I've dated a tri athlete/figure competitor, she was great, very sexual women, her life wasn't consumed with competing it wasn't constantly on her mind, she loved to train, being in shape, eat healthy, just a lifestyle...but like I said it was a healthy hobby, she didn't have body image issues or any type of mental issues, just a great person overall. I had a lot of good times with her, I couldn't hang with her fitness wise, we would go running and her jog was my sprint lol, swimming as well I couldn't hang, but it was cool to date someone where training was an actual date, instead of having previous girlfriends busting my balls about always going to the gym or having to rush my workouts so we could hang out. But I've had short hook ups with some bikini and figure chicks who where no doubt hot, but definitely not relationship material, lots of deep seeded issues, constant IG and Facebook posts, 99% of the pics either selfies or fitness or diet related, no normal photos in regular social settings. These things are definitely red flags..run and run fast broskis!