There has been a period of time where whites tried to jump through hoops to sort of prove they weren't racist. You know the whole "I have a black friend" thing. Well most whites don't care anymore. We've been falsely accused of being racist so much that it doesn't matter to us anymore. At the end of the day the vast majority of us go to work, obey the law, mind our own business and get on with our lives. When we turn on the news we constantly see more rhetoric about how we are evil and privileged. Usually most of us at some point have a coworker or friend who is black and it works out just fine....doesn't really change anything. So at this point, my response to anyone who is fixated on this race thing is a simple "fuck you, believe I'm racist or don't because I don't care".