Bodybuilders are laughed at by most girls/women.
Hell, even by most men.
Laughable lifestyle. Over-eating, drugs, Tupperware at holidays 
Hilarious and embarrassing... 
A handsome Brad Pit type in baggy surf shorts with a wry smile will pick up 1000x more girls then most bodybuilders.
I'm never mistaken for Brad LOL, but I had a LOT more female interest in my mid/late 40's after my last divorce.
I'm no stud ladies man, but I've had plenty of fun during my younger days.
However, I was blown away at how much BETTER it was when I was recently divorced and older.
As a man being over 40, well groomed & dressed with a decent job, home and car was much BETTER .
I got flirty interest from 20 something hottys to middle aged MLF's and classy career woman.
Being upbeat and positive with a clean set of clothes and decent job goes a long way for any man as we age.
The following video* is a repost, but some many not have seen it. If you have, just ignore it or call me a fuktard.
My current ( 3rd )wife since 2012 , appears at *2 min.
This was 14 yrs ago ( I was 48) when we first started dating . She's a VP banking exec and was only interested in dating stable , secure men.
I feel lucky she chose me and wanted to let you all know , if a rambling dickwad like me can get a decent lady...anyone can.