the problem with bodybuilding is it's rooted in being unsatisfied with the way you look and possibly compensating for flaws, in other words lack of self confidence which females hate
most guys have no probem taking off their shirt at the beach even if they look like shit, many guys that work out don't want to go to the beach if their stomach is flat but abs aren't visible
this is not attractive in the eyes of females, they can smell your insecurity a mile away
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