Not trying to talk ill of your wife, and you certainly shouldn't make a decision based on what posters on an anonymous message board say, but..........that shit is not normal. You know this which is why you ask. Don't be fooled by shows like Cougartown and Kathy Lee, it's not normal. Get her help, and if you have money, get a private investigator to follow her for a few weeks to see if something's up.