Getting into a serious relationship with the modern first world american woman. Especially if she has kids. This is a pitfall that will bankrupt you, age you, make you fat, grey/bald and leave you horny most nights. My advice is to work on yourself and your career. Dating is great, but don't fool yourself because everything will always funnel back to a big house, cars, kids and a boring ass life. Women always come and go and if you need companionship for whatever reason then seek it out, however just don't let it go any further than dating. When she presents you with the ultimatum, give her her walking papers. And if you must, order up a hooker every now and then. Be well.