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Did any of you have a very strict father when growing up?
« on: December 20, 2015, 09:18:46 AM »
My situation was not so good, adding the fact that I am submissive by nature, didn't help also. So in a nutshell while in high school I was not allowed to date any girls, because I was told that it may interfere with my non stop studying. I was allowed to go out maybe once a week max, my father also was never satisfied with anything I did and made regular demoralizing comments. All that was going on from the time I was probably 7 till 18, when I left the house to go to college.
Now at 32, I never had a real girlfriend, being only with prostitutes, extremely awkard and shy around women, no regular job, no social circle etc.
However I have to say that I take full responsibility for all the failures in my life, I am just writing this post to see if anyone out there had a similar experience growing up and how he overcome it.

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Re: Did any of you have a very strict father when growing up?
« Reply #1 on: December 20, 2015, 09:23:18 AM »
You sure you're on the right forum?

Maybe you accidently clicked the wrong window pele, this is Getbig, not spongebob.com


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Re: Did any of you have a very strict father when growing up?
« Reply #2 on: December 20, 2015, 09:24:53 AM »
My situation was not so good, adding the fact that I am submissive by nature, didn't help also. So in a nutshell while in high school I was not allowed to date any girls, because I was told that it may interfere with my non stop studying. I was allowed to go out maybe once a week max, my father also was never satisfied with anything I did and made regular demoralizing comments. All that was going on from the time I was probably 7 till 18, when I left the house to go to college.
Now at 32, I never had a real girlfriend, being only with prostitutes, extremely awkard and shy around women, no regular job, no social circle etc.
However I have to say that I take full responsibility for all the failures in my life, I am just writing this post to see if anyone out there had a similar experience growing up and how he overcome it.


Did you guys fuck a lot?

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Re: Did any of you have a very strict father when growing up?
« Reply #3 on: December 20, 2015, 09:47:54 AM »
You are a disgrace

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Re: Did any of you have a very strict father when growing up?
« Reply #4 on: December 20, 2015, 09:54:02 AM »
So im guessing by your screen name you are black?I didnt think any black fathers were strict or even cared about their kids.

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Re: Did any of you have a very strict father when growing up?
« Reply #5 on: December 20, 2015, 09:56:06 AM »
So im guessing by your screen name you are black?I didnt think any black fathers were strict or even cared about their kids.

Maybe not America, but in Africa it's another story. Nigerian and Ghanaian parents are probably among the strictest in the world.

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Re: Did any of you have a very strict father when growing up?
« Reply #6 on: December 20, 2015, 09:56:58 AM »
My situation was not so good, adding the fact that I am submissive by nature, didn't help also. So in a nutshell while in high school I was not allowed to date any girls, because I was told that it may interfere with my non stop studying. I was allowed to go out maybe once a week max, my father also was never satisfied with anything I did and made regular demoralizing comments. All that was going on from the time I was probably 7 till 18, when I left the house to go to college.
Now at 32, I never had a real girlfriend, being only with prostitutes, extremely awkard and shy around women, no regular job, no social circle etc.
However I have to say that I take full responsibility for all the failures in my life, I am just writing this post to see if anyone out there had a similar experience growing up and how he overcome it.

Dude, we're all awkward to a certain degree. Some more than others. And it's ok to be the way you are and the way I am.

Having said the above, I too grew up around a dad who was a complete miserable prick. Now in this late 60s, and with the Gates of Heaven in plain sigh, he's come down a lot.

One thing I didn't do was question myself or my actions based on what he said. I worked and paid for college myself, and eventually moved my wife and kid into one of the most exclusive hamlets in the NYC area, where we now live. I did this. Not because of my dad, but because I wanted to. God knows I'd be working for the sanitation department had I listened to him.

To me, it sounds as though you still have him in the back of your head, which is the wrong thing to do. Take ownership of your mind, body and soul and move on.

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Re: Did any of you have a very strict father when growing up?
« Reply #7 on: December 20, 2015, 09:57:10 AM »
Creepy post of the year winner.
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Re: Did any of you have a very strict father when growing up?
« Reply #8 on: December 20, 2015, 10:26:21 AM »
My situation was not so good, adding the fact that I am submissive by nature, didn't help also. So in a nutshell while in high school I was not allowed to date any girls, because I was told that it may interfere with my non stop studying. I was allowed to go out maybe once a week max, my father also was never satisfied with anything I did and made regular demoralizing comments. All that was going on from the time I was probably 7 till 18, when I left the house to go to college.
Now at 32, I never had a real girlfriend, being only with prostitutes, extremely awkard and shy around women, no regular job, no social circle etc.
However I have to say that I take full responsibility for all the failures in my life, I am just writing this post to see if anyone out there had a similar experience growing up and how he overcome it.


How many times are you going to roll out this same type of gimmick?


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Re: Did any of you have a very strict father when growing up?
« Reply #9 on: December 20, 2015, 10:40:52 AM »
My situation was not so good, adding the fact that I am submissive by nature, didn't help also. So in a nutshell while in high school I was not allowed to date any girls, because I was told that it may interfere with my non stop studying. I was allowed to go out maybe once a week max, my father also was never satisfied with anything I did and made regular demoralizing comments. All that was going on from the time I was probably 7 till 18, when I left the house to go to college.
Now at 32, I never had a real girlfriend, being only with prostitutes, extremely awkard and shy around women, no regular job, no social circle etc.
However I have to say that I take full responsibility for all the failures in my life, I am just writing this post to see if anyone out there had a similar experience growing up and how he overcome it.


Lame gimmick.
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Re: Did any of you have a very strict father when growing up?
« Reply #10 on: December 20, 2015, 10:43:48 AM »
Lame gimmick.

I agree.

And that's all I'm saying about that.

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Re: Did any of you have a very strict father when growing up?
« Reply #11 on: December 20, 2015, 10:45:52 AM »
Fuck off joon

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Re: Did any of you have a very strict father when growing up?
« Reply #12 on: December 20, 2015, 10:48:09 AM »
I agree.

And that's all I'm saying about that.

Account was registered in 2006.  ::) ::)
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Re: Did any of you have a very strict father when growing up?
« Reply #13 on: December 20, 2015, 10:50:11 AM »
Account was registered in 2006.  ::) ::)

True Adonis....

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Re: Did any of you have a very strict father when growing up?
« Reply #14 on: December 20, 2015, 10:56:36 AM »
Lame gimmick.

Someone who posts crap like this thinks they're being clever and has no ability to feel shame.

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Re: Did any of you have a very strict father when growing up?
« Reply #15 on: December 20, 2015, 10:59:22 AM »
Someone who posts crap like this thinks they're being clever and has no ability to feel shame.

True Adonis....

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Re: Did any of you have a very strict father when growing up?
« Reply #16 on: December 20, 2015, 11:01:55 AM »
True Adonis....

Or Joon.

Maybe its Squad Father.  ;D ;D
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Re: Did any of you have a very strict father when growing up?
« Reply #17 on: December 20, 2015, 11:02:52 AM »
Someone who posts crap like this thinks they're being clever and has no ability to feel shame.

Pretty much. The gimmicks do not even try to be clever any more.  :-\ :-\
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Re: Did any of you have a very strict father when growing up?
« Reply #18 on: December 20, 2015, 11:06:08 AM »
Pretty much. The gimmicks do not even try to be clever any more.  :-\ :-\

The retard in Regina.

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Re: Did any of you have a very strict father when growing up?
« Reply #19 on: December 20, 2015, 11:13:09 AM »
The retard in Regina.

Wouldn't pretending to be black hurt his welfare white pride?

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Re: Did any of you have a very strict father when growing up?
« Reply #20 on: December 20, 2015, 11:17:26 AM »
Wouldn't pretending to be black hurt his welfare white pride?

Aren't they all the same when you get right down to it?

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Re: Did any of you have a very strict father when growing up?
« Reply #21 on: December 20, 2015, 11:22:39 AM »
Aren't they all the same when you get right down to it?

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lol at Quickerblade. I forgot about him and ARCE. I wonder if they are still engaging in dastardly deeds across the internet. :D :D
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Re: Did any of you have a very strict father when growing up?
« Reply #22 on: December 20, 2015, 12:12:46 PM »
My situation was not so good, adding the fact that I am submissive by nature, didn't help also. So in a nutshell while in high school I was not allowed to date any girls, because I was told that it may interfere with my non stop studying. I was allowed to go out maybe once a week max, my father also was never satisfied with anything I did and made regular demoralizing comments. All that was going on from the time I was probably 7 till 18, when I left the house to go to college.
Now at 32, I never had a real girlfriend, being only with prostitutes, extremely awkard and shy around women, no regular job, no social circle etc.
However I have to say that I take full responsibility for all the failures in my life, I am just writing this post to see if anyone out there had a similar experience growing up and how he overcome it.


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Re: Did any of you have a very strict father when growing up?
« Reply #23 on: December 20, 2015, 12:26:35 PM »
Aren't they all the same when you get right down to it?

Joon
Sev
True Anus
Rehaluk
YAGR
Suckmymuscle
Squadfather
Quickerblade


The YAGR gimmicks are by far the most boring and played out. Wouldnt be suprised if the OPEE is a YAGR

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Re: Did any of you have a very strict father when growing up?
« Reply #24 on: December 20, 2015, 02:49:09 PM »
Bigtime.

My dad was a violent, sadistic authoritarian without a vestige of social conscience.