I will say that older women love a well built guy more so than younger women it seems. First off, if you are just big and have nothing else going for you, then you're not gonna have much luck with normal women. Fitness whores, yes, but they're far from normal. If you have a combination of being muscular, intelligent, good personality, sense of humor, and a good career, then you'll do much better. Women are pleasantly surprised when they see a muscular guy that can actually carry on a conversation, and destroy all the stereotypes about meat heads, etc. For fuck sakes don't dress like a douche either. If you're truly big and lean they can tell no matter what you wear. If you need to wear a skin tight shirt, or tank top so people know you workout, then you're not big, and you look like a moron that is trying to hard. All in all, muscles are very low on the list of things that will give you more luck with women..