Curious as to what you guys will say to this relationship ?

[Dr.J]

I am going to need some pictures of said ho's asshole so I can make an educated decision for you.

[HTexan]

to make a long story short
Date a seperated woman for one year, she has two kids. We had a great year, great passion, lots of laughs, great sex, I was completely loyal, and her kids are actually great kids.(surprisingly because i dated single moms before) this was my best relationship hands down ever. I am in my mid 30s

So i moved about a hour away due to the fact I was offered a great job.  In return she felt that she couldnt be in a relationship with a man that she was only going to see on wknds so after about a month it just didnt work for her. (ended peacefully)

three months later she now moved back in with her husband and i did not hear from her until her kids saw me out on a date with a extremely hot woman (we where at a summer fair).  Out of the blue i immediately recieved texts and calls from her everyday including the present on how she is miserable and wants to leave her husband because its not the same and they fight ext ext.

so my question is what would you guys do if she begged u to pay a monthly rent to a apartment so she can move out and live there due to the fact she would struggle to much on her salary with no financial help which is why she felt like she had to go back to her husband.

Sorry this is so long and prob boring to most but i would like to hear some feedback,

Don't do it. Went things arnt going her way she will leave again. Also sounds like she wants a sugar daddy.

[kreator]

I would only pay rent for some 20 year old hottie i would hold captive in my basement HTH

[blackpele]

Good post ( for getbig).

Ok, in summary, if it's worth it to ya , pay her rent and see her on the terms she/you can handle.
These things tend to be deeply personal and there is no 100% right or perfect choice.

1. Just remember, you are supporting her and she's never going to be an equal relationship partner.
On a personal note, I'd refuse to "take care" of any woman, especially one I wasn't married to.

2. If she's not willing to move in with you and become your woman, it won't last too long.
In my opinion, this won't be a lasting , loving relationship.

Once again, it's YOUR call, but if it were me, I'd run.
Sorry to burst your bubble, but that's my judgment.

Great answer Howard.

[Radical Plato]

to make a long story short
Date a seperated woman for one year, she has two kids. We had a great year, great passion, lots of laughs, great sex, I was completely loyal, and her kids are actually great kids.(surprisingly because i dated single moms before) this was my best relationship hands down ever. I am in my mid 30s

So i moved about a hour away due to the fact I was offered a great job.  In return she felt that she couldnt be in a relationship with a man that she was only going to see on wknds so after about a month it just didnt work for her. (ended peacefully)

three months later she now moved back in with her husband and i did not hear from her until her kids saw me out on a date with a extremely hot woman (we where at a summer fair).  Out of the blue i immediately recieved texts and calls from her everyday including the present on how she is miserable and wants to leave her husband because its not the same and they fight ext ext.

so my question is what would you guys do if she begged u to pay a monthly rent to a apartment so she can move out and live there due to the fact she would struggle to much on her salary with no financial help which is why she felt like she had to go back to her husband.

Sorry this is so long and prob boring to most but i would like to hear some feedback,

Mangina of Peace. Fuck her off and never look back.

[Pray_4_War]

I would laugh heartily and tell her to eat my ass.

[rocket]

Okay, so this could happen to me with someone I know/knew so I am able to consider this properly by putting myself in your situation.

The primary reason you and I wouldn't/shouldn't accede to her wishes is because she had to be reminded of your existence.  That's the crucial bit.  If this was unsolicited, I'd say possibly - particularly as she never "wronged" you.  She wasn't thinking about you, she only thought about you when your name popped up from her kid and spoonfeeding herself from your bank account came to the forefront.

The secondary reason is that it is a financial proposition, first.

So no, I wouldn't do it.  I would tell her to find herself a better source of income and come talk to me when I'm not being asked to pay for her pussy.

[falco]

Ditch the bitch.

[twitchfibres]

I would tell her to go fuck her self.

[CalvinH]

Just say no.

[Howard]

I would laugh heartily and tell her to eat my ass.

Hmm, is she agrees, he could in be for the salad tossing of a lifetime.

[Howard]

Great answer Howard.

Thanks and let me a couple more things, I've learned the hard way.

1. It can be a cruel lonely world out there and we all want to feel loved and connected.
BUT, to experience real love , those involved must be sincere and genuine.

2. To me, this sounds like a "quid pro quo" deal.
He pays some bills and she acts like his part time gf.

In this case, he's a lot better off jerking off to porn and getting a dog for companionship.

[Disco187]

Well it looks like i got my answer, some of you guys really crack me up, and i appreciate the serious advice aswell.  Needed some 3rd party opinions and there views on it to kind of reinfource my own self opinion on it,