Ok, I'm in the gym and this one guy who is a close "friend" told me something that sounds crazy.
Like me he's an older dude, close to 60.
His wife is pretty and sexy for her age and they were both divorced before they met.
Ok, he claims, that neither one of 'em ever had kids.
Then he says she's got a good career and makes more then him.
He even says they are equal partners. WTF? Sounds impossible.
I call bullshit. No man ever gets with a woman like that.
All woman want kids and to have the man pay most of the bills.
Thoughts?
If you accept women who want kids and the man to pay most of the bills, that's the women you'll find yourself ending up with.
It isn't a fluke that you've been through so many divorces. You are at least 50% of the problem, here - mostly likely more - you're the common denominator in ALL of those failed marriages and your expectations and your tastes in women comes into that.
It's just like how we all know a dude who has a domineering female partner. Doesn't matter if he breaks up with that one, you know he'll go and get the same type of girl, again

Changing is difficult.
My advice is that if that's the type of women you end up with, stay single, jerk it on a daily basis and have a fucking great time doing whatever hobbies you have.