have you got a girlfriend yet?
I'm currently seeing 2 women just dating and going out to clubs and restaurants and going to the pub to throw some darts
one is an artist and she encourages me to draw as I got some talent there
don't really want an actual gf coz I don't want her to try and control me and being emotionally involved with someone makes me feel like a pussy
I just started practicing some boxing bout 6 weeks ago and it's damn cool for me, but the training and sparring is hard as shit and my coach doesn't want me doing "bodybuilding training" so we do functional stuff like kettle bell clean and press and medicine ball throws and the funny the is my arms and delts look the same or even better (better coz I'm ripped to fuck)
anyways seems you were right about the exercises not shaping muscles and that it's all genetics, so a tip of the hat to you old chap