Need some help...

[Jamaal]

Not sure if many recall, but was posting regarding a Vegas vacation a while back (as well as over posting 24/7, while in downtime).

However, here is the situation.

Lady split with me, a mere week prior to this vacation that was bought and purchased in full by myself, for the two of us.

Were together for years, and had many events planned.

There's no other guy involved, just family disgruntled with her situation - and put a perpetual strain on us.

Her patience wore thin on this.

She left, blocked/disconnected from communication.

Now 3 days later, here sitting wondering what to do. Already tried reaching out - but if someone doesn't want to answer, that's that.

Any insight would be appreciated; true insight - and not just all Getbig fun.

Thank you

 

[JimmyJam1974]

She getting the black snake

[Twaddle]

Vegas > Gamble > Hookers

[The Keto Kid]

Go to Vegas, blow off some steam dude, hit City Athletic Club catch a workout with Jay Cutler and Hide, then spend your nights in the clubs, gamble, bang chicks, hit some buffets. Have fun!

[FREAKgeek]

Never a girl. This is a scripted bromance invitation.

[Jamaal]

Twaddle and Keto Kid - both sound reasonable, minus the girls.

Not sure what Getbig will think of this, but there's no interest in other women right now. Apparently, in love. Now a bit confused on how to move forward.

Ultimately, going is the better idea? She has off work still that week of the trip. Suppose staying around doing nothing at home will just make the mind wonder what she is up to?

[visualizeperfection]

OP is trollin' for a little sausage.

[Jamaal]

OP is trollin' for a little sausage.

Usually would get a laugh out of this...

Borderline depressed from it all actually.

Not a guy who is usually sad.

This is something else.

Perhaps Getbig isn't the best place for this type of question... but optimism always prevails.

[El Diablo Blanco]

I have the hookups to the best clubs in vegas.  Can get us in VIP to Sunday Night Swim at XS Encore.  Since you paid change the ticket to my name and we'll have a blast.

[JimmyJam1974]

I have the hookups to the best clubs in vegas.  Can get us in VIP to Sunday Night Swim at XS Encore.  Since you paid change the ticket to my name and we'll have a blast.

Sweaty love in Vegas

[visualizeperfection]

Usually would get a laugh out of this...

Borderline depressed from it all actually.

Not a guy who is usually sad.

This is something else.

Perhaps Getbig isn't the best place for this type of question... but optimism always prevails.

Well then.

I would just go workout. Have a few beer. Spend some money on bullshit. Get laid.

[johnnynoname]

here's the advice


get a life...do something

first and foremost- NO WOMAN (at least- no woman of worth) does not a man who's life is dominated by the "omg- why isn't she texting me back".....


actually, I should go on but fact is you just need to move on and do something with your life

[The Wizard of Truth]

Real advice. It may not seem like it now but there are tons more great women out there. Go on holidays, enjoy yourself, don't get smashed drunk or depression may set in. Enjoy single life.

[Jamaal]

here's the advice


get a life...do something

first and foremost- NO WOMAN (at least- no woman of worth) does not a man who's life is dominated by the "omg- why isn't she texting me back".....


actually, I should go on but fact is you just need to move on and do something with your life

Sad to say, but she got upset when asked what she was doing at her moms all day, if there were people over, etc...

Said she didn't have patience.

[johnnynoname]

Sad to say, but she got upset when asked what she was doing at her moms all day, if there were people over, etc...

Said she didn't have patience.

so, what's that have to do with your life

your response is too much "she" and not any "me"


you're too needy, bro

[Jamaal]

Real advice. It may not seem like it now but there are tons more great women out there. Go on holidays, enjoy yourself, don't get smashed drunk or depression may set in. Enjoy single life.

Thank you for the words of wisdom.

Avoiding alcohol in general... don't want depression setting in worse.

[Jamaal]

so, what's that have to do with your life

your response is too much "she" and not any "me"


you're too needy, bro

 

Perhaps.

So, no contacting... is really the only way to redeem myself even if she doesn't come back.

[johnnynoname]

you're beta af


EDIT: and I don't say the above in a insulting way; You're just very needy (as I said previously) and the time you've wasted on this girl was time you could have used on doing something of worth

[The Wizard of Truth]

Perhaps.

So, no contacting... is really the only way to redeem myself even if she doesn't come back.

Wrong attitude. She fucked you around so you shouldn't allow her back even if she begs.

[Jamaal]

you're beta af


EDIT: and I don't say the above in a insulting way; You're just very needy (as I said previously) and the time you've wasted on this girl was time you could have used on doing something of worth

Understood.

Found myself saying sorry in the last week, and yes. It is perceived as beta.

Just got nervous

[The Wizard of Truth]

Understood.

Found myself saying sorry in the last week, and yes. It is perceived as beta.

Just got nervous

Seriously man, if a woman thinks you want her back bad after she fucked you around and you say sorry to her and keep messaging her she will know you're always there if she wants you and be in no rush to get back with you. Go to Vegas, go out with your friends, train hard and eat well, there's tons of women out there. Make her want you back. Then say no. Then fuck her proper. Then leave her again.

[Jamaal]

Seriously man, if a woman thinks you want her back bad after she fucked you around and you say sorry to her and keep messaging her she will know you're always there if she wants you and be in no rush to get back with you. Go to Vegas, go out with your friends, train hard and eat well, there's tons of women out there. Make her want you back. Then say no. Then fuck her proper. Then leave her again.

This is great wisdom. Thank you.

Only thing about "make her want you" is that she blocked all communications... immediately while she left. So, the no contacting her would essentially be her only question mark as to why she would ever reach out: her curiosity.

[The Wizard of Truth]

This is great wisdom. Thank you.

Only thing about "make her want you" is that she blocked all communications... immediately while she left. So, the no contacting her would essentially be her only question mark as to why she would ever reach out: her curiosity.

She will unblock you when she hears you're doing great and enjoying yourself. Women will NOT go for you when they KNOW they can have you easily, you will then be seen by them as their easy option 2. Women love the chase too, that's why they put so much effort into make up and clothes and their hair and shitty excitement of winning over a man. You're appearing all easy to get. Not a good way to be viewed.

[Jamaal]

She will unblock you when she hears you're doing great and enjoying yourself. Women will NOT go for you when they KNOW they can have you easily, you will then be seen by them as their easy option 2. Women love the chase too, that's why they put so much effort into make up and clothes and their hair and shitty excitement of winning over a man. You're appearing all easy to get. Not a good way to be viewed.

While there's doubt she will hear what I'm up to... perhaps curiosity will get her sooner than not.

Brutally honest: your last two sentences are spot on.

Dang.

[Jamaal]

The only thing cant wrap my head around; even if it was needy; why give up right before Vegas and not after?