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Re: The worst investment a man can make.
« Reply #100 on: December 13, 2015, 06:40:49 PM »
I can spend my money however i want, it helps if it is not on hookers, but i smoke and drink despite what is best for me... of course gf would like of i didnt overdo them, same as i would, but im not hen pecked. She also works full time and takes pride in not needing outside help, almost to a fault.

If i want to go out, or do pretty much anything, i dont have to explain myself. Sure i get asked to go to bed if it is late and im arsing around but i would not call that slavery. It is 2.34am here, im up late cos have work to do... had food made for me so i dont have to waste time. I call that support and care, not slavery.

I realise how soppy i am sounding but the tone of some posts makes being in a relationship sound like supporting a dead body at sea that somehow nags you constantly and wont let you fuck it (no necro). Not all women are parasitic whores.

@leaving my dna why not just have nuclear war now and end all civilisation as it wont matter 1 second after we die. Legacy.

You sound perfect for a single mom.

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Re: The worst investment a man can make.
« Reply #101 on: December 13, 2015, 06:43:11 PM »

@leaving my dna why not just have nuclear war now and end all civilisation as it wont matter 1 second after we die. Legacy.

That just doesn't make sense. Why do you care about "legacy"? I simply don't get it sorry. I personally couldn't care less about my "legacy", whatever that means. Only a short adventure here, nothing serious to write home about. I guess people care about that stuff when they take life very seriously. Well.. if it makes them feel more comfortable at this short stay here - why not..

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Re: The worst investment a man can make.
« Reply #102 on: December 13, 2015, 06:45:57 PM »
That just doesn't make sense. Why do you care about "legacy"? I simply don't get it sorry. I personally couldn't care less about my "legacy", whatever that means. Only a short adventure here, nothing serious to write home about. I guess people care about that stuff when they take life very seriously. Well.. if it makes them feel more comfortable at this short stay here - why not..

I do not take life seriously and know i am wormfeed once i die. Maybe i just love myself so much i want to see more of me. Serious.

@ wanting a single mom way to dodge my point. Firstly i have a gf like i stated and she has no kids. Second, i have a kid so have experience. Care to try harder with argument why you can't get better than a hooker quality woman?

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Re: The worst investment a man can make.
« Reply #103 on: December 13, 2015, 06:48:24 PM »
I do not take life seriously and know i am wormfeed once i die. Maybe i just love myself so much i want to see more of me. Serious.



Now that's what I can understand. It's animal nature manifesting in all of us, one way or another.

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Re: The worst investment a man can make.
« Reply #104 on: December 14, 2015, 02:55:31 AM »
What is the benefit of that over being alone or sharing accommodation with another guy (who wont complain you are playing poker and on a bbing forum at 3am) and fucking random women?

I dunno, divorce is newer here (only legal since 1995) and my parents are married 43 years this month (yes im the youngest and probably an accident) but one sister is married 7 years, brother 10 years... it is normal to me that once married it means something and is taken seriously - in sickness and in health etc. Been with gf 6 years now, havent popped question, but it has been first relationship i have had that has survived as many ups and downs for both of us. Oh an i am a "single" father and have been through all the shit that entails including going to court so i have my eyes open to the shitty reality of a failed relationship.

I think some people are just dissing marriage cos they are embittered or think it is cool.

Speaking of dissing, LOL at the first line :D But to give you a serious answer, it has nothing to do with 'benefits', but rather with the desire to keep a healthy together/apart balance.

I'm not dissing on marriage, but it doesn't match with my beliefs about relationships. Sure, there are still many happy couples together for ages, but they don't need to be married for this.

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Re: The worst investment a man can make.
« Reply #105 on: December 14, 2015, 09:54:19 AM »
Speaking of dissing, LOL at the first line :D But to give you a serious answer, it has nothing to do with 'benefits', but rather with the desire to keep a healthy together/apart balance.

I'm not dissing on marriage, but it doesn't match with my beliefs about relationships. Sure, there are still many happy couples together for ages, but they don't need to be married for this.

And thats totally fine - most likely most women out there would not prefer things to be that way, but there are women out there that would accept that.

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Re: The worst investment a man can make.
« Reply #106 on: December 14, 2015, 11:09:33 AM »
Getting into a serious relationship with the modern first world american woman.  Especially if she has kids.  This is a pitfall that will bankrupt you, age you, make you fat, grey/bald and leave you horny most nights.  My advice is to work on yourself and your career.  Dating is great, but don't fool yourself because everything will always funnel back to a big house, cars, kids and a boring ass life.  Women always come and go and if you need companionship for whatever reason then seek it out, however just don't let it go any further than dating.  When she presents you with the ultimatum, give her her walking papers.  And if you must, order up a hooker every now and then.  Be well.

What if a man wants kids? Wouldn't it be worth it to find a decent woman to marry and have kids with? Not every modern American woman is into what you speak of. Many are, but my friends and family members, most of them found decent, plain Jane women that did not drive them nuts and they have stable families and good kids (with the exception of a few kids, because one can wind up with a "bad seed" regardless of raising).

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Re: The worst investment a man can make.
« Reply #107 on: December 14, 2015, 11:43:29 AM »
And thats totally fine - most likely most women out there would not prefer things to be that way, but there are women out there that would accept that.


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Re: The worst investment a man can make.
« Reply #108 on: December 14, 2015, 11:47:09 AM »
Most women refuse to develop character so place all their stock in the market value of their vagina.  This is why they end up so tormented and bitter at middle age, their vagina is no longer considered valuable and they haven't developed any other desirable personality traits.  A sad spectacle indeed.




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Re: The worst investment a man can make.
« Reply #109 on: December 14, 2015, 11:47:57 AM »

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Re: The worst investment a man can make.
« Reply #110 on: December 14, 2015, 12:53:28 PM »

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Re: The worst investment a man can make.
« Reply #111 on: December 14, 2015, 06:35:58 PM »
My longest relationship went 10 years. At the tail end, we lived together. After a decade, the sex was a royal MEH (to be fair, I'm sure she'd state the same) and sharing a home was mostly annoying and inconvenient.

I cannot imagine the nightmare of plugging the same taco and living with that one person for several decades.

No matter how much of a friend she was, the endless intimate proximity would render me gravely desperate. 

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« Reply #112 on: January 10, 2016, 03:07:36 PM »
Let me introduce you to a man named Patrice O'Neal.
Listen carefully.


Jesus Christ, my wife just pulled the exact shit that Patrice was yelling about in this video, I am thinking of making her sit listen to this. I said, "why did you just ask me my damn opinion when you already knew what you wanted to hear? Just lead with your opinion and ask me if that's ok, don't make me think and THEN announce what you want!"

Grrrrr.

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Re: The worst investment a man can make.
« Reply #113 on: January 10, 2016, 03:32:32 PM »
Jesus Christ, my wife just pulled the exact shit that Patrice was yelling about in this video, I am thinking of making her sit listen to this. I said, "why did you just ask me my damn opinion when you already knew what you wanted to hear? Just lead with your opinion and ask me if that's ok, don't make me think and THEN announce what you want!"

Grrrrr.

Bravo!

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Re: The worst investment a man can make.
« Reply #114 on: January 10, 2016, 03:49:59 PM »
Let me introduce you to a man named Patrice O'Neal.
Listen carefully.


Hard to concentrate in what they are saying for some reason. :P

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Re: The worst investment a man can make.
« Reply #115 on: January 10, 2016, 04:40:03 PM »
I just see how wretched they are and how deeply conflicted and tormented they are, many of them have lost their true selves or never known their true selves.  Many are unlikely to reach a state of self actualization or even develop the most basic of insights into their personalities.  

Most women refuse to develop character
so place all their stock in the market value of their vagina.  This is why they end up so tormented and bitter at middle age, their vagina is no longer considered valuable and they haven't developed any other desirable personality traits.  A sad spectacle indeed.


Plato, can you go into more detail about this?


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Re: The worst investment a man can make.
« Reply #117 on: January 10, 2016, 04:44:38 PM »
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« Reply #118 on: January 10, 2016, 04:48:28 PM »
I have learned to be happy living alone.  I learned to like myself and my own company.  I still spend time with women, but at my age feel put off by many of them.  I just see how wretched they are and how deeply conflicted and tormented they are, many of them have lost their true selves or never known their true selves. 

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Re: The worst investment a man can make.
« Reply #119 on: January 10, 2016, 04:54:58 PM »
Getting into a serious relationship with the modern first world american woman.  Especially if she has kids.  This is a pitfall that will bankrupt you, age you, make you fat, grey/bald and leave you horny most nights.  My advice is to work on yourself and your career.  Dating is great, but don't fool yourself because everything will always funnel back to a big house, cars, kids and a boring ass life.  Women always come and go and if you need companionship for whatever reason then seek it out, however just don't let it go any further than dating.  When she presents you with the ultimatum, give her her walking papers.  And if you must, order up a hooker every now and then.  Be well.

Eh "worst" to one is "best" to another.   I will always encourage anyone with this perspective to never EVER make children.

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« Reply #120 on: January 10, 2016, 05:44:08 PM »
I just see how wretched they are and how deeply conflicted and tormented they are, many of them have lost their true selves or never known their true selves.  Many are unlikely to reach a state of self actualization or even develop the most basic of insights into their personalities.  

Most women refuse to develop character so place all their stock in the market value of their vagina.  This is why they end up so tormented and bitter at middle age, their vagina is no longer considered valuable and they haven't developed any other desirable personality traits.  A sad spectacle

Plato, can you go into more detail about this?

Hmm, I have to think about this, I posted it a month or so ago.  I guess what I am getting at is that most women don't develop their personalities or character because they simply don't have to.  Men would fuck them if they were in a coma, so there is no need to develop traits that don't serve any function in attracting a potential mate.  This is why they focus so much on beauty, as this does serve a function in attracting the best mate.

I think the mistake many men make is expecting from women what they are incapable of giving.  Men expect women to be able to love them when by nature they aren't programmed that way.  They are programmed to be real live fuck dolls when younger that turn into child bearers and child rearers, that's about it.  I think the type of men who desire women who can love them are the ones who missed out on genuine Motherly love when they were younger.  Simply put, their Mothers didn't love them so they spend their entire lives trying to obtain that long lost love from the women in their lives.  

The other issue is women are told from a young age that they are princesses and the fairer sex and their turds are made of gold etc etc which goes against a woman's true nature, that of being a manipulative, abusive, sociopathic, destructive, drama-oriented pathological liar.  Depending on how much the woman has internalised the conditioned lie depends on how much she struggles later on, if a woman actually believes the princess fairytale and yet her reality is littered with eveidnce of what a cun+ she is, she will be the most tormented and the one that men should most avoid.  It sounds counter intuitive, but the women who realize what a depraved animal they truly are make a better option to pair with than the deluded princess I alluded too.  Either way, they both rely on their attractiveness to land a mate, so if they fail in the relationship game, by the time they lose their attractiveness (usually age 30 onwards), they have a tribe of kids, a rotten attitude and no personality or character to boot.  In other words, bad company.  And what is that old saying, no company is better than bad company.
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Re: The worst investment a man can make.
« Reply #121 on: January 10, 2016, 06:57:08 PM »
Hmm, I have to think about this, I posted it a month or so ago.  I guess what I am getting at is that most women don't develop their personalities or character because they simply don't have to.  Men would fuck them if they were in a coma, so there is no need to develop traits that don't serve any function in attracting a potential mate.  This is why they focus so much on beauty, as this does serve a function in attracting the best mate.

Thanks, I appreciate your insight.  I've dated too many 30 year old princesses.

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Re: The worst investment a man can make.
« Reply #122 on: January 10, 2016, 07:20:50 PM »
Hmm, I have to think about this, I posted it a month or so ago.  I guess what I am getting at is that most women don't develop their personalities or character because they simply don't have to.  Men would fuck them if they were in a coma, so there is no need to develop traits that don't serve any function in attracting a potential mate.  This is why they focus so much on beauty, as this does serve a function in attracting the best mate.

I think the mistake many men make is expecting from women what they are incapable of giving.  Men expect women to be able to love them when by nature they aren't programmed that way.  They are programmed to be real live fuck dolls when younger that turn into child bearers and child rearers, that's about it.  I think the type of men who desire women who can love them are the ones who missed out on genuine Motherly love when they were younger.  Simply put, their Mothers didn't love them so they spend their entire lives trying to obtain that long lost love from the women in their lives.  

The other issue is women are told from a young age that they are princesses and the fairer sex and their turds are made of gold etc etc which goes against a woman's true nature, that of being a manipulative, abusive, sociopathic, destructive, drama-oriented pathological liar.  Depending on how much the woman has internalised the conditioned lie depends on how much she struggles later on, if a woman actually believes the princess fairytale and yet her reality is littered with eveidnce of what a cun+ she is, she will be the most tormented and the one that men should most avoid.  It sounds counter intuitive, but the women who realize what a depraved animal they truly are make a better option to pair with than the deluded princess I alluded too.  Either way, they both rely on their attractiveness to land a mate, so if they fail in the relationship game, by the time they lose their attractiveness (usually age 30 onwards), they have a tribe of kids, a rotten attitude and no personality or character to boot.  In other words, bad company.  And what is that old saying, no company is better than bad company.


whoa whoa whoa... women cannot love a man? I wil leave my current partner out of it, but I have broken up with 3 girls who stated that they loved me. It is messy and, call it obsession or love, it doesn't go away quickly like "meh that's over, what now". I will say scorn plays a part but they genuinely do love men fairly often and when that goes they get upset, just as you would if your partner (you loved/trusted) was fucking someone else or didn't want you.

The difference is men are called cheating pigs seeking money; women use children as pawns, and will threaten to fuck someone you hate if nasty whores. Both types of women you want to avoid but can never know unless you get in that situation.

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Re: The worst investment a man can make.
« Reply #123 on: January 10, 2016, 07:25:18 PM »
whoa whoa whoa... women cannot love a man? I wil leave my current partner out of it, but I have broken up with 3 girls who stated that they loved me. It is messy and, call it obsession or love, it doesn't go away quickly like "meh that's over, what now". I will say scorn plays a part but they genuinely do love men fairly often and when that goes they get upset, just as you would if your partner (you loved/trusted) was fucking someone else or didn't want you.

The difference is men are called cheating pigs seeking money; women use children as pawns, and will threaten to fuck someone you hate if nasty whores. Both types of women you want to avoid but can never know unless you get in that situation.
I loled.  When a woman says she loves a man, she is saying she loves what you do for her.  When a woman is upset when a relationship ends, it's not because she loves you, but that you no longer do anything for her.  You probably can't afford to believe it because you are in a relationship, but all women share the same traits, it's just a matter of degrees.  Your current woman will probably end up just like the other whores from your past who trampled your heart while fucking chad thundercock for revenge before she gets on the cock carousel again.  And trust me, it is better to think like this than invest deeply into her thinking you have found a unicorn.  Seeing a woman for what she really is will save you many tears later on.  Expect women to act like women and you will still be disappointed when they inevitably fuck you over, but at least you knew it was coming and can prepare for the fallout.
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Re: The worst investment a man can make.
« Reply #124 on: January 10, 2016, 11:29:53 PM »
Well it's just marriage and McDoubles.
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