Don't get married

[The True Adonis]

Most guys marry the woman because they like fucking her and can tolerate her being around, once she gets ugly and/or the sex dries up, and there is no compatibility or personality underneath then it's just a matter of time.

You are a rather simple minded person (think animal like even) if you believe this to be true the majority of the time.

[Howard]

Yes, you can cherry pick and find some good marriages and good women, but the stats speak for themselves.  The divorce rate is closer to 60% than 50%.  I am not willing to risk my life savings for steady pussy.

Why does marriage and divorce have to = losing your life savings?
It doesn't have to be that way or result in children!

Good gravy man, marry a woman with a decent career.
If it ends, you split on fair, equal terms. Been there, done that.

[Howard]

You are a rather simple minded person (think animal like even) if you believe this to be true the majority of the time.

I agree. I know this sounds sappy, but my (current) wife and I plan on growing old together.
We are getting older and won't looks exactly the same . Ok, that's life and she my soul mate.

Sounds UN-getbig-like, but, the spark I see in her eyes when she looks at me never has to fade with age and vice versa.

[Army of One]

You are a rather simple minded person (think animal like even) if you believe this to be true the majority of the time.

Like someone said, 50% divorce rate, part of other 50% unhappy.I didn't say it's all about sex, I said if there is nothing under the sex, companionship, compatibility, respect etc, those relationships that were formed solely on sexual attraction are doomed.Why do you think it's so common that rich men trade in their older wife's for new ones?

[Fortress]

I think the dudes who I work with on my ship that are married have this marriage thing down, these dudes have wifes at home who they see 3 months a year, work on the ship the other 9, banging new girls all the time onboard, call the wife everyday, send money home...they truly love their wife and kids, the sex they have onboard is just meaningless and fun, but that's it. When they return home the wife is just so happy to see them and be with them, they are never around for long enough periods for the real marriage bullshit to settle in...then back to work for another 9 months, seems to be the perfect recipe

As long as you don't mind missing a majority of your kids' growing up and your wife getting her pussy smashed raw by a legion of pulsating cocks.

[Wiggs]

This is part of the reason you whites are dying off. You don't want to get married and have children. You're sealing your own fate.

[SF1900]

As long as you don't mind missing a majority of your kids' growing up and your wife getting her pussy smashed raw by a legion of pulsating cocks.

Exactly. Go 4 it is truly deluded if he thinks that many of these women are not having fun while their husbands are away 9 months out of the year.

[WalterWhite]

This is part of the reason you whites are dying off. You don't want to get married and have children. You're sealing your own fate.

Is this a better way?
Rate of African American Unwed Mothers Soars to 72 Percent.

http://www.blacknews.com/news/black_unwed_mothers101.shtml#.V4wN9lf0eRs

[drkaje]

Is this a better way?
Rate of African American Unwed Mothers Soars to 72 Percent.

http://www.blacknews.com/news/black_unwed_mothers101.shtml#.V4wN9lf0eRs

It's horrible and creates a constant supply of victims to help.

[Primemuscle]

Thanks. If one is called to have children it will be a "labor of love".
My wife and I were not called but accept others were.

"Traditional crap" is the stuff some couples "just do" because it's always been done in married life LOL.

I'm not a traditionalist....more of a rebel. LOL!

[Go 4 It]

Exactly. Go 4 it is truly deluded if he thinks that many of these women are not having fun while their husbands are away 9 months out of the year.

Haha..Im just saying these guys are a lot more happy then all the other married dudes I know (non ship workers)

[Primemuscle]

Yes, you can cherry pick and find some good marriages and good women, but the stats speak for themselves.  The divorce rate is closer to 60% than 50%.  I am not willing to risk my life savings for steady pussy.

Do you have any thoughts about why divorce is so high? It seems to have been on an upward spiral since WWII. Do you think women being able to earn as much as men and thus able to support themselves is a contributor to the high divorce rate?  

[Howard]

legion of pulsating cocks.

Now it's a party.

[Howard]

This is part of the reason you whites are dying off. You don't want to get married and have children. You're sealing your own fate.

Fear not as Trump had about 10 kids with 3 different supermodel white babes.
He's picking up the slack for us white dude staying childless by choice.

[Primemuscle]

This is part of the reason you whites are dying off. You don't want to get married and have children. You're sealing your own fate.

I apologize for stereotyping but don't many African America women have children sans marriage? CNN's Don Lemon says more than 72 percent of African-American births are out of wedlock. This being said, according to the National Vital Statistics Report, birth rates in the U.S. are declining across the board - with little difference based on race or ethnicity.

  

[Fortress]

Do you have any thoughts about why divorce is so high? Do you think women being able to earn as much as men, and thus able to support themselves, is a contributor to the high divorce rate?  

Absolutely. Females don't have the same capacity for loyalty, generally, that males do. As such, if fundamentals of survival can be obtained/achieved without the requirement of a man, her likelihood to remain with a single male diminishes, greatly.

If a woman has a good job and lives in a modern society, a male companion's worth is only in being just that, a companion. When/if the dude no longer satisfies her constantly-changing/-evolving emotional and physical needs, her enticement to "work it out" dwindles to ... shared memories?

For a broad, this is usually not near enough.

Joe Swingdick in her department at work now fits the required bill.

Your ass is out the door.

Sad but true.  

[Howard]

Granted, some couples were meant to be married and have happy, meaningful lives as parents.

What chaps my ass is how so many act like married with children is the ultimate existence for a happy life.

For example, I've known plenty of guys who were quite happy living a single life.
They develop feelings for some girl and think about "settling down*" with her.
That* means marriage, 2.2 children, 3 Br House w/mortgage and mini van in the driveway.

Why is it so all or none when it comes to married lifestyle vs single lifestyle?

Seriously, I never understood the desire for the 2 extreme lifestyles.
Why is being single associated with a partying, carefree lifestyle , living on the edge.
While married must equals a mind numbing existence raising kids riding around in a mini van?

[Primemuscle]

Absolutely. Females don't have the same capacity for loyalty, generally, that males do. As such, if fundamentals of survival can be obtained/achieved without the requirement of a man, her likelihood to remain with a single male diminishes, greatly.

If a woman has a good job and lives in a modern society, a male companion's worth is only in being just that, a companion. When/if the dude no longer satisfies her constantly-changing/-evolving emotional and physical needs, her enticement to "work it out" dwindles to ... shared memories?

For a broad, this is usually not near enough.

Joe Swingdick in her department at work now fits the required bill.

Your ass is out the door.

Sad but true.  

There is a lot of truth in what you say. My mom maintained that men 'fell' harder and were less likely to recover from a separation quickly than women were. For reasons I shouldn't go into, I believe she knew what she was talking about.

[Primemuscle]

Granted, some couples were meant to be married and have happy, meaningful lives as parents.

What chaps my ass is how so many act like married with children is the ultimate existence for a happy life.

For example, I've known plenty of guys who were quite happy living a single life.
They develop feelings for some girl and think about "settling down*" with her.
That* means marriage, 2.2 children, 3 Br House w/mortgage and mini van in the driveway.

Why is it so all or none when it comes to married lifestyle vs single lifestyle?

Seriously, I never understood the desire for the 2 extreme lifestyles.
Why is being single associated with a partying, carefree lifestyle , living on the edge.
While married must equals a mind numbing existence raising kids riding around in a mini van?

Marriage doesn't need to be all or none. A lot of unfortunate folks fall into the trap of believing this, which is why they often end up being unhappy and/or divorced. My wife and I definitely had an unconventional marriage compared to many during those times. I believe accepting each other, warts and all, was key to the success of our relationship.

[BIG ACH]

Married 10 years and have two kids... couldn't be happier in my life right now.

It's all about the mate you choose... yes if you choose someone who is an absolute fuck up you can't expect to have it end on a positive note.  Choose a woman who brings just as much to the table as you do, and I'm not talking financially. I'm talking everything.... emotionally, intelligence, care, fun.

Yeah it's not always a cake walk, yes there are ups and downs, yes many times you'll want to kill each other, but I wouldn't trade it for the world.

It's not for everyone, I've said that a million times, and if you want to stay single then good for you, enjoy it... nobody is putting a gun to your head and forcing you to get married.

I proposed to my wife the very next day after I graduated college and I never looked back.  She has been by my side countless times.... moved across  the world for me to a county she didn't want to live in because I wanted to pursue my career.  Then when I spent three and a half years doing my PhD, she was the primary bread winner in the house... but that never once changed the dynamics of things... overall financial management was still handled by me as it always has been, then when I finished she gave up her successful career because she wanted me to follow my dreams and again she  moved with me to Silicon Valley because we had a good opportunity out here.  When I was diagnosed with thyroid cancer she researched the shit out of it... and found me the best doctor in the country , and when we met with him and he was telling me about my surgery , I had only one question, she had like 25 and wanted to know every single detail because the man she loves was going through something tough, (my question was, how soon after the surgery can I lift?)

I haven't even talked about her family which treat me as their son and have truly been incredible to me.

I know on getbig it's not cool to talk about how much you love marriage... but I wouldn't trade it for the world.

I often tell my wife jokingly, that if I didn't have her and the kids, i would be rolling around in a brand new Corvette.  But honestly, I'll take my kids sitting on my lap and telling me they love me while they poop their diapers and their pee seeping through onto my clothes any day over the Corvette... which I'm certain I will still get one day

Whatever your choices are... I hope they make you happy!

[tom joad]

Getting married was the best decision that i've made in my life.
And deliberately waiting until i'd maxed out my prime single years was another great decision.

[Zillotch]

I'll take my kids sitting on my lap and telling me they love me while they poop their diapers and their pee seeping through onto my clothes

Whatever your choices are... I hope they make you happy!

I've never understood why people with a revolting appearance desire to produce offspring…. It's like giving your kid a mental 'kick in the balls' every day of its miserable, tormented existence.

Gee….. thanks, dad.

Is your wife super hot, or something?

[sync pulse]

I think the dudes who I work with on my ship that are married have this marriage thing down, these dudes have wifes at home who they see 3 months a year, work on the ship the other 9, banging new girls all the time onboard, call the wife everyday, send money home...they truly love their wife and kids, the sex they have onboard is just meaningless and fun, but that's it. When they return home the wife is just so happy to see them and be with them, they are never around for long enough periods for the real marriage bullshit to settle in...then back to work for another 9 months, seems to be the perfect recipe

[nzmusclemonster]

Reading between the lines, the anti marriage posters chose cheap sluts to marry and wonder why it didn't work out 

[2scared2post]

Has anyone else noticed the majority of guys who hate on marriage/relationships are ugly, deadbeats who struggle to talk to women, let alone date.