Damn, I ride the train every day, almost always a 8 or 9 around. How do you put your mind at ease when you're married. I've only been for 1.5 years and miss my single life. Fuck, then again, I also hated dealing with whores who at the end of the day didn't give a shit about you and just wanted your dick, money (wined and dined). Damn catch 22
I constantly hear about guys complaining about the two extremes :
1. Married w/ kids 2. Single screwing whores.
I suspect I'm older and my wife and I were married before this rodeo.
In my opinion, having children is the real death sentence.
It's the one sure fire way to be tied together and owe $$ for many years.
I suggest getting involved with an attractive woman that has a decent career and no kids.
My (current) wife is my partner and had a great career and like me , never wanted kids.
I can't or won't advise you on what to do in your marriage because I've never met you.
BUT, for most guys they need to realize if it sucks now, it will feel worse as time goes on.
Get out now and regroup may be the best course of action. Your call?