Author Topic: threeway in a serious relationship: yay or nay? (Read 1968 times)

Svengoolie · « **on:** October 03, 2015, 05:12:28 AM »

*of the MFF type

Does definitely ruin things? Doesn't matter? Or it's it "your mileage may vary"? What do our relationship vets say?

Davidtheman100 · « **Reply #1 on:** October 03, 2015, 05:16:22 AM »

Quote from: Svengoolie on October 03, 2015, 05:12:28 AM

*of the MFF type

Does definitely ruin things? Doesn't matter? Or it's it "your mileage may vary"? What do our relationship vets say?

Totally depends on your personality....It can be done and everything can go great if you know how to run the show...If it's something out of your element to do and you try to force it may not go so well...I'd say hell yes 100% because this something the girl i'm with would already know i want without even bringing it up...

_aj_ · « **Reply #2 on:** October 03, 2015, 05:19:25 AM »

It's delicate, especially if you don't give equal attention to both. It's hard for a guy with a shiny new toy to not want to bury his head in that shit. The old toys can get real jealous and the whole thing goes sideways.

Talk A LOT about these scenarios and how things should go down before. Leave little to chance.

Army of One · « **Reply #3 on:** October 03, 2015, 05:23:38 AM »

A quick dopamine rush for the risk of throwing away the constant satisfaction of having the one you want.a no braīner imho.

Mr.1derful · « **Reply #4 on:** October 03, 2015, 06:12:52 AM »

Quote from: Svengoolie on October 03, 2015, 05:12:28 AM

*of the MFF type

Does definitely ruin things? Doesn't matter? Or it's it "your mileage may vary"? What do our relationship vets say?

It's asking for trouble.

DanzigBrah · « **Reply #5 on:** October 03, 2015, 06:15:18 AM »

MMF is the way to go brother, remember it's only gay if the balls touch!

Walter Sobchak · « **Reply #6 on:** October 03, 2015, 06:18:06 AM »

Quote from: Svengoolie on October 03, 2015, 05:12:28 AM

*of the MFF type

Does definitely ruin things? Doesn't matter? Or it's it "your mileage may vary"? What do our relationship vets say?

Fuck off Joon

funk51 · « **Reply #7 on:** October 03, 2015, 06:29:04 AM »

seinfeld did two episodes on it, u should check them out

Svengoolie · « **Reply #8 on:** October 03, 2015, 06:57:16 AM »

Thanks for the responses so far guys. I guess I feel like I'm leaning a little towards what army of one said. I'm pretty sure I mentioned it in the beginning when we started dating, but I didn't pursue it when it was more a possibility in that beginning phase.

Yamcha · « **Reply #9 on:** October 03, 2015, 07:02:49 AM »

Why try to please 2 women when I can't please the one I got?

Walter Sobchak · « **Reply #10 on:** October 03, 2015, 07:08:46 AM »

Quote from: Svengoolie on October 03, 2015, 06:57:16 AM

Thanks for the responses so far guys. I guess I feel like I'm leaning a little towards what army of one said. I'm pretty sure I mentioned it in the beginning when we started dating, but I didn't pursue it when it was more a possibility in that beginning phase.

Pursue suicide shitty gimmick

The Scott · « **Reply #11 on:** October 03, 2015, 07:10:32 AM »

So when she says she wants to watch you get plowed by Jethro like the back forty because she finds it "hawt" are you willing to give her what she wants?

To answer your question (if that didn't), why would you want to throw away the possibility of a relationship that could last a lifetime for something that won't? Personally I find this kind of stuff gross.

Svengoolie · « **Reply #12 on:** October 03, 2015, 07:16:42 AM »

I know it would just be a debate that goes in circles (even though I see your point) , I think that's a little different.

Dave D · « **Reply #13 on:** October 03, 2015, 07:17:44 AM »

Quote from: The Scott on October 03, 2015, 07:10:32 AM

So when she says she wants to watch you get plowed by Jethro like the back forty because she finds it "hawt" are you willing to give her what she wants?

To answer your question (if that didn't), why would you want to throw away the possibility of a relationship that could last a lifetime for something that won't? Personally I find this kind of stuff gross.

Lot of solid advice, bottom line it's a bad idea if this is a serious long term relationship. The chick will always have this in the back of her mind that she was never enough for you and/or she can see a woman on the side because you're OK with it.

Good luck either way

Walter Sobchak · « **Reply #14 on:** October 03, 2015, 07:33:16 AM »

Quote from: Svengoolie on October 03, 2015, 07:16:42 AM

I know it would just be a debate that goes in circles (even though I see your point) , I think that's a little different.

You can't get one woman without paying for it, let alone two.

I thought we had Mods on here to clean up this gimmick shit

Svengoolie · « **Reply #15 on:** October 03, 2015, 07:42:19 AM »

I'm not a gimmick, Walter.

mazrim · « **Reply #16 on:** October 03, 2015, 08:12:21 AM »

You're not in a serious relationship if you guys are contemplating this....

Walter Sobchak · « **Reply #17 on:** October 03, 2015, 08:30:28 AM »

Quote from: Svengoolie on October 03, 2015, 07:42:19 AM

I'm not a gimmick, Walter.

Sure....and Joon is honest and trustworthy

Fuck you

WOOO · « **Reply #18 on:** October 03, 2015, 08:34:52 AM »

Quote from: Svengoolie on October 03, 2015, 05:12:28 AM

*of the MFF type

Does definitely ruin things? Doesn't matter? Or it's it "your mileage may vary"? What do our relationship vets say?

Define serious?

Definite marriage killer.

da_vinci · « **Reply #19 on:** October 03, 2015, 08:36:37 AM »

Quote from: Walter Sobchak on October 03, 2015, 07:33:16 AM

You can't get one woman without paying for it, let alone two.

I thought we had Mods on here to clean up this gimmick shit

U def can, if your looks pay..

Svengoolie · « **Reply #20 on:** October 03, 2015, 08:41:23 AM »

Quote from: WOOO on October 03, 2015, 08:34:52 AM

Define serious?

Definite marriage killer.

Not engaged, but those discussions have taken place

WOOO · « **Reply #21 on:** October 03, 2015, 08:46:54 AM »

Quote from: Svengoolie on October 03, 2015, 08:41:23 AM

Not engaged, but those discussions have taken place

Personally when I married my wife I made a personal commitment to 1 pussy until death.

The Scott · « **Reply #22 on:** October 03, 2015, 09:02:12 AM »

The truth of matter is that this form of deviancy is just another variation on the theme of being a cuckold. I suppose then that one could make the case for this being nothing more than three pussies in one bed.

FTN.

chaos · « **Reply #23 on:** October 03, 2015, 09:22:00 AM »

Disappointed in the lack of testosterone laden posts in this thread. Unmanliest thread ever.
Nail them both, multiple times, Svengooey.

Tapeworm · « **Reply #24 on:** October 03, 2015, 09:31:15 AM »

Sure. Have an Eyes Wide Shut party if you're both into it.

I conclude, however, that you & the gf are <5s. I've been propositioned by couples and none of them resembled attractive, which was both flattering and insulting. And a little bit sad since the absolute best you could say is that they were solid but bored with one another sexually.

So if you can both get your rocks off before the whole show goes south then why the hell not.