Now matter how much you are into a chick

[da_vinci]

I'm the smartest guy on the block

You live in a hood?

[Red Hook]

Only one girl I wanted to marry, as usual it was an unattainable woman.  It bothers me to this day, I know in reality that shit wouldn't have worked either, but it seems human nature to create idealistic fantasies around the things we cannot get.  Shit left me broken hearted for some time.  My problem is I am an emotional guy, I really wish I was some psychopathic cold fish who could just bounce from one woman to another, but my relationships with women have always left me conflicted, confused and at times deeply emotional. 

I just feel destined to not be able to figure this stuff out.  And right now I am in my 40's, running my first cycle and am as horny as all fuck, just want to nail any woman that moves.  A friend and I are about to start going trawling at the grab a granny nightspots and test the waters.  Feeling a little nervous about it all as I haven't been in the single scene for well over a decade since I seperated from my partner last year.  I decided to take some time out and not pursue another relationship straight away like I usually do, so I have had a year to process and reflect on yet another failed relationship.

Plato... How much do you travel? there are tons of chicks outside of the US that have a lot more to offer.

more and more I find that US women have a sense of entitlement that is beyond annoying. Literally you have women that are a 5-6 that are acting like they are 9-10.  Where as while traveling I see some of the hottest chicks that are a lot more approachable.

[devilsmile]

You live in a ghetto?

"on the block", figure of speech

I was just referring to the post of thin lizzy, "men with brain tend to get less sociable as they get older because society has less to offer".. meaning that fantasy is not so interesting anymore because you can think outside the box, and everything seems like pretending and chasing a fantasy, unless you just be by yourself.

Whatever, you don't get it

[da_vinci]

"on the block", figure of speech

I was just referring to the post of thin lizzy, "men with brain tend to get less sociable as they get older because society has less to offer".. meaning that fantasy is not so interesting anymore because you can think outside the box, and everything seems like pretending and chasing a fantasy, unless you just be by yourself.

Whatever, you don't get it

I get it. You have to fool yourself it is "important" (the fantasy) or you'll go insane.

My remark was a subtle racism (because a smartest guy in a block who happens to be white, most likely lives amongst blacks).

[Grape Ape]

I tried that shit yesterday, installed on my phone was just swiping away like crazy not really knowing what was going on just trying to figure it out, by the time I started talking to a woman, it took forever to type on the phone and then wait however long it took her top get back, so then I started just swiping chicks again and it told me I had used up all my likes and to wait twelve hours before I could go again.  SO I thought, fuck that shit, I don't have the patience for it, so I just deleted the app and had a wank.

It's always a good idea to give up completely on something after having trouble with it the first time you try.

[devilsmile]

I get it. You have to fool yourself it is "important" (the fantasy) or you'll go insane.

My remark was a subtle racism (because a smartest guy in a block who happens to be white, most likely lives amongst blacks).

lol don't be so literal

I kind of agree with you, not 100% tho. Imagine that you got physically and spiritually exhausting sex weekly without paying for it and without chasing the life media tells you to chase, would you go insane? All man needs is a good workout, great pussy and a cold beer, life is set

[The Wizard of Truth]

Alpha, beta, all that is bullshit, if I was in love with a girl and she happened to have a child already I'd overcome it.

[Uncle Joon]

Alpha, beta, all that is bullshit, if I was in love with a girl and she happened to have a child already I'd overcome it.

the stain will always gonna be there?

[galain]

Any of you guys with experience form a bond with the kid that made it hard to leave the relationship?

I always wondered if this happens and how people get around it. I think it'd be tough.

[Thin Lizzy]

Maybe it's Sasha Banks calling 

Yeah, that'll happen, soon.

As has been mentioned, here, I like the fantasy of Sasha Banks. The reality is that she's probably getting passed around by "the boys" like a spliff.

[SquidVicious]

There's something kinda hot about having a single mom ignoring her baby's cries while you're hitting that. But the moment she says she's gotta go check on the baby is exactly when you make your getaway.

[Hulkotron]

Once you find out she's a single mom you go from highly interested to highly disgusted.

Spot on, they are reprehensible creatures.

[Hulkotron]

I'm the smartest guy on the block

devilsmile is not getting much pub in the "Smartest Getbiggers" thead and this is unfortunate, he is wise beyond his years.

[phreak]

True on the first. When you go to the house, bring some groceries to fill up the fridge. By doing this, you're "providing" without getting in too deep.

As far as not listening to their drama, I haven't figured out how to do that and still get laid. If anyone has, I'm all ears. My girl likes to talk...and talk.

This usually shuts them up: www.facebashed.com/

[Radical Plato]

Look at the bright side.

A man with a brain tends to get less sociable as he gets older, as society has less to offer. You  don't need companionship as much.

I used to get excited upon hearing the phone ring. Now, that same sound fills me with dread.

Well, I don't know if I have a brain, but I can definitely spend lots of time on my own.  The problem arises when I get sick of jacking off and need some sex.  I then realise I have to perform the ridiculous rituals just to fuck a real life pussy.

[Radical Plato]

Plato... How much do you travel? there are tons of chicks outside of the US that have a lot more to offer.

more and more I find that US women have a sense of entitlement that is beyond annoying. Literally you have women that are a 5-6 that are acting like they are 9-10.  Where as while traveling I see some of the hottest chicks that are a lot more approachable.

To be honest, only place I have ever been is Bali over twenty years ago for a holiday.  I don't seem to have the travel bug, I live in a nice part of the world (or so I think) and I often joke other people spend a small fortune to come here and do the things I do on a regular basis.  I don't even know if I could get a passport anymore (had some minor trouble with the police once or twice, nothing to serious, but convictions recorded) 

But maybe I should look into it, ageing can sometimes force a man to re-evaluate and reflect on his own worldview and look for ways to shake things up.  Moving closer to mortality changes a man's outlook, I think.  Plus the other problem is I am always in two minds, one minute I think I want a woman, and then the next I think, what do I want that trouble for.  You know that old saying, "Be careful what you wish for."

[Man of Steel]

We all had that one "that got away"

Me, I got her.

[Radical Plato]

It's always a good idea to give up completely on something after having trouble with it the first time you try.

I know what you are saying, but I know myself pretty well. I know pretty quickly what I like and what I don't.  Tinder just seems like the world is going backwards.  Much prefer to meet a girl in the flesh, get a number and call her.  I don't like the idea of conversing with someone and then they just stop.  The whole texting generation is lost on me, it seems like such an inefficient form of communication.  A simple phone call is far more efficient, you can do in 1 minute what takes 20 minutes of texting.  People who text all the time give me the shits, just pick up the phone moron and say what it is you have to say.

[Julio Ceasar]

Singel moms a better in one way. They are not as much fucked up in their head as young beautiful girls are

Life made their feet reach mother earth again! Most of them are humble, bcz life have fucked them deep and hard! : )

[Grape Ape]

I know what you are saying, but I know myself pretty well. I know pretty quickly what I like and what I don't.  Tinder just seems like the world is going backwards.  Much prefer to meet a girl in the flesh, get a number and call her.  I don't like the idea of conversing with someone and then they just stop.  The whole texting generation is lost on me, it seems like such an inefficient form of communication.  A simple phone call is far more efficient, you can do in 1 minute what takes 20 minutes of texting.  People who text all the time give me the shits, just pick up the phone moron and say what it is you have to say.

Normally, yeah.  But given the "condition" you're in because of the cycle, you may want to go outside your comfort zone.

[Radical Plato]

Singel moms a better in one way. They are not as much fucked up in their head as young beautiful girls are

Life made their feet reach mother earth again! Most of them are humble, bcz life have fucked them deep and hard! : )

Don't be so sure about that, my last partner, a single mother was the most fucked in the head chick I ever met. Being abandoned to raise a rugrat on their own can cause some women serious issues.

[Radical Plato]

Normally, yeah.  But given the "condition" you're in because of the cycle, you may want to go outside your comfort zone.

Yeah, you;re right, I might give it another try soon.  Just haven't had much patience lately, plus this cycle is fucking with my libido. Not only that I was running Tren E in the cycle and it started fucking with my head, got terible insomnia that just destabilized me a bit, so I dropped it from the cycle.  Just gone day 8 of it running out of my system and everything seems to have stabilised a bit now.  Pity really, as the Tren definitely has a noticeable effect, but I think I am one of those people who can't handle the sides.  I still want to try it again though, as I did like some of the gains, that's for sure.  Maybe I just need to try different ways to run it (low test /higher tren), diet etc. 

[Kim Jong Bob]

Im glad im a single dad and not a single mother....we have it so much easier. Im 34 and date girls a few years younger then me (older is like having  sex with your own grandmom yuck).  And they usually get really into me when they see me with my 6 year old daughter and how i take care of her etc

The other way around dont work like that lål

[Radical Plato]

Normally, yeah.  But given the "condition" you're in because of the cycle, you may want to go outside your comfort zone.

Ha, I just reinstalled tinder and am talking texting with a woman now.

[devilsmile]

Ha, I just reinstalled tinder and am talking texting with a woman now.

can you provide us pictures so that we can tell you is it ok