what is a "woman over 40" and single, looking for in a partner ?
WooOSHHHHHHHH
Of course success, social status and money are the factors contributing to male attractiveness.
Studies say 10k increase in mans income compensates for x inches in height (I don't remember how much it was).
Guy with no job, not studying, no friends has very hard time finding a woman who would want to be seen with him.
If this is what you guys mean, then you are naturally right.
I just don't consider that being after the money. Women see achievements and status of men like we men see tits of women; integral part.