Cheating

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I thought this would be about cheat curls and cheat lifts.............just get laid bro. 

I'm dieting, I thought it was about pizza

[Al Doggity]

I'm dieting, I thought it was about pizza

Would these have been better topics? Everyone used to complain about my junkfood and deadlift threads.

[HockeyFightFan]

If you can't manage a wife and a couple of girlfriends on the side, you're not really trying. This is what successful men do. It's our right. Monogamy is for the simpletons who don't cheat on their taxes.

Exactly, I'm a single guy. While these married cucks are tossing and turning at night worried about the guilt of cheating I'm in a hotel somewhere tossing their wife's salad without remorse.

So when you kiss her good morning after her "girls night out" you will know why her lips taste salty.

[el numero uno]

For a good, lasting marriage, I suggest everyone to read trough Howard's post history and then go and do the complete opposite.

[Slapper]

Exactly, I'm a single guy. While these married cucks are tossing and turning at night worried about the guilt of cheating I'm in a hotel somewhere tossing their wife's salad without remorse.

So when you kiss her good morning after her "girls night out" you will know why her lips taste salty.

Fuck yeah! USA! USA! USA!

[bigmc]

if you have children

then cheating is off the table

put your kids welfare first

its that simple

[Ronnie Rep]

if you have children

then cheating is off the table

put your kids welfare first

its that simple

Definitely a powerful factor to keep from straying.

[Mr Anabolic]

Very very good thread. I was an absolute prick to women when younger, I cheated on every girl I was with, sometimes having two or three girlfriends at once. It's not worth the mental torture. Even without guilt you have to remember your lies and constantly dodge getting caught. Not worth it when you're a grown man. When you're younger it's a bit of a laugh and you get that shit out of your system. The grass is not always greener.

Biologically speaking, this is what you are supposed to do.

[Mr Anabolic]

Marriage is grand!
Divorce is 50 grand. 

50 grand?... that's cheap.  My one friend who got divorced recently had to give her half his bank account (100K) and give her his brand new car and sell the house and split the proceeds... she got close to 350K total.  $50 grand is a bargain.

[Soul Crusher]

50 grand?... that's cheap.  My one friend who got divorced recently had to give her half his bank account (100K) and give her his brand new car and sell the house and split the proceeds... she got close to 350K total.  $50 grand is a bargain.

Friend of mine spent 175k in divorce court. 

[10pints]

Go fuck a high class whore. See how you feel. No one will ever know except you and her, and she's not gonna be telling. Get it out of your system. The world will not end, your marriage will still be there, no one suffers (except you, if the guilt gets you).

[bigmc]

50 grand?... that's cheap.  My one friend who got divorced recently had to give her half his bank account (100K) and give her his brand new car and sell the house and split the proceeds... she got close to 350K total.  $50 grand is a bargain.

wiggs is on welfare

if he divorced it would be a fight over food coupons

[Tapeworm]

People get tired of fucking each other.  Maybe they have other things that count and they don't want to lose that but people get tired of fucking each other.

[Mr Anabolic]

Friend of mine spent 175k in divorce court.  

The main contributing factor to divorce, is marriage.  

Men (especially young ones) need to think more critically.  They need to stop letting their glands make the plans and being dazzled/controlled by pussy.  It's very costly in the end.  There's always an ending and it's usually a bad one.

[Ronnie Rep]

Friend of mine spent 175k in divorce court. 

I have been involved in some very big public divorces. Bernie Kosar, Nicky Taylor etc. Messy and expensive.

[NordicNerd]

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How you doing, getbig? You managing to stay faithful without a struggle? Is it hard, but you manage? Feel free to share some words of wisdom

Never felt like cheating on my wife before I decided the marriage was dead after 20 years together. Now I am divorced. Should have divorced before cheating. The cheating caused a shitstorm that treatened the relationship to  my friends, my children. It even threatened my career. Cheating can ruin your life, so think carefully before doing it.

NN

[El Diablo Blanco]

If you're asking if you should do it then mentally you're weak and are not capable of handling the aftermath.  Just cut your losses and be good to your wife and family and just jerk off to porn anytime you're horny.

[residue]

I've always considered myself a faithful, monogamous guy and have preferred relationships to playing the field since I was in my mid20s, but it has been harder and harder to convince myself not to stray lately.    I've never cheated in the past. Before I got married, I would just break it off with whatever girl I was seeing. Even if I had something lined up, I would wait til I was out of one relationship.  

I don't love my wife less than I did a few years ago and I love my little family unit, but just slipping in a one night stand here and there is becoming an all consuming thought. I just keep cycling through the same arguments: every relationship comes to this point, she'll either have to forgive me or we'll both just have to move on with our lives, etc...

I started doing this thing about a year ago- whenever I'm near an attractive woman in a place where it's reasonable to start a conversation (like in line at a store or on an elevator), I give her a compliment on her outfit. Nothing lewd and no expectations beyond that. Almost all of them choose to continue having a conversation. And within 5-10 minutes, at least half of them offer their phone numbers or a way to get in touch with them on social media. They always see my wedding ring. Occasionally, I'll accept, but I've never contacted any of them. I guess I told myself it was innocent when I first started, but I never would have done it at the beginning of my marriage and it's sort of like an addiction now.


How you doing, getbig? You managing to stay faithful without a struggle? Is it hard, but you manage? Feel free to share some words of wisdom.



(OP Note: No offense, Howard, but if you were considering posting in this thread, please don't.)

is your wife boring? if not hop on feeld\tinder and find a bitch for you 2 to tagteam

[Ronnie Rep]

Truly believe there is absolutely no reason to get married unless you plan to have children.

[Simple Simon]

Truly believe there is absolutely no reason to get married unless you plan to have children.

why do you have to get married to have children?

[Dave D]

Bro have you considered not talking to these girls? Why are you flirting with the idea? You're actively seeking this out, don't think for a minute that dudes are hitting on your wife and she's shooting them down.

Just because you can pull these chicks doesnt mean you should. It doesn't matter if 60% of the peoe you know are on their second family. Is that what you want? Are you prepared for that headache? 50% of the population gets cancer at one point, it doesn't mean you want to go through chemo.

If you're over your marriage stay true to yourself,  end it but don't cheat.

Good luck.

[Soul Crusher]

why do you have to get married to have children?

You don't have to - but its better for the kids if you care about how they are going to be raised and brought up. 

   

[10pints]

Bro have you considered not talking to these girls? Why are you flirting with the idea? You're actively seeking this out, don't think for a minute that dudes are hitting on your wife and she's shooting them down.

Just because you can pull these chicks doesnt mean you should. It doesn't matter if 60% of the peoe you know are on their second family. Is that what you want? Are you prepared for that headache? 50% off the population gets cancer at one point, it doesn't mean you want to go through chemo.

If you're over your marriage stay true to yourself,  end it but don't cheat.

Good luck.

Another reason to get that hot pussy whilst you can!

[Ronnie Rep]

You don't have to - but its better for the kids if you care about how they are going to be raised and brought up. 

   

Bingo.

[CalvinH]

why do you have to get married to have children?

Easier for insurance bills.


OP should give out wife's digits if he decides to cheat, after all it's only fair!