Author Topic: A serious and personal question for you guys. (Read 2179 times)

DanielPaul · « **on:** October 15, 2015, 03:13:09 PM »

Have any of you guys ever lost a sibling to tragic circumstances. This is going to lead to another question I just want to see how common it is before I ask.

HTexan · « **Reply #1 on:** October 15, 2015, 03:25:57 PM »

Quote from: DanielPaul on October 15, 2015, 03:13:09 PM

Have any of you guys ever lost a sibling to tragic circumstances. This is going to lead to another question I just want to see how common it is before I ask.

i just lost a first cousin to ALS.

SF1900 · « **Reply #2 on:** October 15, 2015, 03:41:38 PM »

Some girl I know just lost a sister to a drug overdose.

illuminati · « **Reply #3 on:** October 15, 2015, 04:03:20 PM »

My Daughter.

The_Iron_Disciple · « **Reply #4 on:** October 15, 2015, 04:13:58 PM »

Quote from: illuminati on October 15, 2015, 04:03:20 PM

My Daughter.

:/

Sorry, my friend :/

illuminati · « **Reply #5 on:** October 15, 2015, 04:17:16 PM »

Thanks you.

Never really got over it.

Princess L · « **Reply #6 on:** October 15, 2015, 04:21:47 PM »

Quote from: DanielPaul on October 15, 2015, 03:13:09 PM

Have any of you guys ever lost a sibling to tragic circumstances. This is going to lead to another question I just want to see how common it is before I ask.

Yes

Montague · « **Reply #7 on:** October 15, 2015, 04:26:09 PM »

Quote from: illuminati on October 15, 2015, 04:03:20 PM

My Daughter.

You have my sympathies, friend.

YngiweRhoads · « **Reply #8 on:** October 15, 2015, 04:28:42 PM »

My spouse.

SF1900 · « **Reply #9 on:** October 15, 2015, 04:28:53 PM »

Quote from: illuminati on October 15, 2015, 04:17:16 PM

Thanks you.

Never really got over it.

No one truly gets over losing a child. There is no such thing as "getting over it." You learn to integrate the experience, adapt, and manage the loss.

Be well.

illuminati · « **Reply #10 on:** October 15, 2015, 04:37:41 PM »

Quote from: SF1900 on October 15, 2015, 04:28:53 PM

No one truly gets over losing a child. There is no such thing as "getting over it." You learn to integrate the experience, adapt, and manage the loss.

Be well.

I didn't integrate or adapt.

Just barely managed to Keep my Anger under some sort of Control.
Did some very Bad Things.

26yrs on it Hurts.

robcguns · « **Reply #11 on:** October 15, 2015, 04:42:23 PM »

Quote from: illuminati on October 15, 2015, 04:03:20 PM

My Daughter.

Very sorry to hear that,i couldnt imagine what that is like.

SF1900 · « **Reply #12 on:** October 15, 2015, 04:43:31 PM »

Quote from: illuminati on October 15, 2015, 04:37:41 PM

I didn't integrate or adapt.

Just barely managed to Keep my Anger under some sort of Control.
Did some very Bad Things.

26yrs on it Hurts.

I was not specifically referring to you. I was speaking in general terms.

When I mean, "no one truly gets over it," I meant that the hurt will always be there. You learn to cope and manage as best as possible, but the hurt will always be present.

JGD · « **Reply #13 on:** October 15, 2015, 04:43:56 PM »

I lost my best friend since I was 12 years old last year. He was as much of a brother to me as my actual brother, and died at work on a boat from an undiagnosed heart defect.

illuminati · « **Reply #14 on:** October 15, 2015, 04:50:41 PM »

Quote from: robcguns on October 15, 2015, 04:42:23 PM

Very sorry to hear that,i couldnt imagine what that is like.

Thanks.
Wouldn't wish it on anyone.
Totally devastated Me.

HarleyBreite · « **Reply #15 on:** October 15, 2015, 04:53:59 PM »

I lost my younger brother. It forever changed my personality.

Pray_4_War · « **Reply #16 on:** October 15, 2015, 04:54:37 PM »

DanielPaul · « **Reply #17 on:** October 15, 2015, 04:56:25 PM »

I lost my sister in a drunk driving accident 15 years ago, I was 20 at the time and she was just about to turn 19. Since we were close in age we spent a lot of time together, people would often confuse us for twins lol. She was the only person injured in the accident, three girls riding around drinking, they ran off the road and a tee post went through the windshield into the back seat and struck her in the head. She lived for eight days then was taken off life support. Every once in a while I dream about my family and she'll be there but she's never normal, in my dreams she is always injured and this bugs the living shit out of me. I have these dreams maybe two or three times a year but every time it takes a while to get over. Does anyone else experience this with there lost loved ones

illuminati · « **Reply #18 on:** October 15, 2015, 04:56:28 PM »

Quote from: SF1900 on October 15, 2015, 04:43:31 PM

I was not specifically referring to you. I was speaking in general terms.

When I mean, "no one truly gets over it," I meant that the hurt will always be there. You learn to cope and manage as best as possible, but the hurt will always be present.
(quote]

As you replied to my post.
i presumed wrongly you were.

We are all different emotionally & how we Do or Don't deal with things.
Life can be Great at Times. And sometimes Very Hard.

Set It Up · « **Reply #19 on:** October 15, 2015, 05:01:33 PM »

Sorry for all the getbiggers who lost someone close. Normally I dont give a shit when someone I dont know dies, but I feel a bit for some getbiggers

illuminati · « **Reply #20 on:** October 15, 2015, 05:09:39 PM »

Quote from: Potatank on October 15, 2015, 05:01:33 PM

Sorry for all the getbiggers who lost someone close. Normally I dont give a shit when someone I dont know dies, but I feel a bit for some getbiggers

Ha. i would say that's quite a normal reaction.
As there is no emotional involvement with some one you don't know.

Here on Getbig we are more caring.

K-1 · « **Reply #21 on:** October 15, 2015, 05:18:41 PM »

Brother...drive by shooting

SF1900 · « **Reply #22 on:** October 15, 2015, 05:29:05 PM »

Quote from: illuminati on October 15, 2015, 04:56:28 PM

Quote from: SF1900 on October 15, 2015, 04:43:31 PM
I was not specifically referring to you. I was speaking in general terms.

When I mean, "no one truly gets over it," I meant that the hurt will always be there. You learn to cope and manage as best as possible, but the hurt will always be present.
(quote]

As you replied to my post.
i presumed wrongly you were.

We are all different emotionally & how we Do or Don't deal with things.
Life can be Great at Times. And sometimes Very Hard.

Agreed

Kwon_2 · « **Reply #23 on:** October 15, 2015, 05:42:57 PM »

Quote from: DanielPaul on October 15, 2015, 03:13:09 PM

Have any of you guys ever lost a sibling to tragic circumstances. This is going to lead to another question I just want to see how common it is before I ask.

I have lost a few, several within a short timespan.

deadz · « **Reply #24 on:** October 15, 2015, 05:49:53 PM »

My brother...car accident.