Author Topic: Tindr Drama (Read 3012 times)

Thong Maniac · « **on:** February 17, 2016, 12:55:49 PM »

ill reask this since it went no where last time, thanks to me and not being specific.

my brothers wife was found with a tindr profile...I have no advice for him since I hardly know anything about tindr or fb, etc. weird thing is she is pushing him to get her pregnant too, so i assume things were/are good with them. this all came to light when a friend of ours matched with her and he (rightfully so) sent the screen shot to me first and then we sent to him.

is it normal to have girlfriends and wives with secret tinder pages? odd thing is, she used her real name and job lol, what a dummy. he hasnt presented the evidence yet to her.

is this instant divorce like "heres your divorce papers, i saw ur tindr profile"? or is it salvagable?

Costanza · « **Reply #1 on:** February 17, 2016, 01:00:27 PM »

I once came across a married hoe I knew and later found out she claimed to be on there only to see if there were any guys she knew, nothing more

Explorerspl · « **Reply #2 on:** February 17, 2016, 01:00:40 PM »

Quote from: Thong Maniac on February 17, 2016, 12:55:49 PM

ill reask this since it went no where last time, thanks to me and not being specific.

my brothers wife was found with a tindr profile...I have no advice for him since I hardly know anything about tindr or fb, etc. weird thing is she is pushing him to get her pregnant too, so i assume things were/are good with them. this all came to light when a friend of ours matched with her and he (rightfully so) sent the screen shot to me first and then we sent to him.

is it normal to have girlfriends and wives with secret tinder pages? odd thing is, she used her real name and job lol, what a dummy. he hasnt presented the evidence yet to her.

is this instant divorce like "heres your divorce papers, i saw ur tindr profile"? or is it salvagable?

Instant divorce, tinder is for quick smashes/one night stands

Thong Maniac · « **Reply #3 on:** February 17, 2016, 01:03:01 PM »

Quote from: Costanza on February 17, 2016, 01:00:27 PM

I once came across a married hoe I knew and later found out she claimed to be on there only to see if there were any guys she knew, nothing more

yeah im guessing she will play that excuse when he presents it. should he ask to see the chat logs or do most chics delete those all the time? i was thinking more like "show me your chat logs, or sign these papers"...but i dunno

Costanza · « **Reply #4 on:** February 17, 2016, 01:05:28 PM »

Quote from: Thong Maniac on February 17, 2016, 01:03:01 PM

yeah im guessing she will play that excuse when he presents it. should he ask to see the chat logs or do most chics delete those all the time? i was thinking more like "show me your chat logs, or sign these papers"...but i dunno

She'd just delete the conversations

Kwon_2 · « **Reply #5 on:** February 17, 2016, 01:06:57 PM »

Quote from: Thong Maniac on February 17, 2016, 12:55:49 PM

ill reask this since it went no where last time, thanks to me and not being specific.

Where exactly did it go last time?

_aj_ · « **Reply #6 on:** February 17, 2016, 01:07:09 PM »

That sounds really bad.

Thong Maniac · « **Reply #7 on:** February 17, 2016, 01:07:52 PM »

Quote from: Costanza on February 17, 2016, 01:05:28 PM

She'd just delete the conversations

not if u present the evidence and say show me your phone now if u want to get out of this mess

Tapeworm · « **Reply #8 on:** February 17, 2016, 03:36:13 PM »

Make fake profiles and hit her up. Make them increasingly absurd. Sheik Abdul Ababba: "For 4 days I am in Grand Hotel with only lonely. U r vision of lovely truly. Ever u have been placed in a bath filled of warm hummous?"

Kwon_2 · « **Reply #9 on:** February 17, 2016, 03:37:46 PM »

Great idea. Make a profile of a Saudi Sheik and tell her "Will pay 1 million Saudi Riyal for a night with you."

See if she catches the bait.

Tapeworm · « **Reply #10 on:** February 17, 2016, 03:50:29 PM »

I successfully convinced several young women on Omeagle to join my international prostitution ring which catered to traveling businessmen, whereupon I would slowly transition into 1970s jive talking pimp.

Dave D · « **Reply #11 on:** February 17, 2016, 03:55:39 PM »

That's not normal at all bro (unless the have an open marriage?).

Tinder is a dating app to meet people for a relationship.

It's not Hot or Not so you can determine how attractive others find you. I'm sorry to hear your brother has to deal with this

Dave D · « **Reply #12 on:** February 17, 2016, 04:00:19 PM »

Quote from: Thong Maniac on February 17, 2016, 01:03:01 PM

yeah im guessing she will play that excuse when he presents it. should he ask to see the chat logs or do most chics delete those all the time? i was thinking more like "show me your chat logs, or sign these papers"...but i dunno

I know it's easy to offer advice when it's not your heart and trust being destroyed but if she was doing it because she was "curious" she would have created a fake account, unless this she is known for completely bizarre behavior.

Again this sucks.

Walter Sobchak · « **Reply #13 on:** February 17, 2016, 04:00:48 PM »

I met Groink's ex on Tindr.

I showed her a car with real license plates, if you know what I mean?

Tapeworm · « **Reply #14 on:** February 17, 2016, 04:04:22 PM »

Sugar wanna make inroads into the leisure binnes. Be a entrepreneur. I can facilitate that shit.

ritch · « **Reply #15 on:** February 17, 2016, 04:24:43 PM »

Quote from: Tapeworm on February 17, 2016, 03:36:13 PM

Make fake profiles and hit her up. Make them increasingly absurd. Sheik Abdul Ababba: "For 4 days I am in Grand Hotel with only lonely. U r vision of lovely truly. Ever u have been placed in a bath filled of warm hummous?"

LOL!
Who could turn up such an offer?

Tennisballz · « **Reply #16 on:** February 17, 2016, 04:52:48 PM »

There's only one reason to be on tinder. She is, and probably has been, dishonest. I would immediately divorce. I suppose you can listen, but there's really no explanation. Sad, but just the truth.

SF1900 · « **Reply #17 on:** February 17, 2016, 04:55:41 PM »

Tinder is used for dating and sex. Its not used to make friends.

She is cheating on him.

If it was me, Id divorce her.

I cant speak for him.

calfzilla · « **Reply #18 on:** February 17, 2016, 04:58:09 PM »

Quote from: SF1900 on February 17, 2016, 04:55:41 PM

Tinder is used for dating and sex. Its not used to make friends.

She is cheating on him.

If it was me, Id divorce her.

I cant speak for him.

X2. Tinder is not a social network site like Facebook, Twitter, or Getbig, it is simply for dating and fucking.

gym**rat · « **Reply #19 on:** February 17, 2016, 05:01:43 PM »

To rule out her doing something dumb but innocent do like others have said, create a profile and contact her. But not a prince or someone with money. Find some pics on the net of a decent looking guy, make the profile to match the things she is into and start off slow. See if you can reel her in. Once you gain her trust she will tell you her intentions.
If her intentions are not to cheat then your brother needs to sit her down and explain to her that it is not acceptable even if her intentions were not to cheat. Let us know what happens. I wish your brother luck.

Thong Maniac · « **Reply #20 on:** February 17, 2016, 05:09:50 PM »

Quote from: SF1900 on February 17, 2016, 04:55:41 PM

Tinder is used for dating and sex. Its not used to make friends.

She is cheating on him.

If it was me, Id divorce her.

I cant speak for him.

damn interesting, our friend thinks it could be harmless boredom thing, or even a bot fake profile (which he thinks because she used real name and work title, which he says could be a red flag to a bot, as no sane woman would do that)....but the fact that seems to be linked to her actual facebook seems to squash that theory. apparently he could see that it was her facebook because she shared some connection with him on fb, which revealed her real fb profile on tindr

SF1900 · « **Reply #21 on:** February 17, 2016, 05:24:11 PM »

Quote from: Thong Maniac on February 17, 2016, 05:09:50 PM

damn interesting, our friend thinks it could be harmless boredom thing, or even a bot fake profile (which he thinks because she used real name and work title, which he says could be a red flag to a bot, as no sane woman would do that)....but the fact that seems to be linked to her actual facebook seems to squash that theory. apparently he could see that it was her facebook because she shared some connection with him on fb, which revealed her real fb profile on tindr

Its more than "boredom." Its a social app for dating/sex. If she was bored, she could have joined other social sites that are not geared toward dating or sex.

Dave D · « **Reply #22 on:** February 17, 2016, 05:27:37 PM »

Quote from: Thong Maniac on February 17, 2016, 05:09:50 PM

damn interesting, our friend thinks it could be harmless boredom thing, or even a bot fake profile (which he thinks because she used real name and work title, which he says could be a red flag to a bot, as no sane woman would do that)....but the fact that seems to be linked to her actual facebook seems to squash that theory. apparently he could see that it was her facebook because she shared some connection with him on fb, which revealed her real fb profile on tindr

A bot?

Did anyone message her? Does her description sound like her as far as interests and likes? Is the app on her phone?

I hope for your brothers sake this is a true (being a bot) but if thats the case everyone with a Facebook account is susceptible to this.

Thong Maniac · « **Reply #23 on:** February 17, 2016, 05:42:30 PM »

Quote from: Dave D on February 17, 2016, 05:27:37 PM

A bot?

Did anyone message her? Does her description sound like her as far as interests and likes? Is the app on her phone?

I hope for your brothers sake this is a true (being a bot) but if thats the case everyone with a Facebook account is susceptible to this.

thats the thing, he saw her page and didnt notice much until he saw the shared connections, clicked on it and saw it was her page and my brother was on the fb page all over it so he was like "wtf". he didnt even know her very well, but noticed the shared connection she had with one of his connections so he looked into it.

he screenshot the main page but all you can see is her first pic, age, name, and job. the screenshot didnt show a description or about me or anything. had 2 other pics but he swiped left, and couldnt go back. he like panicked when he saw my bro.

Dave D · « **Reply #24 on:** February 17, 2016, 05:51:47 PM »

Quote from: Thong Maniac on February 17, 2016, 05:42:30 PM

thats the thing, he saw her page and didnt notice much until he saw the shared connections, clicked on it and saw it was her page and my brother was on the fb page all over it so he was like "wtf". he didnt even know her very well, but noticed the shared connection she had with one of his connections so he looked into it.

he screenshot the main page but all you can see is her first pic, age, name, and job. the screenshot didnt show a description or about me or anything. had 2 other pics but he swiped left, and couldnt go back. he like panicked when he saw my bro.

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/women/womens-life/11588667/Facebook-identity-theft-My-profile-was-stolen-to-get-dates-on-Tinder.html

I guess it is possible but the issue is her Facebook account is linked, so its either compromised/hacked or she is using it.

You can have your brother check her phone/tablet and see if she has the app.