The worst investment a man can make.

[drkaje]

OP sounds like a bitter queen who's pissed he's on retail duty in the holiday season. Fuck off loser. Be a real man and take care of your business and you'll be fine. Worst investment to make is a fucking boat.

I've never seen that proven untrue, LOL!

[Tennisballz]

Wrong. Women control the pussy.  Men control the money and the dick.  If you make yourself irresistible, meaning be the best NickEdge779 you can be in all areas of your life, if you're not spiritual therein lies a large problem but that's another thread. We, this culture is deeply entrenched in lust.  It's normal to fuck after a 1st date in many circles. Do you know how fucked up that is?  What is there to cherish about slut or a whore that is not shameful? Yet, you men are so entrenched in lust via social programming ie porn, which has crept into reality and certain things are now expected and we have "evolved" and are now more "free". This is a lie. We have fallen morally and are enslaved with lust. So much we let women control the situation. If tomorrow all men took a stand and stated from this day forward, the following will take place. All irrational behavior will be checked verbally but fairly. Pay for your own everything until further notice, open your own doors, pickle jars etc...you get the point. Meanwhile, you go to the gym, finish that degree or school, do those projects you always wanted to do. Put the porn away forever and use that wasted energy towards something positive. They would come around trust me. You have to assert your authority as a man and not be a slave to pussy.  When you do this, women fall in place.  It's not something seen often because it's been bred out of society.Its not about being an asshole or a dick.  It's about not tolerating disrespect...When you have that aura and the brains and mouthpiece behind it, shit gets done and people fall in place.  It has to be done respectfully.You can't worry about everyone else, worry about you.  You attract what you put out.

I pretty much have to agree with most of this.  We should worry about improving ourselves.  Put the porn down and quit putting the pussy on a pedestal.

[_aj_]

Most men want the 1950's marriage dynamic, most women don't. Therefore it will never happen.

It's pretty much what I have and it's great. Of course, you need to make decent $$$ and pick the right woman.

[Tennisballz]

OP sounds like a bitter queen who's pissed he's on retail duty in the holiday season. Fuck off loser. Be a real man and take care of your business and you'll be fine. Worst investment to make is a fucking boat.

"irongriponmenscocks400", it sounds as though you are currently living the hell I figured out how to avoid long ago.  Am I right?  Or perhaps you got burned big time by some broad along the way and are still paying for it?  I figured out the game a long time ago and I'm merely passing on what I know to the less fortunate such as yourself.

[lilhawk1]

I think this is true for anybody, men and woman.  If you are comfortable in your own skin you can CHOOSE who you enter into relationships with, rather than doing it out of desperation or a sense of neediness. And considering the majority of relationships do actually end, you will fare better if you can tolerate yourself if your partner leaves you or you choose to leave them.   This doesn't mean you escape the grieving process associated with loss, but just that you know you will be OK and that everyone experiences relationship difficulties and loss and everything is constantly in flux anyway.  The good follows the bad and vice versa, and that it is OK to struggle with the ups and downs of life on your own.

This doesn't mean that I am closed off to relationships, on the contrary, I just want a certain kind of relationship, and just that I would choose being alone as opposed to being in an unsuitable relationship.  Dysfunctional relationships are more stressful than being by yourself IMO.

Agree totally with what you say.  A lot of people, both men and women, enter into relationships because they're tired of being alone, or hop from one relationship to another without healing rom the previous one.  This is part of the reason why so many people are in relationships and miserable.  Nothing  worse than being in a relationship and feeling alone.  I'm not against marriage or relationships, just want the right person, otherwise there is no point in entering the relationship.

[Tennisballz]

I agree with this.  The worst mistake I ever made in my life was partnering with a single Mum.  My greatest regret.  I have learned to be happy living alone.  I learned to like myself and my own company.  I still spend time with women, but at my age feel put off by many of them.  I just see how wretched they are and how deeply conflicted and tormented they are, many of them have lost their true selves or never known their true selves.  Many are unlikely to reach a state of self actualization or even develop the most basic of insights into their personalities. 

Most women refuse to develop character so place all their stock in the market value of their vagina.  This is why they end up so tormented and bitter at middle age, their vagina is no longer considered valuable and they haven't developed any other desirable personality traits.  A sad spectacle indeed.

This is so unbelievable accurate.  All you have to do is browse through dating sites and see for yourself.  A womans stock drops rather dramatically after 35 or so and it's funny to see the desperation in them.  They are totally empty inside.  They have been chased and provided for for so long, they don't know any better.  

[Radical Plato]

Wrong. Women control the pussy.  Men control the money and the dick.  If you make yourself irresistible, meaning be the best NickEdge779 you can be in all areas of your life, if you're not spiritual therein lies a large problem but that's another thread. We, this culture is deeply entrenched in lust.  It's normal to fuck after a 1st date in many circles. Do you know how fucked up that is?  What is there to cherish about slut or a whore that is not shameful? Yet, you men are so entrenched in lust via social programming ie porn, which has crept into reality and certain things are now expected and we have "evolved" and are now more "free". This is a lie. We have fallen morally and are enslaved with lust. So much we let women control the situation. If tomorrow all men took a stand and stated from this day forward, the following will take place. All irrational behavior will be checked verbally but fairly. Pay for your own everything until further notice, open your own doors, pickle jars etc...you get the point. Meanwhile, you go to the gym, finish that degree or school, do those projects you always wanted to do. Put the porn away forever and use that wasted energy towards something positive. They would come around trust me. You have to assert your authority as a man and not be a slave to pussy.  When you do this, women fall in place.  It's not something seen often because it's been bred out of society.Its not about being an asshole or a dick.  It's about not tolerating disrespect...When you have that aura and the brains and mouthpiece behind it, shit gets done and people fall in place.  It has to be done respectfully.You can't worry about everyone else, worry about you.  You attract what you put out.

While I agree with some of this, I think men can use Porn to prevent themselves being controlled by a womans pussy.  It gives him some control over his own libido so he doesn't have to worship at the altar of his wife's/girlfriends pussy.  The other issue is women become addicted to controlling a man's libido, so even if you man up, sublimate your libido into constructive alpha endeavours, still many women can't handle such a man who will do this and also stand up to them, so they simply trade you in after a while for a man they can dominate who will do anything for her just for the occasional whiff of her pussy..

[gib]

Also the single best investment you can ever make if you pick the right chick and have beautiful kids.

Nothing in the world could be better, but you have to make the right choices and this is where many guys fuck up ...

[Radical Plato]

Also the single best investment you can ever make if you pick the right chick and have beautiful kids.

Nothing in the world could be better, but you have to make the right choices and this is where many guys fuck up ...

This is true also, the issue is though that a mans libido as a young man is out of control and he makes poor decisions when choosing a mate simply because he is soooooooooooo horny.

[hardgainerj]

[da_vinci]

While I agree with some of this, I think men can use Porn to prevent themselves being controlled by a womans pussy.  It gives him some control over his own libido so he doesn't have to worship at the altar of his wife's/girlfriends pussy.  The other issue is women become addicted to controlling a man's libido, so even if you man up, sublimate your libido into constructive alpha endeavours, still many women can't handle such a man who will do this and also stand up to them, so they simply trade you in after a while for a man they can dominate who will do anything for her just for the occasional whiff of her pussy..

You are on the roll sir lol. Well done.

[drkaje]

Also the single best investment you can ever make if you pick the right chick and have beautiful kids.

Nothing in the world could be better, but you have to make the right choices and this is where many guys fuck up ...

You're better off with smart kids.

[Parker]

The best one could do is stay always form american women, they are the worst. Lean towards European, arab and even indian women. You're looking for the traditional values and the woman should actually want to do something for the man.

Those types of women don't respect a man whose own women don't respect them. Think about it. And it goes for American women who do the same. They play the role, but it shows lack of control, respect, etc.

Just to clarify, let's not go overboard and be like this:
http://www.adultswim.com/videos/black-dynamite/dig-it-while-you-can/

[drkaje]

@ Parker,

That show is freaking awesome!

[f450]

While I agree with some of this, I think men can use Porn to prevent themselves being controlled by a womans pussy.  It gives him some control over his own libido so he doesn't have to worship at the altar of his wife's/girlfriends pussy.  The other issue is women become addicted to controlling a man's libido, so even if you man up, sublimate your libido into constructive alpha endeavours, still many women can't handle such a man who will do this and also stand up to them, so they simply trade you in after a while for a man they can dominate who will do anything for her just for the occasional whiff of her pussy..

All true. About Porn. I totally agree, only a fool will say that porn is just plain bad for you. Thats like saying wine is bad for you or meat is bad for you or cheese is bad for you or nuts are bad for you... Everything in moderation and you'll be just fine. Drink too much water and you will die. Does that mean water is bad for you? Use porn to clear your head and depedestalize the average woman, then focus on self improvement.

[Mr Anabolic]

This is true also, the issue is though that a mans libido as a young man is out of control and he makes poor decisions when choosing a mate simply because he is soooooooooooo horny.

Nothing wrong with being horny as long as the man doesn't lose himself to a woman.  I've seen alphas change to betas practically overnight.  Then comes marriage, then kids, then divorce due to "irreconcilable differences".  Financial devastation is the end result.

[drkaje]

All true. About Porn. I totally agree, only a fool will say that porn is just plain bad for you. Thats like saying wine is bad for you or meat is bad for you or cheese is bad for you or nuts are bad for you... Everything in moderation and you'll be just fine. Drink too much water and you will die. Does that mean water is bad for you? Use porn to clear your head and depedestalize the average woman, then focus on self improvement.

The problem is people are conditioned to define porn as nudity and sex. It's personal and could be anything that overstimulates an individual or adds to their irrationality. Could be The Bible, YouTube videos The Quran, Double Stuffed Oreos, animal causes, etc...

[BIG ACH]

Some of you guys are seriously a bunch woman fearing pussies!!

If you're all worried about a modern American woman taking all  your  fortune  then don't be a pussy and ask for a prenup.  Or here is a thought, why not go find a woman that also brings a lot to the table, find a woman with a good education and a fat paying job maybe she'll be the one asking you for a prenup.


Seriously though, get your life in order and man up!  If you don't want to be in a relationship or a marriage then that's fine but don't be a pussy and then go blame women for it... Man up and ask for a prenup or actually find a woman of substance!

[Purge_WTF]

A movement needs to be created to reinstate the original family and the pecking order.

 Those days are pretty much gone for good, I'm afraid. I feel like Sheriff Bell from No Country... as time goes on.

 With regards to the OP, courting any Western woman is a gamble now, no matter her status.

[DroppingPlates]

Some of you guys are seriously a bunch woman fearing pussies!!

If you're all worried about a modern American woman taking all  your  fortune  then don't be a pussy and ask for a prenup.  Or here is a thought, why not go find a woman that also brings a lot to the table, find a woman with a good education and a fat paying job maybe she'll be the one asking you for a prenup.


Seriously though, get your life in order and man up!  If you don't want to be in a relationship or a marriage then that's fine but don't be a pussy and then go blame women for it... Man up and ask for a prenup or actually find a woman of substance!

The problem is that most women have different priorities/wish lists, esp on the long run. They're free to do so, so I won't blame them, but it's fucking frustrating

[BIG ACH]

The problem is that most women have different priorities/wish lists, esp on the long run. They're free to do so, so I won't blame them, but it's fucking frustrating

Please elaborate

[DroppingPlates]

Please elaborate

Most women: marriage, kids, pretty dependent and all kinds of social gatherings
Me: LAT, child free, independent women & doing my own things

[BIG ACH]

Most women: marriage, kids & pretty dependent
Me: LAT, child free & independent women

And you are saying you cannot find a single woman that fits your criteria?  not 1?  not 1 in this entire country?

[DroppingPlates]

And you are saying you cannot find a single woman that fits your criteria?  not 1?  not 1 in this entire country?

Would be a different story when I was still 20, but that's not the case, so it became a needle-haystack thing..

[BIG ACH]

Would be a different story when I was still 20, but that's not the case, so it became a needle-haystack thing..

And the problem is most certainly not you?  you fit their criteria perfectly?