You seem to think that 35 or so is "old". I don't get it... Mature? Yes... old? Well unless genetic lottery and lifestyle was not exactly the big success.
Oh please. 20 year old can be mindless and still have that sexy charm. It's not charming after 30, much earlier than that it loses it's charm, actually.
Scorpio and JJ are the same age. Scorpio is drowning in pussy, loves life, loves himself, and the women love him... the problems JJ has are obvious. He has a boys body, mid thirties, still emotionally unstable and clueless, he's not brave. It's not attractive to the 9's and 10's, not even to 7's. Even for 6's jj would need to step up his game at this point.