In all seriousness, if somebody wronged you or someone you love to big enough degree, would you not want to physically hurt them?
I dont put myself in positions where people are out to wrong me, neither do the people close to me.
If someone harmed my family then I would likely want to do something to them, thats not a fight though is it?
Esfitness obviously goes around provoking the situations.
If someone walked up to me in a bar and threatened me i would just ignore it, Im the better man you see, I wouldnt stoop to their level, if they hit me however i would hit them back.
most situations occur because someone wont back down, why would you care about what some meathead thinks of you?
the only time i would use violence is if I was in no position to walk away.