I'm confused ?

[Howard]

Ok, most here know well my marriage/divorce record.
I'm confused...
Hmmm, so what exactly do get-biggers advise in these situations?

[Parker]

Define "what she wanted". That is open ended.
Did she want ice cream? Did she want a new house? A boat?

[el numero uno]

If you are expecting Getbig to show respect to anyone, yes, then you are indeed confused.

[Fred Zeppelin]

Ok, the first 2 wanted kids a few years AFTER we got married.
I never did. No way to compromise that, so we divorced.
I've seen plenty of guys give in and have the kids when the wife wants it.

The last ex wanted to have an "open marriage" and  live in separate places during the work week.
I wasn't comfortable with that arrangement , so I felt divorce was the only option left.
Again, I've seen plenty of men and woman "look the other " way .
They just accept their spouse screwing around and refuse to let them go and divorce.

I can put up with plenty of differences, BUT, I won't be used or just go along on major issues.
In my opinion, most guys that stay and accept "whatever" are the ultimate beta wimps.

You are actually a child.

[The Ugly]

You're not sure you're confused or just fuzzy on punctuation?

[Schnauzer]

I don't know how or why, so many men just "take it" .
Why do so many men allow a woman to pressure them into doing things they don't want?
From having kids to taking jobs they hate, I've seen plenty of men just going along with her. WTF?

At my wife's Christmas office party I met a real pathetic character.
He was a CPA with a decent income and worked out.
After a few drinks he confessed he hated his marriage and his 12 yr old son was a spoiled brat.
In fact,  he last had sex with his wife 7 years ago and they slept in separate rooms.
Why he stayed married was a real mystery to me.

[Grape Ape]

Howard's just looking for a new angle to discuss the same fucking subject he's brought up 500 times.

[Fred Zeppelin]

Ok, so what would an "adult" have done in my situation?
Thanks

An adult wouldn't be in your situation.

[chaos]

Ok, most here know well my marriage/divorce record.
I don't care if other get-biggers agree with my decisions or not.
But something makes me confused?

1.If I stayed with the same wife and did whatever she wanted, I'd  (correctly)
be declared a " beta cuck".

2. Nope, I did what I believed was best , refused to bow to some woman's
demands. I kept my balls and got divorced.
For THAT a majority of get-biggers are quite critical of me.  WTF

Ok, you're a beta-cuck for staying married OR a fuktard loser for getting divorced.
I'm confused...
Hmmm, so what exactly do get-biggers advise in these situations?

Ever try to just keep your personal life......uh.....persona l?

[Parker]

Ok, the first 2 wanted kids a few years AFTER we got married.
I never did. No way to compromise that, so we divorced.
I've seen plenty of guys give in and have the kids when the wife wants it.

The last ex wanted to have an "open marriage" and  live in separate places during the work week.
I wasn't comfortable with that arrangement , so I felt divorce was the only option left.
Again, I've seen plenty of men and woman "look the other " way .
They just accept their spouse screwing around and refuse to let them go and divorce.

I can put up with plenty of differences, BUT, I won't be used or just go along on major issues.
In my opinion, most guys that stay and accept "whatever" are the ultimate beta wimps.

Well, let's see, women tend to want kids. Did you state before hand that you didn't want kids? If you did, chances are, they were thinking that you would change your mind or that they could change your mind or that you were not serious.

you need to explain the last one. Was this gradual, did you know that she was like that? Or was she frustrated?

[chaos]

R U serious? LOL
C'mon now, with all the crap people have posted on here about their lives.

Then why cry about the criticism?
Weakest Marine I've ever encountered.

[HockeyFightFan]

Ok, most here know well my marriage/divorce record.
I don't care if other get-biggers agree with my decisions or not.
But something makes me confused?

1.If I stayed with the same wife and did whatever she wanted, I'd  (correctly)
be declared a " beta cuck".

2. Nope, I did what I believed was best , refused to bow to some woman's
demands. I kept my balls and got divorced.
For THAT a majority of get-biggers are quite critical of me.  WTF

Ok, you're a beta-cuck for staying married OR a fuktard loser for getting divorced.
I'm confused...
Hmmm, so what exactly do get-biggers advise in these situations?

You're a beta cuck fucktard loser and probably a closet homo

[HockeyFightFan]

Fair point .

I know it's get big, and we get a lot of a goof posts here.
BUT, most getbiggers seem fairly consistent on various "issues".

I was confused why most here cracked on me , regardless of what I did .

I'd expect get biggers to make fun of anyone that was a beta wimp and let a
woman lord over him.

BUT, they make fun of me MORE for refusing to take it from a woman. WTF?

Because none of the shit you spew is believable

[El Diablo Blanco]

Good reply and questions:

Oh yeah, the first two told me they didn't want kids BEFORE we got married many times.
Obviously, they lied and secretly assumed I'd eventually change .
Trust me, they tried to pressure and guilt trip me into changing. I didn't.
Unlike some men, they couldn't manipulate me AFTER we got married.

The last ex GRADUALLY got bored with the married lifestyle.
After 6-7 years she wanted to live like a single woman again.
That was unacceptable for me, so I divorced her after a year of civil debate, with a cool head.

You probably know this but the last one fucked numerous guys while you were married. She got tired of hiding it and let you know what she wanted because she thought you were a little bitch who would give her the benefits of being married while she openly sucked other cock.  How have you not committed suicide yet?

[Tapeworm]

You're not sure you're confused or just fuzzy on punctuation?

   Howard is a very confused young man.

[mazrim]

My basic impression is that most get biggers ( not all)
are beta wimps, when it comes to dealing with woman.

I've seen countless guys get run around by their wives or gf's.
They talk ( post) a tough game , but I know different.

A man gets married and allows the wife to "talk him into shit".
Several guy friends felt like me about having kids.
THEN, they allow the wife to pressure them into having them.

A few men, love being dads and have wonderful, lasting marriages.

A bigger % end up stressed and rarely have sex with their wife.
They take it and either cheat on the side or jerk off to a lot of porn.
Either way, they grow to resent the wife and vice versa.

Some get divorced and pay child support.
Of that group, most meet a bitter ex-wife in some mall parking lot.
There she switches out the kids  and he's a single dad for the weekend.

People can call me whatever name they want.
My lifestyle choices may not work for others.
I've  lived by MY values with few regrets.

You hate your life that is clear.

[Fred Zeppelin]

Huh?

So adults don't get married and grow apart on some major life issue?

Like I said, you're a child. Grow up.

[HockeyFightFan]

Ok, so if I stayed married and just let the wife make the rules, I'm a real man?
Hmmm, count me out on that deal.

Same tired old schtick every day

You're worse than Shizzo

[Chubz]

unfortunately marriage can be like a prison sentence if you are not with the right partner. I was married for 12 years and it was terrible, there only thing good was my 2 sons. I don't get men that jump right back into the fire before understanding themselves, it will only end up in divorce again. I found with someone that I can communicate with and is understanding of my manly needs, which I thinks the most important thing to ME, wether she feels like it or not, she takes care of me and makes me feel important. Good luck out there its tough

[The Keto Kid]

[cephissus]

Don't be confused Howard.  People are resentful, they love the tiny satisfaction they get from making vengeful comments.  This is why your choice doesn't matter.

[Henda]

Well, for starters, I walked in on my 1st wife, in bed with 2 other dudes.
I was active duty USMC and it was a VERY tough time, emotionally.

Yup, the last one ran around and eventually 'fessed up about it.
I'm not ashamed to admit that I adored her BUT she broke my heart.

After the divorce, I met my current wife.
She's my angel    and I was blessed to have her become my wife.
It's 5  GREAT yrs of marriage now and I'll do my best to make this one last.
She's pretty, smart and we're on the same page with most major issues.

It's good you were able to find happiness after your bad experiences of marriage, I'd have given up and lived a life alone with the odd whore or prostitute. That's my actual plan if I ever split for wor lass

[wes]

Fuck this thread I can`t be arsed to read all this shit.


Notice my British lineage by using the word arsed!   LOL 

[Sokolsky]

Howard, you're a beta cuck because you first got beta cucked by your first wife, and subsequently by all your other 'conquests'.
Now you're trolling for the cock and beta cuck'ing for attention on a message board. Your lifestories are mediocre at best, just like your reflection on it.
Perhaps you should take some time to spend on yourself, maybe find a hobby or two. Go see the world or something. Anything is better than playing out the same old shtick of you talking about your previous/current marriages trying to assert yourself, whilst failing to see the irony in seeking validation from everyone and everything. You're like a cuck personified, and no, Howard, that is not a good thing, nor is it midly interesting or entertaining.

[Kahn.N.Singh]

Well, for starters, I walked in on my 1st wife, in bed with 2 other dudes.
I was active duty USMC and it was a VERY tough time, emotionally.

Howard, I didn't know this, and am very sorry for your heartache. Shit happens, and no one can truly look into a partner's heart and mind; especially, when she's giving you the horns with unabashed alacrity. Given your interest in math and science, I'm sure you are familiar with the great 19th century French mathematician Monsieur Humilié Cucuault, and what has come down to us as Cucuault's Theorem, which states that 2 is the inverse proportion of ½. How so, and what does this have to do with your perfidious wife putting antlers on your head?

Well, Cucuault demonstrated that what would normally be taken as attributing a whole (i.e., 1, a pie, a real man, etc.), but is deficiently present as only one half of that whole (i.e., .5, half pie, you, etc.) requires a doubling, or multiplication by 2, to become whole again. So, you see, 2 men in bed was mathematically required to make up for your conjugal inadequacy. Interesting, right?!