opinion is meeting and living with someone day to day is much different than internet relationship. Much, much different. You see the good, bad and ugly in real life. Internet not so much.

went you are dating, that person only shows you their best. So you're saying to can't fall in live until you move in together?

[TuHolmes]

You can fall in love... Love is just electrical impulses.

You can not say you have a lasting love without knowing them.

Also, you may fall in love with someone you are only dating, but until you live with them, you don't know if you can love them day in and day out.

[Irongrip400]

There have been a couple romances on GetBig where the people never even met.  People like that, you feel bad for their children.

Chadwick!

[Vince B]

but have talked to for a very long time on the internet, shared pictures and video's with, spoke to for h ours on phone and even spoke to members of their family and gotten to know that person really well.

can u you ever develop actual real feelings for someone on the internet that you have never met

or is it always a fantasy and considered an e-romance until you actually meet and exchange bodily fluids

The quick answer is yes, people can and do fall in love over the phone and internet. However, there are degrees of love between couples.

The internet and phone affair probably hides plenty and when people meet disillusion will set in. The little faults on both sides will become more important.

The real question behind your question is whether a hot, intelligent gal could fall in love with someone like you. The quick answer here is obvious: no possible way.

Ask yourself this. Are you the kind of person who has integrity, is honest, and is a good person? Do you fabricate things and upset people? Do you lose your temper easily?

Have you had long term affairs in the past? What about your upbringing? Do you know how to share intimacy with someone close?

From what we have seen here there is no way in hell a smart woman would remain in a relationship with you. Take your substance abuse and other extremes.

You do not have a single male friend who is close. You turn against people who befriend you then try to buy friendship with all manner of unsuitable candidates.

Again, are you the kind of guy who others want to be friends with? Even hapless Josh dislikes you except for money you might send him. He doesn't think

someone like you should own a dog. Now that is a powerful statement and a sobering one as well. You need a reality check.

So that leaves bigmc. Sorry, but he was never your mate. He merely wanted to check out who you were. End of story.

Btw, anyone who has to post for relationship advice here on Getbig has to be considered naive, foolish and perhaps pathetic. In other words, a loser.

Hope this helps.

By the way, you do know the formula re how to make women fall in love with you. When that fails toss a few dollars their way. Works like a charm.

That is the easy part for a good talker like you. The hard part is how to sustain the woman's love when she finds out who you really are. Since your feelings are

not deep or genuine you fall out of love as easily as you fell in love. This sad cycle persists endlessly for you. It is always the next hot gal who is the real love of your life!

Thus, all your relationships will end in disaster. You then resort to substance abuse to console yourself and escape from the painful reality that

follows you like a heavy weight. All your posturing trying to look successful and tough are a diversion. The Flotsam are not impressed with

bullshitters. Finally, let other tongues praise you and not your own mouth.

[Coach is Back!]

but have talked to for a very long time on the internet, shared pictures and video's with, spoke to for h ours on phone and even spoke to members of their family and gotten to know that person really well.

can u you ever develop actual real feelings for someone on the internet that you have never met

or is it always a fantasy and considered an e-romance until you actually meet and exchange bodily fluids

Absolutely. Most people on here know I met my wife on here. We communicated for months, PM's, Email, phone (no texting back then) we were in love before we even met face to face. We're going on 8 years of marriage and it will be almost 12 years we've been together.