Curious as to what you guys will say to this relationship ?

[Disco187]

to make a long story short
Date a seperated woman for one year, she has two kids. We had a great year, great passion, lots of laughs, great sex, I was completely loyal, and her kids are actually great kids.(surprisingly because i dated single moms before) this was my best relationship hands down ever. I am in my mid 30s

So i moved about a hour away due to the fact I was offered a great job.  In return she felt that she couldnt be in a relationship with a man that she was only going to see on wknds so after about a month it just didnt work for her. (ended peacefully)

three months later she now moved back in with her husband and i did not hear from her until her kids saw me out on a date with a extremely hot woman (we where at a summer fair).  Out of the blue i immediately recieved texts and calls from her everyday including the present on how she is miserable and wants to leave her husband because its not the same and they fight ext ext.

so my question is what would you guys do if she begged u to pay a monthly rent to a apartment so she can move out and live there due to the fact she would struggle to much on her salary with no financial help which is why she felt like she had to go back to her husband.

Sorry this is so long and prob boring to most but i would like to hear some feedback,

[King Shizzo]

Fuck off.

[Fortress]

Feign interest, plow her in the crapper one last time, and then tell her "no dice".

[Yamcha]

to make a long story short
Date a seperated woman for one year, she has two kids. We had a great year, great passion, lots of laughs, great sex, I was completely loyal, and her kids are actually great kids.(surprisingly because i dated single moms before) this was my best relationship hands down ever. I am in my mid 30s

So i moved about a hour away due to the fact I was offered a great job.  In return she felt that she couldnt be in a relationship with a man that she was only going to see on wknds so after about a month it just didnt work for her. (ended peacefully)

three months later she now moved back in with her husband and i did not hear from her until her kids saw me out on a date with a extremely hot woman (we where at a summer fair).  Out of the blue i immediately recieved texts and calls from her everyday including the present on how she is miserable and wants to leave her husband because its not the same and they fight ext ext.

so my question is what would make a grown man, in his mid 30s, go to a summer fair to meet women?

[lilhawk1]

She's looking for a sucker to pay for her and her kids.  Don't be that sucker.

[Mr Anabolic]

Stopped reading after you said she had two kids.

Run away from her as fast as your legs can carry you!

[Disco187]

thanks for that feedback, much appreciated

[local hero]

Fuck off.

Shizzo is going to be mean this year, take note...

[Kwon_2]

What say you?

I say "NAY"!

[Waller]

If she'd kept herself to herself then realised this I'd say give it consideration and seek a solution, but I think she burnt that bridge well and truly.

[TTfit]

Wake the fuck up. She's using you plain and simple. She couldn't do a relationship without mon thru fri? She made her bed. Leave her to rot.

[ritch]

Pay her rent?
WTF???

Is she making your meals, doing your laundry and giving you a massage every night after a bj?

If so, maybe consider it, if not, hell fuckin no.

[SquidVicious]

Feign interest, plow her in the crapper one last time, and then tell her "no dice".

Normally you're a pretty terrible human being but this is on point.

WOOOOOOSH!

[residue]

to make a long story short
Date a seperated woman for one year, she has two kids. We had a great year, great passion, lots of laughs, great sex, I was completely loyal, and her kids are actually great kids.(surprisingly because i dated single moms before) this was my best relationship hands down ever. I am in my mid 30s

So i moved about a hour away due to the fact I was offered a great job.  In return she felt that she couldnt be in a relationship with a man that she was only going to see on wknds so after about a month it just didnt work for her. (ended peacefully)

three months later she now moved back in with her husband and i did not hear from her until her kids saw me out on a date with a extremely hot woman (we where at a summer fair).  Out of the blue i immediately recieved texts and calls from her everyday including the present on how she is miserable and wants to leave her husband because its not the same and they fight ext ext.

so my question is what would you guys do if she begged u to pay a monthly rent to a apartment so she can move out and live there due to the fact she would struggle to much on her salary with no financial help which is why she felt like she had to go back to her husband.

Sorry this is so long and prob boring to most but i would like to hear some feedback,

jesus christ, everything wrong with everything right in one post.

[Howard]

to make a long story short
Date a seperated woman for one year, she has two kids. We had a great year, great passion, lots of laughs, great sex, I was completely loyal, and her kids are actually great kids.(surprisingly because i dated single moms before) this was my best relationship hands down ever. I am in my mid 30s

So i moved about a hour away due to the fact I was offered a great job.  In return she felt that she couldnt be in a relationship with a man that she was only going to see on wknds so after about a month it just didnt work for her. (ended peacefully)

three months later she now moved back in with her husband and i did not hear from her until her kids saw me out on a date with a extremely hot woman (we where at a summer fair).  Out of the blue i immediately recieved texts and calls from her everyday including the present on how she is miserable and wants to leave her husband because its not the same and they fight ext ext.

so my question is what would you guys do if she begged u to pay a monthly rent to a apartment so she can move out and live there due to the fact she would struggle to much on her salary with no financial help which is why she felt like she had to go back to her husband.

Sorry this is so long and prob boring to most but i would like to hear some feedback,

Good post ( for getbig).

Ok, in summary, if it's worth it to ya , pay her rent and see her on the terms she/you can handle.
These things tend to be deeply personal and there is no 100% right or perfect choice.

1. Just remember, you are supporting her and she's never going to be an equal relationship partner.
On a personal note, I'd refuse to "take care" of any woman, especially one I wasn't married to.

2. If she's not willing to move in with you and become your woman, it won't last too long.
In my opinion, this won't be a lasting , loving relationship.

Once again, it's YOUR call, but if it were me, I'd run.
Sorry to burst your bubble, but that's my judgment.

[Mitch]

#TLDRPPTSOGTFO

[Henda]

Tell the Whore to go fuck herself, she's got a nerve asking you to do that shit

[ritch]

Lets just reverse the sexes for a second.

Imagine a man asking a woman to pay his rent? How would that look? I am soooo putting my foot down on covering the costs for anything women need now. No idea who came up with this idea but it's 2016 man, those days are done.

A little gift here and there to let her know she's special but don't fall into the trap of their costs becoming yours.

Pure crazy talk.

[Walter Sobchak]

Feign interest, plow her in the crapper one last time, and then tell her "no dice".

Videotape plowing her in the ass and making her go ATM.....send video to her and her husband.

Tell them both to stick their misery up their ass

[Kim Jong Bob]

Good post ( for getbig).

Ok, in summary, if it's worth it to ya , pay her rent and see her on the terms she/you can handle.
These things tend to be deeply personal and there is no 100% right or perfect choice.

1. Just remember, you are supporting her and she's never going to be an equal relationship partner.
On a personal note, I'd refuse to "take care" of any woman, especially one I wasn't married to.

2. If she's not willing to move in with you and become your woman, it won't last too long.
In my opinion, this won't be a lasting , loving relationship.

Once again, it's YOUR call, but if it were me, I'd run.
Sorry to burst your bubble, but that's my judgment.

good post howie

[Walter Sobchak]

Good post ( for getbig).

Ok, in summary, if it's worth it to ya , pay her rent and see her on the terms she/you can handle.
These things tend to be deeply personal and there is no 100% right or perfect choice.

1. Just remember, you are supporting her and she's never going to be an equal relationship partner.
On a personal note, I'd refuse to "take care" of any woman, especially one I wasn't married to.

2. If she's not willing to move in with you and become your woman, it won't last too long.
In my opinion, this won't be a lasting , loving relationship.

Once again, it's YOUR call, but if it were me, I'd run.
Sorry to burst your bubble, but that's my judgment.

You're giving relationship advice?

That's as fucking useless as the pussy up in Regina giving fighting, travel, or financial advice.

[bigmikecox]

Can i hit?  It aint no fun if the homie BMC cant have none

[dj181]

Tell the Whore to go fuck herself, she's got a nerve asking you to do that shit

[residue]

why is 1 hr away too far? also isn't it normal for working adult to have most of their dates on the weekends?

[Fortress]

Normally you're a pretty terrible human being but this is on point.

WOOOOOOSH!

Terrible human being? Rubbish. I'm actually a pleasant and decent fellow.