I happen to know this guy and he's a great person. I did rehab with his cousin. He's kind, thoughtful, and considerate. He frequently donates money to animal rescues. I've known of him buying Christmas gifts for a local neighborhood family with kids, because they were experiencing serious financial issues. He's a good friend to anyone who knows him, and he's on good terms with all of his previous girlfriends - with the exception of one - who has a personal history of unstable and vindictive behavior. She has broken into his bank accounts, email accounts, social networking accounts, and stalked, harassed, and threatened him, and his close friends. He has been nice enough to try and reason with her and made several efforts to convince her to seek treatment/help. He's not her first victim. this is a pattern for this woman.