How to make family time bearable???

[ritch]

OK, I need ideas on what to do when around family. I seriously find spending time with them to be impossible for more than3-4hrs max at a time. When they come here, they stay somewhere and I just gotta show up a few times, shoot the shit then go back to my place and all is good.

They all like to drink, I don't. They just like to sit there listen to god aweful boring music and chat. I can't take it and am shitting myself mentally thinking of the week, yes... A full fuckiN' week, I will have to spend with them soon.

I won't even get to smoke weed but will have zopiclone to sleep. Just leaves me kinda screwed the other 16hrs each day. I'm gonna make some weed cookies as those just hammer me nicely, but know I'll miss having my beloved joints. Oh man, this is not gonna be easy for me...

So, I need ideas please.

I like to bowl actually! Am rather good at it. But they don't like it. Impossible to find a movie we all agree on. There's always 2 of the 5 people who won't be into it and end up talking and pissing the others off. My dad never shuts up, no matter what movie.

Could go play pool one night, but after 5ish games, that gets boring.

I'm thinking perhaps the movie theatre as at least in there, everyone has to shut up and watch.

Sometimes we play cards but my dad is so annoying as he never knows it's his turn, can never see if the card is blue or green (uno) and you just know exactly what he's gonna say before he even says it. And the longer we play, the more they drink the more annoyed I get. Very hard to keep my cool....

Dunno, what do you guys do with your families when together? I find it so unfair they get to enjoy being semi drunk and have their fun, talk all loud and be as drunk people get while I remain bored and frustrated.

I have good relations with them, so not like I hate them, just find being around them for no reason, simply unnecessary to best describe it...

[TuHolmes]

Fight with them.

It's not a family gathering if we don't fight.

[CalvinH]

Are you in warm weather...outside shit, amusement parks, water parks, hikes...

[wes]

Sounds like a tough week ahead.

[ritch]

Are you in warm weather...outside shit, amusement parks, water parks, hikes...

Maybe go to the zoo. My dad can't keep up very well as he gets gassed walking too much.

The weather will be kinda cool by then for water parks, not much for amusement parks in the area we will be at but it's a good suggestion.

[CalvinH]

Maybe go to the zoo. My dad can't keep up very well as he gets gassed walking too much.

The weather will be kinda cool by then for water parks, not much for amusement parks in the area we will be at but it's a good suggestion.

Ok does he golf, like sports? maybe take him to play or go to a game.

[ritch]

Sounds like a tough week ahead.

I know I kinda sound like a terrible person, lol! But I don't like being taken out of my element. I don't even like to travel, even if it's some place "fun" international traveling sucks ass. The line ups and shit drive me nuts. Fat people everywhere as they walk by and bump you, it's disgusting.

Fuck everyone, lol!!!

[Waller]

 

[ritch]

Ok does he golf, like sports? maybe take him to play or go to a game.

Nobody golfs in my family but there is a driving range to hit golf balls. That's kinda fun!

Ok, not bad so far,, got 2 good ideas.
golf drive
Zoo

could to to movie one night (good option as everyone has to be silent..)
eat at new restaurant.

I imagine one evening we will go visit some of their friends and I will have to sit at the table and make small talk, deny steroid use to their dumb questions and try to not look upset by their stupidity...

[ritch]

 

Banging my couch laughing. Ok, I wanna make that my avatar.
It's just... "me"

[Powerlift66]

I don't like hanging with family either, so I don't... (Except wife and kids)...
Inlaws always want to go out to eat, etc... Wife and kids go, i stay home.
(I love my inlaws, great people, I just don't like sitting there talking about nonsense)...

Plus they are hyper Italians, after 30 mins of that (constant babble), I'm done...

[ritch]

I don't like hanging with family either, so I don't... (Except wife and kids)...
Inlaws always want to go out to eat, etc... Wife and kids go, i stay home.
(I love my inlaws, great people, I just don't like sitting there talking about nonsense)...

Plus they are hyper Italians, after 30 mins of that (constant babble), I'm done...

That would get annoying quick... Is it me, or is going out and doing shit, a woman's thing?

Men just prefer to stay at home. Once you have a woman, no need to go out much really... But girls... they just love to play "dress up" go out, have drinks, dance and dumb shit like that. FuckiN' waste of money, the hell with that.

They also never pay for shit, no wonder it's fun to them...

[da_vinci]

i personally love to go out, maybe even too much, so I'd take them somewhere to keep occupied, you've came up with a few good ideas already. There's another thing (usualy with my gfs family, as my family is small and we live in different parts of the world, any meet up is a good meet up)... if I find myself to be KIND OF bored, I just keep my calm, chek my phone (this one is very bad, don't do it), just hang around and enjoy myself, it doesn't really bother me overall, I simply use the time to rest and relax, while they are doing their thing. But after some time the dreaded question comes...wait for it..............."Are you bored? You look disinterested.". Oh geez... I'm just chilling for fucks sake, if I don't have much to say in any given situation - I keep my mouth shut and listen what others are speaking, if I have - I do so, what's your problem? And so it goes... The occasional boredom doesn't bother me as much as someone asking me whether I'm bored. I don't want to come off as disinterested, but I can't force myself to get drunk (even a little bit, I'm just not into alcohol either) and joke around just like that if I'm not feelin' like it.

[doison]

Alcohol

[da_vinci]

Alcohol

Now when you said it.... maybe I should make an exception. 

[epic_alien]

well if you had a job this all would be easy. leave the house for 10 hours each day. problem solved

[ritch]

well if you had a job this all would be easy. leave the house for 10 hours each day. problem solved

uh... Do you bring your job with you while on vacation???
Unless you take your gig of sucking cock on the road?

If you gotta work 10hrs each day, you're not working very smart.

[Set It Up]

heres an idea

tell them how you scared Josh Rehaluk of Regina even though he gave you all his details to find him, offered for you to come here, then offered him to come to where you are.

Then tell them how intimidating you are by hiding behind an anonymous screen name, giving Josh NONE of your details, and then rambling on about how you owned Josh after you thought he wasnt coming back.

boy now thats some good family time hey anonymous scary guy?

[ritch]

Bahahaha, look at the pussy boy who is revealing his ugly head.
Fuck off, you have 0 cred or voice here or on this site.

You had your chance man, you chickened out hardcore. Everyone now knows how soft you are, now beat it loser boy.

[Set It Up]

Bahahaha, look at the pussy boy who is revealing his ugly head.
Fuck off, you have 0 cred or voice here or on this site.

You had your chance man, you chickened out hardcore. Everyone now knows how soft you are, now beat it loser boy.

sorry ritch
I had specific emails telling me how you shit talked when you knew I was banned again

again--my info is there, you can come here or I can come there. This is a legit serious offer. I completely understand why you stay anonymous and dont feed out your details. Its easier that way.

based on what members say to me I would venture to guess that I have massive cred on this site.

anyways, enjoy your family time

[Teutonic Knight]

Maybe go to the zoo. My dad can't keep up very well as he gets gassed walking too much.

The weather will be kinda cool by then for water parks, not much for amusement parks in the area we will be at but it's a good suggestion.

boooriing life 

dump family & travel to south seas 

[ritch]

Here's a summary of you:

Comes on getbig once a week hoping to make an impact as being regular poster, you have 0 chance at making this happen.

You find out your once a week pathetic guest spots no longer work as you hoped for.

You make a farewell thread to which nobody responds.

You make a comeback thread to which nobody responds.

So you try to find relevance by posting in my thread.

Nice try, but noboby gives a fuck about you man. So as I tell all the other losers here, piss the fuck off you insignificant c un t.

We all see right through your lard ass disgusting body.

Take care.

[Set It Up]

Here's a summary of you:

Comes on getbig once a week hoping to make an impact as being regular poster, you have 0 chance at making this happen.

You find out your once a week pathetic guest spots no longer work as you hoped for.

You make a farewell thread to which nobody responds.

You make a comeback thread to which nobody responds.

So you try to find relevance by posting in my thread.

Nice try, but noboby gives a fuck about you man. So as I tell all the other losers here, piss the fuck off you insignificant c un t.

We all see right through your lard ass disgusting body.

Take care.

lol heres a summary of you

"scared"

carry on

[NaturalWonder83]

If debating whether to go to family events do like I do

I ask myself if I don't go will they be like
Joan what's wrong? U look sad? It's a party why aren't u happy??
I would have more fun but genes not here

If I feel that convo won't happen I stay away

[ritch]

If debating whether to go to family events do like I do

I ask myself if I don't go will they be like
Joan what's wrong? U look sad? It's a party why aren't u happy??
I would have more fun but genes not here

If I feel that convo won't happen I stay away

The words "party" and "family" just don't go together, lol...