Married ppl, don't you ever want to just dabble?

[10pints]

All I ever think about is fucking other women. I was in a meeting today, hot as fuck bird in it, didn't listen to half of what was said. I was just thinking about eating her ass and sucking her tits. Went to the gym, two hot bitches in there, great motivation! CORN!

[Howard]

I wonder if there has been a shift in behavior ever since the feminist movement,

Howard, yeah I agree, find a 6-7 out of 10 with decent brains. However, the career thing, while I typically am for, can go against you in that women get so empowered and wrapped up in their careers that they will fuck you over and neglect you over it

1. Woman no longer need to stay married to some douchebag now. Back before 1960, a woman had a rough time making it if she divorced or was a single mom. Now, a woman can earn a decent living independent of a man.

2. In my experience, it's a lot better to marry a woman with a good career/profession.
You double your household income and if you get divorced, you both just walk away.

[Howard]

All I ever think about is fucking other women. I was in a meeting today, hot as fuck bird in it, didn't listen to half of what was said. I was just thinking about eating her ass and sucking her tits. Went to the gym, two hot bitches in there, great motivation! CORN!

Sounds like you need to take some action or like me , jerk off and wish you could.

[El Diablo Blanco]

I think part of the problem why women cheat is that marriage is something ingrained into a woman's head that the MUST DO.  They have peer pressure from birth playing with dolls, pretending to marry Barbie and Ken and kids shows and cartoons for girls teaching them to get married and parents pushing it on them etc... Guys don't feel that pressure growing up.  Most guys get married because they love the chick they're with while women do it because they feel they have to. They see their friends doing it and want to fit it in.  It's okay for a guy to be single and fuck women daily but a woman being single fucking guys daily is seen as a slut, is wasting her life not have a kid and family etc...  So they get married despite wanting cock on the side.  They seem to lack that guilt in fucking other guys because they convince themselves that it's not emotional so its okay.

[residue]

go on feeld(used to be 3inder), have your wife find a non threatening girl for her or you both to fuck. watching a girl suffocate on your wife's pussy is going to be infinitely more satisfying than anything you can do solo. it's like deca for your marriage, wd40 the sex wheels

[Howard]

I think part of the problem why women cheat is that marriage is something ingrained into a woman's head that the MUST DO.  They have peer pressure from birth playing with dolls, pretending to marry Barbie and Ken and kids shows and cartoons for girls teaching them to get married and parents pushing it on them etc... Guys don't feel that pressure growing up.  Most guys get married because they love the chick they're with while women do it because they feel they have to. They see their friends doing it and want to fit it in.  It's okay for a guy to be single and fuck women daily but a woman being single fucking guys daily is seen as a slut, is wasting her life not have a kid and family etc...  So they get married despite wanting cock on the side.  They seem to lack that guilt in fucking other guys because they convince themselves that it's not emotional so its okay.

Good post and is dead on correct, except for the last conclusion.

EVERYTHING you said, EXCEPT for lack of guilt while screwing around is true.
As females get older they tend to change a LOT more then men.

You are 100% correct that most  woman buy into the whole "happily ever after" myth.
But after changing shitty diapers and seeing her Ken evolve into Al Bundy, she changes.

She goes one of 2 basic directions with her life:

1. She cuts her hair short, gains wt, dresses in Mom jeans and moo-moos.
She drives her brood and their friends to soccer games, etc.
Her twat gets dry and dusty as her disgust for her husband slowly grows.

2. She starts dropping the kids at the gym day care and hires a personal trainer.
She gets a boob job that her hubby pays for and dresses like a young hotty.
She's grown resentful of her husband and  checked out emotionally on the marriage.

She decides to stay married and let her husband support her and the kids.
With precision planning she begins to have affairs . She loves the attention she
gets from her new bf's and gossips about it to her closest friends.

The poor husband might suspect something , but, he likes having a hot wife.
To keep him happy she fakes orgasms on special occasions but his body repulses her.

[El Diablo Blanco]

Good post and is dead on correct, except for the last conclusion.

EVERYTHING you said, EXCEPT for lack of guilt while screwing around is true.
As females get older they tend to change a LOT more then men.

You are 100% correct that most  woman buy into the whole "happily ever after" myth.
But after changing shitty diapers and seeing her Ken evolve into Al Bundy, she changes.

She goes one of 2 basic directions with her life:

1. She cuts her hair short, gains wt, dresses in Mom jeans and moo-moos.
She drives her brood and their friends to soccer games, etc.
Her twat gets dry and dusty as her disgust for her husband slowly grows.

2. She starts dropping the kids at the gym day care and hires a personal trainer.
She gets a boob job that her hubby pays for and dresses like a young hotty.
She's grown resentful of her husband and  checked out emotionally on the marriage.

She decides to stay married and let her husband support her and the kids.
With precision planning she begins to have affairs . She loves the attention she
gets from her new bf's and gossips about it to her closest friends.

The poor husband might suspect something , but, he likes having a hot wife.
To keep him happy she fakes orgasms on special occasions but his body repulses her.

You contradict yourself.  You say they don't lack guilt but then say they love the attention and are repulsed by their husbands and stay with them for the money. Isn't this a perfect display of lack of guilt?

[Grape Ape]

You contradict yourself.  You say they don't lack guilt but then say they love the attention and are repulsed by their husbands and stay with them for the money. Isn't this a perfect display of lack of guilt?

Outed for reading Howard post.

[Howard]

You contradict yourself.  You say they don't lack guilt but then say they love the attention and are repulsed by their husbands and stay with them for the money. Isn't this a perfect display of lack of guilt?

Good point.

I meant they emotionally "check out " and do feel disgust for their husbands.
You might not consider that as "guilt" but it is a deep rooted emotion that drives them.

[Howard]

Outed for reading Howard post.

LOL, fuk that's funny 

[residue]

I think part of the problem why women cheat is that marriage is something ingrained into a woman's head that the MUST DO.  They have peer pressure from birth playing with dolls, pretending to marry Barbie and Ken and kids shows and cartoons for girls teaching them to get married and parents pushing it on them etc... Guys don't feel that pressure growing up.  Most guys get married because they love the chick they're with while women do it because they feel they have to. They see their friends doing it and want to fit it in.  It's okay for a guy to be single and fuck women daily but a woman being single fucking guys daily is seen as a slut, is wasting her life not have a kid and family etc...  So they get married despite wanting cock on the side.  They seem to lack that guilt in fucking other guys because they convince themselves that it's not emotional so its okay.

I know i live in a bubble(brooklyn\nyc), but every 20-30 year old... hipster..I've dated in the last 10 years have been
1) anti kids(they eventually change their stand)
2) bi
3) firmly against marriage
4) non-monogamous

I've been dating my gf for 7 years, we're going to get married but she doesn't want a ring, a wedding or a honeymoon(apart from our normal trips to the DR or costa rica), we are ethically non-monogamos(we fuck other women as a couple) we have access to each other phones, imessage, facebook messager, email, ect ect. I literally have not lied to her in years

[8 INCH not biceps]

They also seem to bounce back quicker.  Almost any relationship I've known that broke up, the women seems to move on faster than the man.  The man will wallow in self pity for months and a few days later the whore is already shacking up with another man.

This has being conditioned into the genes of women since the stone age, when a tribe attacks another tribe they would murder the men and take the women and add them to their litter of wives and they had to accept the new man so over time they learn to move on quickly.

[light weight baby]

I was really upset because she did without telling me so I could watch from the closet. LOL not really.

I was 21 yrs old and in the USMC when that shit happened.
It sucked and I spent a few nights staring at ceiling wondering WTF and feeling butt hurt.

That weekend I met up with another marine  I hadn't seen  since boot camp.
It was a cool black dude named Trent and we'd established a tight bond from our Paris Island ordeal.
After some catching up I told him what happened.
He slowly shook his head, grabbed my shoulder and looking me straight in eye said;
" You have to let her go marine. I'm sorry , but you have to let her go."

I looked down and softly replied ; " I know, I know..."

It sucked , it hurt, but it didn't defeat me or sour me on woman or marriage.

Life goes on for those who get back up.
 

that black guy probably fucked her as well

think about it

[Howard]

I know i live in a bubble(brooklyn\nyc), but every 20-30 year old... hipster..I've dated in the last 10 years have been
1) anti kids(they eventually change their stand)
2) bi
3) firmly against marriage
4) non-monogamous

I've been dating my gf for 7 years, we're going to get married but she doesn't want a ring, a wedding or a honeymoon(apart from our normal trips to the DR or costa rica), we are ethically non-monogamos(we fuck other women as a couple) we have access to each other phones, imessage, facebook messager, email, ect ect. I literally have not lied to her in years

Ok for starters I want to applaud you BOTH for having a successful relationship on YOUR OWN TERMS!

One thing my wife and I are unique on, is enjoying married life but never wanted kids.
For whatever reasons, most people think it absolutes and extremes.
It's be a free love hipster or be a traditional married couple with children.

Neither of us has any desire for threesomes, but, everyone has different desires.
It's clear to me, that you both enjoy a loving relationship as trusted partners.

I salute you both.

[Howard]

that black guy probably fucked her as well

think about it

I only saw 2 other dudes in the bed with her, so who knows. Hmmm, could have been a foursome?
He may have known when I'd come home and snuck out before I busted in on her.

[Tapeworm]

What is is what is.  Sexual monogamy isn't.  At least not so far. The best I can say is "You wouldn't only because there are consequences." 



But if the question is simply - Do you want to fuck that other woman?  Well no shit.  Are you kidding me?

Nowhere in the reckoning is love because there isn't actually such a thing.

[Grape Ape]

I know i live in a bubble(brooklyn\nyc), but every 20-30 year old... hipster..I've dated in the last 10 years have been
1) anti kids(they eventually change their stand)
2) bi
3) firmly against marriage
4) non-monogamous

I've been dating my gf for 7 years, we're going to get married but she doesn't want a ring, a wedding or a honeymoon(apart from our normal trips to the DR or costa rica), we are ethically non-monogamos(we fuck other women as a couple) we have access to each other phones, imessage, facebook messager, email, ect ect. I literally have not lied to her in years

Seems rather ideal.

I'm not anti-marriage/kids at all, but at the moment, you are a lucky bastard.

[Howard]

Seems rather ideal.

I'm not anti-marriage/kids at all, but at the moment, you are a lucky bastard.

I agree and don't understand why more people don't live on their own terms in a loving relationship?

[Tapeworm]

I agree and don't understand why more people don't live on their own terms in a loving relationship?

Maybe their own terms aren't also the other person's terms.

[Howard]

Maybe their own terms aren't also the other person's terms.

Been there/ done that

Been married to a couple different woman that changed and wanted kids a couple years into the marriage.
I never waivered and eventually divorced them .

I knew I couldn't change how they felt, and could only control how I'd live. Simple.

[Tapeworm]

Simple.

Guess it's simple if it's simple.  Damn.  And I thought I was icy.

[Primemuscle]

Damn, I ride the train every day, almost always a 8 or 9 around. How do you put your mind at ease when you're married. I've only been for 1.5 years and miss my single life. Fuck, then again, I also hated dealing with whores who at the end of the day didn't give a shit about you and just wanted your dick, money (wined and dined). Damn catch 22

They didn't really want your dick, they were just saying that to get the money (wined and dined).

[Howard]

Guess it's simple if it's simple.  Damn.  And I thought I was icy.

The basic decision and action is pretty simple.
Trust me, on an emotional level it was tough.

I was married to my 3rd wife for 8 years and adored her.
When we split and divorced I felt like I'd had part of me amputated.

My operating philosophy is: " You can't help how you FEEL, but you can control what you say and do."

After signing the final divorce papers I took her out to eat.
Then I wished her well, walked her to her car and proceeded to go out on a date with a new woman. 100% serious.

I'm no bad ass, but in all modesty, I'm a mentally tough bastard .
I don't fall apart or easily lose it. I've been thru my share of shit and not much phases me now.

[Primemuscle]

I'm no bad ass, but in all modesty, I'm a mentally tough bastard .
I don't fall apart or easily lose it. I've been thru my share of shit and not much phases me now.

This sometimes happens as we grow older.

[Howard]

This sometimes happens as we grow older.

Definitely !

These young tough guys have no idea.