Not bad, so why does she 'needs' that much money from him?
Keep in mind, in a certain circle of women the more you drain from a man emotionally and financially the more respected you are. While some men might brag between their friends about how hot of girls they sleep with or how much some girl is chasing them, SOME women brag about how much money some cock spent on them and on how many desperate begging texts the guy sent.
To some women needing to take out a restraining order against a guy is also a badge of honor, her friends now are obsessed as to how amazing she must be with men that the guy wont stop bothering her, especially if the guy is one they all want to sleep with (very common).
This is not to discount the women dealing with real problem stalkers....